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When the older generation observes the characteristics of children, they always think of the future and destiny of children. Some words have superstitious thoughts, and some words make people scratch their heads, but if you think about it, some sayings also contain profound truths.
When new mothers see their children's looks, they care about who looks like their children, but in the older generation, which side of the child and the parent is more exquisite. Regarding the characteristics of daughters like fathers, there is a common saying, have you heard them? The daughter is like the father who is not rich and rich; the daughter is like Lao Tzu, who wears a leather jacket.
The mother-to-be wants to give birth to a girl, the mother-in-law said
Sugar Mom has a particularly excellent friend, when she got married early and had a baby, everyone felt a little pity, because with her ability and strength, she could spell out very good results in her career. Helplessly, she is a person who likes a plain life, and the husband and son are the ultimate dream.
Friends like girls very much, when pregnant euphemistically said that they wanted to have a daughter, the mother-in-law knew that there was no unhappiness, just said: "Giving birth to a girl must be like my son, as the saying goes, the daughter is like a father is not rich and rich, so that my eldest granddaughter's fate will be good after the future!"
Listening to this statement, the friend also thought that the mother-in-law hated that her education was not as high as her husband's, and later in the process of taking the baby, she gradually figured out the reason.
The friend gave birth to a healthy baby girl as desired, and as the mother-in-law said, the child is really very similar to the father, and the mother-in-law is happy to blossom.
"A daughter is like a father, and if she is not rich, she is rich", what is the reason?
Literally, girls are richer than their fathers, but this is not a denial of their mothers. The reason why girls are like fathers, not rich and rich, not only refers to looks, but also the following aspects.
★ The mindset is like a father
Women and men are born with different ways of thinking, men are more rational, and women are naturally more emotional.
The reason why the girl's thinking mode is better than her father's is because she can be more calm when she encounters things and deals with things outside, rather than being swayed by emotions, hurting and cheating.
Therefore, a girl who is like her father in her thinking mode is more likely to spell out her achievements in her career, which is why the older generation will say that she will be rich in the future.
★ Personality aspect like Dad
Most parents want to develop the girl into a little princess-like personality, but cute lovers like it, but girls can't live in the ivory tower all the time, and one day they will leave their parents to go outside to develop, at this time, personality will determine many things.
Girls have a personality like a father, eat well outside, make friends more extensively, and have strong interpersonal skills. As a girl, she can be protected by others, but also have the ability and awareness to protect herself.
And networking is equivalent to wealth, so girls who can eat are more likely to get help and guidance from others, and it is easier to become rich.
★ Statements about looks
As the saying goes, a daughter is like a rich person who is not rich, and there is a sentence in front of it that "the son is like a mother, and the golden brick wall is built." In the eyes of the older generation, there are many kinds of children's blessings, among which boys and children and girls and boys are regarded as symbols of wealth and blessings.
They think that girls look like dads, it is easier to achieve great things with some rudeness, when they are leaders, and girls who are too cute and naïve and pure in appearance are often not entrusted with heavy responsibilities.
These statements have a certain reason, but they are also somewhat one-sided. The child's appearance has been changing, the personality is also affected by the day after tomorrow, want to become a rich person, only like the father is still not enough, want to fight through their own efforts in exchange.
In fact, science proves that most children are more like dads, so among girls like dads, there is a big gap between whether they are excellent or not, and whether they have money or not. This is enough to prove that even if the daughter has a certain advantage like the father, then the cultivation and hard work of the day after tomorrow is also very important.
Sugar Mother's heart words:
Both the elderly and the young can have expectations in this regard, but when the girl is born, she really does not look like her father, and there is no need to deny her or complain about her mother.
【Today's topic】Do you still have such sayings around you?