Uncle Lover's Introduction:
In love, in fact, it is the process of finding belonging and love, in love, we habitually feel that the woman will be the party that needs this emotion more, but in fact, both men and women may become the person who needs a sense of belonging, and if the girl wants to avoid becoming a passive party of the woman, in fact, she only needs to master these methods.
In today's social context, men and women can stand in the position of the master of love, and what boys can do can also be done by girls. But in the traditional concept, the control of love is still in the hands of boys, so in reality many men and women break up, boys can put forward, boys can come out faster, on the basis of this idea, think backwards, with boys' way of thinking and behavior is not able to occupy a dominant position.
People in love will encounter this feeling, that is, "suffering from gain and loss", no matter how loving the couple, must have had such an experience, because they like it too much, so they want to control each other all in their own hands, but this kind of like the law is too idealistic, the reality will always have deviations, and this feeling of "suffering from gain and loss" is because of this contradictory emotion, but once this feeling is generated, it is difficult to get rid of.
When getting along with men, keep your own bottom line, because this bottom line not only means dignity, but also means how long you can exist in this boy's heart. This reason is easy to understand, even if you make friends, you meet a person who is obedient to your orders, it is not like making friends for you, it is more like making a shadow, so it is the same in love.
Maintaining your own bottom line in love is not only to protect your own dignity, but also to give more development possibilities between the two parties.
In addition to this, there is also a very important point, that is, to constantly improve themselves, which on the surface seems to have little to do with love, but in fact the relationship between these two points is very large. A very common reason why one person has a crush on another person is that there is a shining point in the other person that attracts you. In real life, it can also be found that some people are always easy to attract people and be loved by people, so improving yourself is to make efforts in this regard. In addition, this also allows the other party to feel that you have been changing, and naturally there is a feeling that you cannot fully grasp it.
Better than themselves and completely unable to master themselves, such a woman is full of conquest and control for a man, so if you want to grasp the initiative in love, these points are very critical.
Uncle Epilogue:
There are so many things to cherish in the world, and a person you love deeply in it is definitely one of the best. Therefore, for this treasure, people want to hold it firmly in their hands, but they do not know that it is simply attached, and they will not be able to get the account for a long time, and only by giving both parties a certain space and attracting each other in the soul can such love always exist and be cherished.