Schopenhauer said: True happiness has little to do with money.
Women's attitude towards money determines their height.
In the TV series "Three Lives Have The Lucky To Meet You" starring Wang Likun, Huang Jingyu, Wang Ce and Cheng Zheng, there are 5 women from different families, who have 5 different views on money.
5 women 5 different views of money: Wu Eleven
Wu Shiyi (played by Wang Likun) is a female bodyguard. Wu Eleven was born into an ordinary family, and her parents divorced when she was very young.
Mom was a liturgist and Dad was a cleaner. In Wu Eleven's growing impression, her parents have been arguing non-stop, and she can only choose her father or mother for the New Year every New Year.
Although the parents have long-term personality discord, their love for their daughter is indeed pure.
Wu Eleven is a self-aware, self-respecting, independent, self-aware, measured and atmospheric girl. She never thought about being a full-time housewife after marriage, reaching out to her husband for money.
After learning that her husband cheated in marriage, Wu Eleven quickly cut through the mess and decisively stopped the loss in time. Her atmosphere is reflected in the fact that she also blessed her ex-husband and his current wife in front of everyone.
Wu Eleven has always been very measured around the Marquis (played by Huang Jingyu), never inquiring about each other's private affairs, let alone provoking dissension.
For money, Wu Eleven has always maintained an attitude: self-reliance. A gentleman loves money and has a way, which is also her attitude towards money.
Obviously, she wants to pay off her father's debts, but she still wants to rely on herself step by step.
02: Qian Xiaoyan
Qian Xiaoyan (played by Cheng Zheng) was born in an ordinary family in a small county. As the only daughter in the family, Qian Xiaoyan did not enjoy special treatment, but has always considered herself to be sensible.
Qian Xiaoyan's parents are different from others, they will call their daughters at the end of each month to pay for money. In order to have face in his hometown, he also bought a house in his hometown and let his daughter pay a monthly payment.
The most ironic thing is that Qian Xiaoyan actually did not feel that his parents had no sense of boundaries, but took pleasure in it.
Qian Xiaoyan also enjoyed the pride of her parents in front of her relatives. Parents brought their aunt and a large group of people to play, and Qian Xiaoyan also warmly received them.
Over the years, she has become accustomed to her parents' style, but she has forgotten her own happiness. Why Qian Xiaoyan rarely laughs and always has a serious look, it is because she has never been really happy.
For money, she has longed since she was a child to be able to live in a large villa and drive a luxury car. To find a rich man, this is also Qian Xiaoyan's dream since childhood.
Because only rich men can afford to support their large family.
03: Huang Yue
Huang Yue, born in a well-off family, her parents desperately wanted her to study abroad. It is also to make her live a better life.
Abroad, she met the Marquis of Fu'er Dai (played by Huang Jingyu). Since then, they have begun a love affair for 3 years.
Huang Yue is a very realistic girl, following the rich second generation marquis in and out of various high-end hotels, traveling to various places, and buying various famous brands.
As soon as she returned home after graduation, Huang Yue immediately threw herself into the arms of other men. It turned out that the Marquis's father used 1 million yuan to let Huang Yue leave his son the Marquis.
For 1 million, Huang Yue decisively chose divorce. 1 million yuan and love, on her scale, the former is heavier.
Instead of choosing real money for an uncertain marriage in the future.
In her view of money, she can sell her love for money.
04: Fang Lu
Fang Lu, she was born in an ordinary family. Ordinary-looking she has a dream of stars, and since she was a child, she has longed to meet rich people through this way and find a long-term meal ticket.
By chance, she met the Marquis. The Marquis is definitely the best candidate among the rich second generation that Fang Lu can contact, rich, beautiful, Sven, upright and kind.
The Marquis gave her a 5-figure necklace that made her smile.
This made Fang Lu even more determined to marry into the rich, in order to be able to marry into the rich, Fang Lu pretended to be simple in front of the marquis, and deliberately made Ji let Wu Eleven leave the marquis.
Later, she naturally suffered the consequences.
Fang Lu also has her own bottom line for money. She wasn't willing to take shortcuts for money.
05 Chen Chen
Chen Chen has been a pampered and habitual Bai Fumei since she was a child, and her parents have children before giving birth to her, and they are very doting on her.
Chen Chen and the Marquis are green plum bamboo horses, grew up together, and the two families are family friends.
For money, Chen Chen did not value it at all, she preferred to lie flat. With the country that her father had laid for her, she could indeed lie flat and enjoy it all.
For money is not lacking at all, Chen Chen has always believed that money can buy love. In her world, as long as there is money, nothing cannot be done.
Profligate, this is also Chen Chen's view of money.
Parents determine how happy their daughter's marriage is
Parents can determine the marital happiness of their daughters.
Let's start with Wu Eleven. Although the parents are divorced, their love for their daughters is not less. The only deficiency was that they went directly to the man's hotel to live in the man's hotel without any relationship between Lan Qi and his daughter Wu Eleven, and also accepted the clothes sent by the other party.
However, they are better than Qian Xiaoyan's parents, and at least they will care if their daughter is really tired.
Between the son-in-law Lan Qi and the Marquis, Mother Wu is also very enlightened, hoping that the two people will compete fairly and see who is better for her daughter Wu Eleven.
As parents, they sincerely wish their daughters happiness.
Compared with Wu Eleven, Qian Xiaoyan's parents are diametrically opposed, they are more concerned about their own happiness and face, and they have no concern about their daughter's difficulties in the big city.
Qian Xiaoyan accepted Hou Zhirong's large villa and luxury car, so that his parents had full face in front of their relatives. After Qian Xiaoyan's mother saw the big villa and the luxury car, she directly asked her daughter to accept Hou Zhirong without anyone seeing it.
Such a mother is obviously selfish.
The behavior of Qian Xiaoyan's parents also directly determines the happiness of their daughter's future marriage. Qian Xiaoyan was walking step by step to Hou Zhirong's golden wire cage, and her parents thought that their daughter was happy, but they did not know that they were forcing their daughter step by step to the "abyss".
Huang Yue, who is also a filial daughter, got 1 million yuan from Hou Zhirong, she only left a part of the store, and the rest was given to her parents.
This also shows that Huang Yue's parents are also a realistic elder. Later, Huang Yue married a potential stock dentist and suddenly crossed from a well-off to the middle class.
This is also the influence of her parents on her.
Fang Lu and the Marquis naturally had no results, and she chose to go home to accompany her parents instead of choosing to go abroad to take shortcuts. From here, it can be seen that parents are elders with a very positive view of one and three views.
Chen Chen's father is a rich boss, who has been spoiled by his daughter since he was a child, and as long as his daughter looks up to him, he will fight for it at all costs.
Such a father invisibly affects the daughter's marriage. Such a delicate woman is basically not too happy in marriage.
Among these five women, Wu Eleven will definitely have the happiest marriage, and she also has the most correct view of money. Huang Yue and Fang Lu are both people who love money, but they have their own bottom line and cannot be criticized.
Because of the difference between parents and the concept of money, Qian Xiaoyan and Chen Chen's marriage will definitely be bumpy. Chen Chen, as a white rich beauty, has lived a life like a princess since she was a child, and has not bothered about money. Money is her tool to solve all her problems.
In Qian Xiaoyan and Chen Chen's concept, money can solve all problems. But she forgot that money has nothing to do with happiness.
Women with the right view of money are indifferent to money.
Jin Yuxi said: A successful life is respected, career success, health and love.
Rich people understand that happiness is never about money.