Parents' words can create children, but also can destroy children, are you a talking parent?
Do you know how serious the consequences of parents yelling at their children all the time are? A famous educator once said that as a parent, you must strengthen your learning and learn to reflect while educating your children. He said never underestimate the impact of your words on your child's life. The words of parents can destroy a child, and they can also make a child.
When inventor Edison was a child, his teacher once handed him a folded note and told him that only your mother could read it. After Edison obediently handed the note to his mother, her mother cried as she watched. Edison asked his mother what the teacher had written. Mom said to Edison, "Your child is a genius, and this school is too small for him." There were no good teachers to train him. Teach it yourself! ”
However, many years after Edison's mother died, Edison happened to see the letter written to his mother by his former teacher again in his mother's relic. In fact, the teacher's letter is not what the mother read, but: "Your child is mentally retarded, we can't let him stay in school." He was dropped out of school! You take him home! After reading the letter, Edison burst into tears. Later, he wrote in his diary that Edison was an intellectually retarded fool, but his mother made him the inventor of the electric filament.
When I first saw this story, to be honest, my heart was shocked. It turns out that every child has a lot of potential. Whether a child reaches his or her full potential depends on whether the parents are full of expectations, love and encouragement.
There was a little boy who was often ridiculed for stuttering. His mother told him, "Son, your head is so clever that your mouth can't keep up with your clever reaction." When the little boy grew up, he became Jack Welch, the former CEO of General Electric. *
There is a short little girl who loves to play table tennis very much. Everyone didn't look up to her much, but her dad firmly said to her, you're fine, really, believe me. This little girl grew up to become Deng Yaping, the world champion of table tennis.
One father introduced a little boy to his stepmother, saying, "This is the worst boy in the whole community, but the boy's stepmother said softly, 'You're wrong.'" Children are not stupid children as you say, but the smartest children who have not yet found a place to show their talents. "When this kid grew up, he was the Carnegie who created the 28 Golden Rules.
If you are the father or mother of a child, after reading today's short article, do you have a lot of emotions? So remember that language must encompass the child's future. In the mouth of parents, what kind of person the child is, what kind of person will be in the future. If you want your child to have a bright future without good educational ideas and methods, then you really need to learn.
This is the attitude of responsible parents. The future of children will surely thank their parents for being their best teachers. Remember that the time and energy invested in the child will definitely return to the language of the parents one day in the future, because the words and deeds of the parents determine the child's life. Sometimes the education of parents to their children is often the power of a sentence, and we must not underestimate the potential that this sentence can bring to children.