What is a soul mate?
To put it bluntly, it is another self, that is, in the vast sea of people, you meet another self again, and she knows herself better than you, and even knows herself better than you.
Every word and deed of you, every move, she understands, she loves you, understands you, but can not marry you, so this person has become his soul mate.
In his heart, he has an irreplaceable position, and at the same time, it is precisely because what he can't get is always in turmoil, he may be worried and chasing all his life.
The woman who cannot be loved is often the existence that men can never forget, and this person is called a soul mate. In fact, it is a woman who can't get it but wants it.
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What exactly does a man want a "soul mate"? Uncover the true heart of a man.
Many married women don't understand what kind of soul mate men really want, especially those who talk about their wives all day long.
Men who always feel that other people's wives are better than their own, such people, often envy the women that others have, especially women outside of marriage.
I feel that that kind of life is perfect, in fact, everything has a price, there is a home outside the home, and not anyone can bear and burden it.
At the very least, you should be financially superior to ordinary people, and you can afford to raise two women, or two families. Unfortunately, most people do not have such strength.
It's just that this mountain looks up at the mountain, eating in the bowl and looking at the pot. In a way, the woman a man likes, the woman who fits him physically and mentally, is the soul mate.
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The so-called soul mate, in addition to the harmony of the body, what is important is the same frequency of the mind.
Is there a real friendship between a man and a woman? People who may have experienced it understand that either one beats you to death and does not say that I love you, but has been doing what loves you.
Either a person who pretends not to know, but in fact feels like a mirror in his heart, in general, there is no real pure friendship between men and women.
If men have always regarded a woman as a buddy, most of them do not like it and feel that it is not suitable; if a woman has always regarded a man as a buddy, most of them are spare tires and feel that they cannot look at it.
Can two such people become soul mates? Obviously it is possible, but sooner or later they will step out of such a strange circle, because no one will be willing to maintain such an intimate relationship with someone all the time.
Just like in "Xiao Min's House", Xiao Jie and Qian Feng, he has always had a crush on her, and she has not put him in her eyes, and she can't understand the affection in his eyes and the confession in his heart.
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So, are two people like this consider soul mates? Perhaps, after all, they are the ones who know each other best.
The so-called soul mate is mostly the one that men love but can't.
Marriage has its own good side, such as bringing a person growth and maturity, and will make you change from a hairy boy to someone else's father, someone else's husband.
Suddenly you have grown into an adult, but there is also its realistic and sad side, that is, the woman who marries home is often not your favorite, but only the person who is most suitable for marriage.
At this point, you will have regrets and loneliness in your heart, if you have really loved, you will not be able to put down and forget that person, the woman who has paid youth and blood.
I always feel that she should be her wife, but the yin and yang are wrong, and the two people are scattered in the sea, so that you always long for her to become your soul mate.
She can give you emotion and strength when you need solace and care.
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No matter how strong a man is, there will be a vulnerable side in his heart, he still longs for love, longs for warmth, and longs for fireworks in the world.
The so-called soul mate is actually the ideal mate for men.
In the matter of choosing a mate, the ideal state is that the person you marry home, or want to marry, is your soul mate.
She is not only your wife, your lover, but also your soul mate, is there such a marriage? The answer is yes.
Unfortunately, such luck belongs only to a few people, and the marriage of the vast majority of people is just going to live on their own, why are we living around.
Some couples are old, and they still love each other as before, the longer the two people are, the more similar they are, no matter where they go, outsiders will know that these two people are two mouths.
This is the power of love, of course, including the completion of years, two people together for a long time, it will indeed become more and more like, not only living habits, but also looks.
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A superior marriage is to marry the woman you love the most, at first sight you, and the rest of your life is you.
Sometimes, men give women true love, not simply giving, but also appropriate rejection, timely praise, decent criticism, proper arguments, necessary encouragement, gentle comfort, and effective urging.
The reason why the soul mate is everyone's yearning is because she not only understands your unspoken meaning, but also understands your throat.
This is too lethal for men. Who wouldn't want to have such a confidant in a tired life?
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