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There is a post on the Internet: In today's social networks are so developed, how to determine whether a person loves you?
When it comes to checking whether a person loves you, there are really more ways to go, some people feel that men are willing to spend money to love you, and some people feel that love should be implemented in real small things. Show love, you have to mention the chat software, and in the chat software, WeChat cheating the most commonly used chat assistant, more able to witness a person's love for you, WeChat actually has a variety of functions, hiding a variety of details. If you look closely, you can see a person's true emotions, and you can also see a person's preferences for each other.
I have a friend who is very envious of her life, because she and her boyfriend have been to many places together, they travel together, they go to the ends of the earth together, even if they are tired of being together all day, the relationship between the two people has always been like glue. The most important thing is the boy's love for friends, these years have only increased, he has friends in each circle of friends, and often writes a diary to record the appearance of two people together, in the boyfriend, the friend's WeChat is always the top, is a strong reminder, is a star.
Although some people feel that looking at WeChat and commenting on a person can not see anything at all, and do not care about these trivial things, these are often able to show whether a man likes you. Really, if a man cares about you, he will definitely respond to your message at the first time, and put you in the circle of friends without stinginess, on the contrary, if a man does not like you enough, let alone return your message, the circle of friends will block you.
Song Na discovered her boyfriend's secret, she accidentally saw Peng Jun's mobile phone, but recently, she found that Peng Jun always loved to hide from her to call, not only that, he traveled more and more times, the time to reply to messages became longer and longer, and even, in his bag, he found another mobile phone with the exact same mobile phone case.
Song Na asked about his mobile phone, Peng Jun only said that it was a work need, Song Na knew that Peng Jun had strong working ability, was the main force of their company, and also knew the particularity of his work, there would definitely be many different customers, but Song Na always felt that something was wrong, this secretly looked at his mobile phone, wanted to find out the clues from the inside of the mobile phone, and sure enough, as she thought, Peng Jun said that the mobile phone used to work, the strange cover, she could not even unlock the password.
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Song Na, 26 years old this year, and Peng Jun met at a cocktail party, Peng Jun is 32 years old, has a successful career, is the object that many companies want to win over in sales, as long as it is to cooperate with him, the signed are large contracts, this information is the sales department colleagues told Song Na early in the morning. Their purpose of participating in this cocktail party was also on the project directors of some large companies, and Peng Jun and Song Na met at the cocktail party and had a love affair.
Song Na looks sweet, the voice is also good, when she is looking for customers, when she plans to introduce her company's products, there is a man who is more than forty years old, beer belly, hair is scarce, a greasy body, drink more wine on Song Na to move her hands and feet, embarrass her, but also she wants to accompany herself to drink before she is willing to sign a contract. Peng Jun looked at it and lifted the siege for her, perhaps from the beginning, Peng Jun liked her appearance, to know that Song Na's body was hot and painted with exquisite makeup, a white dress like the white moonlight of the student era, how many men had to be moved by it.
The appearance of Peng Jun was naturally heartwarming for Song Na at that time, a mature and elegant and temperamental man still has power and power, how many girls can restrain their minds, not to mention, Song Na's own external conditions are not bad, the boys who chase her also have rich second generations, but she does not love those disciples who only have money and no ability.
At that cocktail party, the two people left each other WeChat, Song Na is also a self-motivated girl, the advantages and disadvantages of the company's products are well known, very good at the advantages and avoidance of harm, naturally finally persuaded Peng Jun, won Peng Jun's good feelings, let him sign a contract. Out of gratitude for the lifting of the siege that day and the profits that this list can share a lot, Song Na took the initiative to invite Peng Jun to dinner, but in the end, it was Peng Jun who bought the order, Peng Jun and her said: "This time I invite you, next time you will invite me again." ”
At first, Song Na didn't think much about it, but when she came and went, the two people chatted a lot on WeChat, and the number of meetings increased, and the ambiguity also came out of nowhere. Song Na has always liked the mature and stable uncle type, and did not mind Peng Jun's age, the two people naturally developed into a lover relationship, Peng Jun also rented a small apartment for Song Na near her company, and the life of the two people has been very sweet since then.
After they are together, when the weekend is off, Peng Jun will take Song Na out to play, all kinds of tourist attractions and romantic small surprises, Song Na will record them one by one, and then share them with her circle of friends, however, Peng Jun has not sent two people any circle of friends, not even official announcements. Song Na is also not a careful person, and she also feels that there is no need to worry about these small things, he has taken himself to big parties, and he has also met his friends, Song Na did not expect that Peng Jun would deceive himself.
Later, by chance, Song Na left work early and went to Peng Jun's company to find him, Song Na said that she was Peng Jun's girlfriend, but the other party's attitude was very surprised, and Song Na felt that something was wrong.
When watching a movie at night, she asked Peng Jun to send a circle of friends, but Peng Jun found a job as an excuse: "Work WeChat, it is not appropriate to send too many private circles of friends, are you considerate and considerate of me, baby?" I'm not the kind of person who likes to show grace and love happiness. ”
Song Na was reluctant so she lost her temper and ignored Peng Jun, who did not coax her to use the excuse of traveling on a business trip and did not contact her for two days. Somehow, and then Peng Jun wanted to open, sent several circles of friends in succession, and also mentioned Song Na, Song Na only dissipated her anger, and it was at that time that Peng Jun had another mobile phone, but Song Na was still in the dark and didn't know anything.
When Song Na found Peng Jun's new mobile phone, she sensed his abnormality, and the first thing she did was to see what secrets were hidden inside the mobile phone.
Peng Jun's circle of friends, only she can see, another mobile phone can not be opened, the cover photo is a strange woman, under the pressure of Song Na, she knows that this perfect "true destiny" in her heart is a married man, his wife and children are abroad, he came here, just this year's exchange, and the two people have no future, so Song Na cannot appear in Peng Jun's circle of friends.
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Uncle Moe na said: There is a domineering word in mathematics, that is, there is only . People in love have thought about becoming pearls in each other's circles. There are too many couples who quarrel or even break up because the circle of friends does not send each other.
"Am I not decent enough or what, why don't you dare send me?"
"I'm not in your circle, and probably not in your world."
Everyone doesn't like to show off their love frequently, but it is still necessary to send it occasionally between couples. Feelings need some openness and feedback, a confession to the whole world. It's not a very rare circle of friends, just because I want to be seen, cherished, and treated well.
Can just a circle of friends really prove that a person loves you?
Maybe you can or may not, the meaning of the circle of friends is to test whether a person has a selfish heart, only the feelings of Zhengda Guangming will be exposed in their own social circles, exposed to family and friends, some feelings are to see the light and die, just because the identity is not appropriate, the feelings are not pure, so, don't say that the circle of friends, I am afraid that I have to spend my mind.
Regardless of men and women, the meaning of paying attention to the circle of friends is nothing more than to look at their position in each other's hearts, if the other party does not hide from themselves, they will naturally record the bits and pieces of getting along with themselves, on the contrary, the excuse is not to send a circle of friends, always deliberately conceal your existence, eighty percent of your feelings are unhealthy, improper, and naturally can not be taken to the circle of friends to show off.
In addition, the most important one of the girls in love must be cautious, you think that the good man behind the do not know how much you do not know, the recent hit TV series "Xiao MinJia", Xu Zheng's appearance is also the Prince Charming in the hearts of thousands of girls, more gold and considerate, but who knows, he is actually a control-minded, overbearing unreasonable control freak?
Warren Buffett once said, "The most important decision in your life is who you marry." ”
Regardless of men and women, marriage is a major event related to their own life, it is not possible to be careless and careless, the length of love time can test whether a person really loves you, and the details of daily life can also expose whether a person is sincere to you. Girls should pay more attention to the good when choosing a partner, do not trust the people they just know, and do not be confused by his superior conditions, the unrighteous feelings are ultimately hurt by themselves, identify his character early, see his problems, and be responsible for you.
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★ Author: YIBAO; emotional original author, writing about the warm emotional affairs of this world.