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In 2014, after the broadcast of "I Am Fine in Beijing", some viewers praised Wang Qianhua as "China's version of the proud wife".
Because the heroine Qian Xiao, who she played in the play, fell in love with the hall, got off the kitchen, fought the little three, and beat the hooligans.
In fact, the wonderful life of actor Wang Xihua is also comparable to Qian Xiaoai, although there is no experience of fighting small 3 and fighting hooligans, but the story of her ex-husband who quit the "iron rooster" and chased after her current husband Shen Hang is talked about.
01 Rural drama a sister with her husband
Wang Xihua is a well-known actor with virtue and art, who has been debuting for more than thirty years, and she has been affectionately called "inspirational sister" by the audience because she has played many positive energy rural heroines.
Also known as "a sister of rural drama".
Wang Xihua debuted as a drama actor, and then turned into a film and television actor, in the drama there are "Sunrise", "Camel Xiangzi", etc.; the movies have "The Goddess Who Walked Out of the Smoke", "Cheers for You" and so on;
Ju Xiang stills
TV drama works include "The Woman in Charge", "The Woman in Guanzhong", "The Woman in the Black Gold Land", "The Woman's Village", "The Poplar Woman", "Wheat Into the City", "Little Grass Qingqing", "Daughter of the Party" and other nearly seventy classic dramas.
Among them, Wang Xihua won the Outstanding Actress Award of the 24th China TV Drama Feitian Awards and the 25th China Television Golden Eagle Awards Audience Favorite TV Drama Actress Award for "The Woman Who Is in Charge" and "Women's Village" respectively.
And in 2007, he won the "Virtue and Art Double Xin" Award.
Stills from "Ninety-Nine"
Wang Xihua's husband Shen Hang is also an actor, but also a screenwriter and director.
Representative works include "Agent Zero", "Persimmon Red", "Huang Dani", "Poplar Woman", "Moon is hometown Ming", "Dark War Before Dawn", etc.
The two became acquainted with the play "Poplar Woman", and have been married for ten years and have two children.
Now that they are more than half a hundred years old, the "old couple" does not have the casualness of old husbands and wives, but is as sweet as when they are in love, where to go.
Wang Xihua Shen Hang and his wife took a recent photo
But it is such a sweet two people, once almost missed because of each other's "self-esteem"...
02 Be a wonderful woman
Someone once asked Wang Xihua if she wanted to be a beautiful woman or a wonderful woman.
"Wonderful woman of course," she replied without hesitation.
"Because there are many beautiful women, and it's easy to do, and a person has to live a wonderful life, there are too many things to pay."
Only by paying, your life can be exchanged for wonderful. ”
In fact, Wang Xihua not only looks beautiful, but also lives a wonderful life, and she has been pursuing her love all her life.
In 1970, Wang Xihua was born in Xi'an, Shaanxi Province, her father is a painter, her mother is also an intellectual, their family can also be regarded as an artistic family, especially her father Wang Zimei's influence in the painting world can not be underestimated, and has won many national awards.
Influenced by her father, Wang Xihua also had a strong interest in art since childhood, but not painting.
Since she was a child, she liked to observe the performance of characters in TV dramas and liked to act, although her father knew nothing about acting.
But after discovering Wang Xihua's talent in acting, he consciously asked the teacher of the drama theater to teach Wang Xihua, and at the age of 16, he was successfully admitted to the Xi'an Art School.
Young Wang Xihua
Therefore, for Wang Xihua, behind her success, her father helped her the most.
Although she always humbly believes that she is not very successful, it is true that she embarked on this path because of the support of her parents.
After graduating from art school, Wang Xihua was assigned to the Xi'an Children's Art Theater and became an actress.
However, in the two years of the children's theater, because of his height of 166cm, he was not suitable for acting in children's dramas.
So it was delayed in being reused, and at most she was doing chores in the background and running dragon sets, so she quit her job two years later.
However, because she could not let go of the love in her heart, in 1992, with the support of her parents, Wang Xihua was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy.
During her time in school, Wang Xihua concentrated on her studies, won many college scholarships, and in her sophomore year, she participated in "Niu Zi Hou and Fu Liancheng" directed by Yao Shougang and starring Xia Jing, Zhao Yi and Liu Dan in the Peking Opera art theme, in which she played Xia Er.
In 1996, Wang Xihua graduated from Shangju and was admitted to the Beijing People's Art Theatre with excellent results.
In the same year, she participated in the "Peace Era" starring Zhang Fengyi, Yu Xiaohui and Lin Yongjian, in which she played the cuckoo girl.
03 The ups and downs before becoming famous
After entering Renyi, Wang Xihua immersed herself in drama, modestly studied with the old artists of Renyi, and honed her acting skills.
In fact, Wang Xihua, who came from a small drama background, is not bad at acting, but in appearance, when she first graduated from the drama, she ran through many crews, all of which were rejected because of her rustic appearance.
Wang Xihua was unwilling to say, "I don't believe that actors who don't look good and have acting skills have no way out." ”
So in those years, she has been active in the stage of drama, partnering with old artists to perform classic dramas such as "Sunrise" and "Shoko the Camel".
Wang Xihua's acting skills became more and more skillful and natural, and the drama stage was sluggish in those two years, and she also wanted to find a broader stage for herself, so she began to develop into film and television dramas.
However, in the film and television circle here, Wang Xihua is not smooth sailing.
In 1997, she received an invitation from the "Northern Story" crew to play the female number one, in order to successfully complete the shooting, she began to enter the role early to study the script, but when she was ready, she was told to change.
Later, she received an audition invitation for "Military Song Loud", after trying it, she successfully won the role, and the director also told her that she was too fat, at least to lose 20 pounds, so she began to lose weight, ate half a month of clear soup cabbage, up to the director's standard.
However, just when she was ready to enter the group to start filming, she was temporarily informed that she was replaced, and the heroine was replaced by Chen Xiaoyi, who was already popular all over the country with "Foreign Sister".
Chen Xiaoyi
Being replaced twice in succession, Wang Xihua was unwilling, and she ran to ask the director why.
The director relayed the meaning of the investor: "You are not beautiful enough to be a heroine." ”
Three times twice was disliked "soil", Wang Xihua stood in front of the mirror to look at herself, the facial features are OK, but some baby fat, so she began to fitness to change herself.
Finally, the kung fu paid off, and in 2001, the crew of "The Woman in Charge" found her.
As soon as she got the script, she began to study it, and the role of Zhang Juxiang was very attractive to her, giving the actor a lot of room to show both in terms of story and character.
So Wang Xihua secretly made up her mind at the moment: regardless of any gains and losses, she must play this role well.
Before the start of filming of each scene, only she thought that she was all ready and ready to shoot, and the photographer and lighting engineer came to the scene to start shooting, and after the play was broadcast, the audience was touched by juxiang's true feelings in the play.
This role became a turning point in Wang Xihua's acting career, and she won the Feitian Award for Outstanding Actress with the play.
After that, her career began all the way, and she successively starred in more than 40 dramas with female images, such as "Women in Guanzhong", "Women in black gold", "Women's Village", etc., achieving the status of "a sister of rural drama".
In the words of the audience, Wang Xihua is definitely the bearer of rural drama.
Wang Xihua was finally seen, from because of the soil to the inability to play the heroine to become a sister of rural drama,
Her career ushered in a peak, but everything was difficult, and just when her career reached a new level, her feelings went astray.
04 The road is bumpy
Wang Xihua's ex-husband was met after she first entered the human arts, the other party is a sea turtle in Germany, and her parents are also high-level intellectuals.
The first time I met was in a bar, the other party looked elegant and handsome, and the conversation was humorous and funny, and Wang Xihua was attracted to him.
At first, Wang Xihua felt that the other party was avant-garde, such as every date is AA, after all, he has stayed in the Ocean, and Wang Xihua's concept is also very good before becoming a family, so there is no burden.
If it is after marriage, it is also very clear that if you want to AA everything, it is not like living a life.
In 2003, after Wang Xihua had a dinner with her ex-husband, he paid for it and said to her, "I paid for your meals, so remember to transfer it to me." ”
Hearing this, Wang Xihua's face suddenly changed, where it was like a husband and wife living, a meal and a bottle of water were so clearly divided, and there was usually no fireworks at home.
She couldn't stand such a life, so the marriage finally came to an end.
Wang Xihua and ex-husband
After divorcing her ex-husband, Wang Xihua focused on her career and created many classic female images on the screen.
Especially loved by the "big mothers", for example, after performing "PeaceTime", some viewers said that to find a man, you must find You Yong, and if you look for a daughter-in-law, you must find a cuckoo.
After Wang Xihua performed "The Woman who Is in charge", some viewers said that "if anyone has a daughter-in-law like Ju Xiang", to "Breaking into Guandong 2", some viewers said, "Who married a daughter-in-law like Song Tianhao is much happier." ”
It can be seen how much the female role played by Wang Xihua is loved by the audience, and people always want to find such a good daughter-in-law.
In fact, the drama is like her person, Wang Xihua is also a good woman, she is true, upright, kind, and always thinks about others.
05 "You Especially Like My Woman"
So a woman like her will definitely meet the right person, in 2009, Wang Xihua became acquainted with Shen Hang when filming "Hu Yang Woman", she played the female lead, and Shen Hang played the male lead.
Shen Hang, a graduate of the Central Academy of Drama, debuted in 1988 with "Her Code Name White Peony", starred in TV series such as "Mixed World Wizard Pang Zhenkun" | "Agent Zero", and is also a senior actor.
At first, Shen Hang entered the crew relatively late, Wang Xihua and he had not cooperated before, she was worried that he played a big card, but later the two released this cognition after contact.
"Poplar Woman" was filmed on the grassland, and the conditions were very difficult at that time, but fortunately there was Shen Hang's care.
We are on the grassland, the sun hurts, the mood is also very irritable, sleep with an open mouth, the nose is also very dry, the sandstorm is coming, it will be very scary.
He was by his side comforting me and encouraging me, and if I didn't have him, it would be really miserable.
Recalling his relationship with Shen Hang, Wang Xihua said so.
At the same time, she also laughed and said, "Song Tianhao is a good person who has no good life, I am a fool with a stupid fortune." ”
During the crew, Wang Xihua and Shen Hang had contact, so that they had more understanding of each other, Wang Xihua found that Shen Hang is a very talented person: he can not only be an actor, but also write a script as a screenwriter, and he can also be a director and a screenwriter.
Stills of Wang Xihua Shen Hang
To Wang Xihua, Shen Hang was like a sponge, and she could absorb a lot of water from him.
In addition, in the understanding, Shen Hang also developed a good feeling for Wang Xihua, often invited her to dinner, and blocked the wine for her.
At one point he said to her, "You're especially like my woman." ”
Hearing these words, Wang Xihua fell at once, and they were together.
However, this relationship was divided once during the period because of the career gap between the two at that time.
After finishing the filming of "Poplar Woman", Wang Xihua returned to Beijing to enter the stills of "Family Portrait" and began a new shooting without stopping.
It is said that at that time, it was because Shen Hang's teacher had a birthday, and the classmates met about the teacher's birthday, and Shen Hang also invited Wang Xihua to go with him, and some friends quipped during the banquet: "Shen Hang, what is your relationship with Wang Xihua?" ”
Wang Xihua was looking forward to the three words "girlfriend" popping out of his mouth.
But he only responded lightly: "We are friends." ”
Still
Wang Xihua, who heard this, was not happy in her heart, but she did not get angry because of her affection, and when the party was over, she asked Shen Hang: "Obviously she is a girlfriend, why don't you admit it?" ”
Shen Hang didn't dare to face her squarely, but just murmured, "Everything has variables, and I don't think there are any variables in saying this." ”
In fact, for Wang Xihua, she just felt that it was difficult for two people to fall in love and introduce him to his classmates in a bright and honest manner, but for Shen Hang, because of his inferiority, the coaxing of his classmates made him feel that he was a "soft rice eater", so he said so.
But just like that, because of "self-esteem", the two broke up unhappily, and no one contacted anyone after that.
Until 2010, Wang Xihua won the double film queen with two dramas" and "Hu Yang Woman" and "Woman's Village".
When life is proud, there is no one to share around, Wang Xihua is inevitably a little sad, and later Wang Xihua took advantage of the gap between the crew to go home to visit her parents, during which she talked about this relationship with Shen Hang.
Her mother asked her, "Do you still love Shen Hang?" ”
In fact, after being separated for such a long time, Wang Xihua's heart has not let go of him, and later from his point of view, she can also understand him.
Only after the separation, he never took the initiative to contact himself again, she had a grudge, but in the face of her parents' soul questions, she still nodded affirmatively.
Wang Xihua's parents
"If you like it, go to him, maybe he is busy at work, and happiness is to be won by himself." 」 The father who was on the side saw Wang Xihua nodding and talked.
"Happiness is to rely on oneself to fight for" Hearing her father's words, Wang Xihua was suddenly cheerful.
06 Thousand Mile Pursuit Husband Cultivation achieves positive results
So she picked up the phone and dialed Shen Hang's mother's phone to ask her about Shen Hang's recent situation, and Shen's mother explained to Wang Xihua on the other end of the phone, and told her that if she became her daughter-in-law, she would definitely treat her as her own daughter-in-law.
After receiving the support of both parents, Wang Xihua quietly rushed to the shenhang shooting site to visit the class.
At the moment of seeing Wang Xihua, Shen Hang was excited and incoherent, and he hugged her into his arms, which was the first hug after they had been separated for four months.
All the misunderstandings were eliminated at the moment when Wang Xihua decided to "chase her husband for thousands of miles", and it turned out that in the past four months, Shen Hang was not happy, he just did not dare to take the initiative to contact her because of his inferiority.
But she took the initiative to find him, which made him very moved, and during the dinner that night, Shen Hang took Wang Xihua's hand and announced to the crew colleagues: "This is my daughter-in-law." ”
After that, two people over the age of forty fell in love like young people and got married in August 2011.
On the day of receiving the license, Wang Xihua updated a dynamic on Weibo;
I don't know how you know the news, it doesn't matter anymore. It is important to see your blessings and I am very grateful and touched.
At this age, it is not easy to meet like-minded and loving people, and my husband and I will work hard for a new life.
After that, they really opened a new life, Wang Xihua began to reduce the crystallization of their love, and gave birth to a daughter and a son at the age of 42 and 44 to form a good word.
Now that the two of them have held hands for ten years, the relationship between the two has not faded because of the arrival of the child and the passage of time, but has become more and more intense.
Looking at the dynamics of Wang Xihua's social platform, most of them are traveling with Shen Hang, working photos, and everywhere they go, the two are holding hands and snuggling together, which is very sweet.
Wang Xihua's state also looks very happy, although she is 51 years old this year, she looks really good.
It is said that a person is not happy, just look at the face.
And Wang Xihua's face is a happy look, and Zhu Yin, who has been in love with Huang Guanzhong for more than twenty years, once said in the program:
"If you look in the mirror and see yourself getting more and more beautiful, you're looking for the right person."
On the contrary, it is the wrong person.
A good marriage is the best cosmetic for a woman, and even a light stroke can make people radiant.
And Wang Xihua herself once lamented that she "never envied youth, nor did she envy her,
I don't want to be confused by the amount of fame and money of others, just because it belongs to others and not to you. ”
She believes that happiness is never destroyed by others.
Only she can destroy her own happiness, and she knows how to keep her happiness.
She is a smart woman who understands that happiness depends on herself, on her own management, and on her own protection.
Stills from "Persimmon Red Year after Year"
A good life, on your own.
You have to learn, on your own.
You have to believe that life is up to me.
You just work hard and the rest is up to time.
May you achieve in 2022 and may your happiness be doubled.
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