Every parent is committed to nurturing their children and wants their children to receive a better education. Due to the hard teaching and serious cultivation of parents, children have also mastered a variety of skills and knowledge. So now many parents feel that their children are really great, and their children can become their own teachers.
If parents blindly worship their children, it often causes children to become picky about things around them. Whenever a child encounters some poor environment, the child will have an arrogant and picky mentality.
Because it is the respect of parents that makes children arrogant, such children often do not put their parents in their eyes. Because he felt that his parents thought he was great, he could become his parents' teacher. This child and his parents always tell others that this child can educate us, and we are all ashamed of ourselves. If parents say such things all day long, it is not incest and morals.
We must pay attention to the principle of orderly growth and childhood, we have all passed on a sentence, the world is all parents. Parents are right at all times, and parents don't have a time when they're wrong. If the child is rebellious when he is a child, then the parents will definitely educate the child very strictly at this time. If the child is really naughty, he may go down with a slap. The child dares to show the face of the parents, and the child is really bold.
Disciples often say that when parents teach, we must listen respectfully, and we must respectfully listen to the teachings of our parents. There is respect for parents in order to be called filial piety, and if parents begin to respect their children, it is not a disorder of human morality. If parents feel ashamed to say that they have been educated by their children, then parents should really reflect on it.
Even if the child does a good job, but because the child's temperament is relatively simple, if the parents praise the child is very easy to become arrogant. Isn't it his duty for a child to do well? What is there to praise? Growing up the child's arrogance does not say that the child will also become looked down on the parents, feeling that the parents do not have their own culture and knowledge.
Parents do not do as well as children, but also can not let children see, parents should have the appearance of parents, we do not do well to learn slowly, why surrender to children. The position of the parents in the family must be precious, and the child's position in the family must be lowly. If the child's status at home is higher than that of his parents, it is called a disorder.
Seeing that many of the students are now college graduates, they especially look down on their parents, because their parents are not as knowledgeable as they are, and they are not as educated. Slowly, the children came into contact with society to earn two money, and the parents were even more despised. Every parent should pay attention to this situation, we do not want the child's money, we can not make the child unkind, unjust, unfaithful, filial piety. Therefore, educating children about human ethics is far more important than knowledge and skills.
Now there are many people who are powerful and powerful, and almost cut off relations with their parents, thinking that giving their parents a few dollars feels that they are very great and filial. Recently there was a news that an old lady is in her 80s, and every child has her own family, and it is simply inhumane to leave an old lady in her 80s at home alone.
The father will always be the father, the mother will always be the mother, and parents must not reduce their own value because of how prominent and cultured the child's status is. Heavenly reason cannot be changed, and man must not be chaotic. My child is really a cultured and moral gentleman, he will not do such an unorthodox thing, if the child really has this kind of behavior, then the child is definitely not a cultured and knowledgeable person.