Miss Truth has always been a very generous girl, eating, drinking, using, wearing, and sharing with inexplicable joy. But this happiness seems to be instilled by adults, "sharing the rose hand to leave the afterscent". Under the premise of "happy", sharing is fine. But I don't know when it began, Miss Truth subconsciously said the words in her heart, "Everything has a choice, I choose not to share." ”
Some people's charm may be to know how to refuse anything they don't want, and to refuse to be morally kidnapped to share what they love. "Is it possible to indulge in an exclusive mood?" As we all know, falling in love with someone will not only produce possessive, possessive thoughts, but also very self-exclusive, self-possessed.
This peculiarity causes many feelings to hang on the cliff, after all, the freedom of the "exclusive" party is also restricted. The possession of love is a nature. But before thinking about the other person's feelings, first think about whether the other person is worth your possessiveness. Think about it, can you be willing to be "possessed", and if the feelings are equal, does it also mean that the other party is willing to be "possessed by you"?
In this case, there will be no uncomfortable feelings at all, so what we have to do in the relationship is more to observe whether the other person "desires" to be possessed by you. If you don't want it, then think hard about the necessity of the relationship developing.
By chance, I learned that a friend next to me liked a boy, and the boy seemed to be good to her. Although I have never seen what a boy looks like, it is very good to listen to the description, and I have become the happiest one. I sincerely say that she is very good and very good, and I wished more than anyone that she could find a super good boyfriend.
Although I know that others don't know what to reply to when they see it, I always like to tell others my most sincere blessings. I hope that the people around me who are super good to me, and the people who are also excellent in themselves, will be very happy and happy. When I say this, I almost burst into tears, hahaha.
But I don't know why, probably there are too many beautiful girls in the world, looking back at myself, always suppressing myself, you are not good at all, not good at all, you are not worthy at all, don't harm others. Am I being too harsh on myself?
Or maybe I'm the one who knows me best. Love in this world needs a rush and I really, very much want them to be happy. She was always worried about this and that, as if many people were afraid of not being able to start and end well. However, don't be afraid, even if the ending is not perfect, don't let it leave regrets in vain.
Will you marry a boy who has no money and whose family conditions are far inferior to his own? My answer is: Yes. I think that having money or not is not the only measure of marital happiness. If this is an experiment and you don't get any conclusions, then how to associate money with marriage, I believe there are some other factors. For example: your view of consumption, your view of money, your way of doing things, the character he developed because of poverty, these things are not compatible.
I think the reason I can is that the economic conditions in my family are all struggled by my mother, and I know that it is not easy, so even if the economic conditions are better later, I am frugal. I am very rustic, I think the 1w bag is just an IQ tax, more than 100 lipstick is very easy to use, what kind of conditions to live what kind of life. So we don't have a strong conflict between the concept of consumption and the view of money.
There are also people who have to admit that in the process of growing up in poverty, they will indeed be very inferior, cowardly, do not work hard, and evade responsibility. Such a boy cannot marry, because the failure of family education behind this poverty is the root cause. But there are also many boys who will be stronger, more sensible, more hard-working, more aware of cherishing, and have a lot more kindness and empathy, which I think are more valuable than money and worth entrusting for a lifetime.
There is nothing wrong with being a doorman, but I prefer the knowledge of both families, and our spiritual door-to-door pair, if there is no money, I will accompany you from scratch, because you deserve my conviction.