Contributed | Mea city
"I saw him rise up a tall building, I saw him entertain guests, and I saw him collapse."
It used to be Ke Zhendong, Fang Zuming, Fan Bingbing, Zheng Shuang, Wu Yifan, and now it was Wang Lihong's turn again. Recently, his ex-wife Li Lianglei wrote a four-thousand-word article late at night, forcing Wang Lihong to go to the battlefield of public opinion.
On Weibo, the two sides come and go, and it can be said that they have done their best. Because it involves women's rights and interests, mainstream media such as China Women's Daily also spoke on the scene, and for a time, the Internet was very lively.
▲ Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei (Photo/Visual China)
Finally, with Wang Lihong apologizing on Weibo on December 20 and announcing his temporary withdrawal from work, his divorce battle with Li Lianglei was temporarily over.
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The Battle of Wang Li, although it has come to an end for the time being. Looking back, there are still many intriguing places about this matter, which make people eat some different flavors from this entertainment "big melon".
Li Lianglei and Wang Lihong both mainly chose to denounce each other on Weibo. It is worth noting that on Weibo, the vast number of netizens are not only eating melon masses, but also have a very divergent thinking, and the attention and discussion of this incident are also more and more extensive.
People of different professions and identities, from the divorce incident of Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei, saw things and sighed, which were mostly different.
▲Wang Lihong (Photo/Visual China)
Some people see from this incident that the "inequality" of the two parties to the marriage, such as the influence of the original family, the gap in economic conditions, which is easy to cause inequality in married life. Therefore, some netizens sighed that if you want to be happy in marriage, you should choose "moving marriage" instead of "moving up".
There are also people who see psychological problems, the most typical of which is the "gas lamp effect". This is a psychological theory, which is a psychological manipulation and brainwashing behavior that is carried out by "distorting" the truth in the eyes of the victim. In addition, there is the broken window effect, the Barnum effect and so on.
It is also very wonderful that an entertainment event has brought the professional vocabulary related to psychology and sociology to attention again.
Some people see the hidden legal issues, such as the signing of prenuptial agreements, the transfer of joint property between husband and wife during marriage, and compensation for housework. These details have been exploded, refreshing the three views of many netizens.
Acts such as prenuptial property agreements and transfer of common property within marriage have become important tools for the rich to isolate the risk of marital change? Some netizens issued a soul torture question: Can you accept the signing of a prenuptial agreement?
▲Netizens' messages after Li Lianglei's Weibo (Weibo screenshot)
Including Li Lianglei's long articles, it also makes people feel quite cultural, and some content also plays a role in knowledge popularization.
No wonder some netizens joked: "You think I brush Weibo every day just to 'eat melon'?" No, I'm actually learning! ”
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Simply combing through the Weibo discussion about the Wang Lihong incident, we can see that a celebrity family affair and an entertainment event have evolved into the discussion of multiple social topics in a short period of time.
It should be said that this is first of all because the presentation of relevant events in the field of public opinion is very comprehensive and detailed, and the amount of information is very large, leaving enough space for discussion in different directions.
▲ Wang Lihong's response (Weibo screenshot)
Both parties presented some facts based on their own perspectives and interests on Weibo, issued several long articles, explained their respective ideas thoroughly, coupled with the participation and cross-verification of onlookers, as well as the intervention of comments from many media and the participation of experts and scholars, this incident gradually jumped out of entertainment itself and spawned many other social topics.
Secondly, the social media that carries this matter, due to its advantages in the form and method of dissemination, provides better objective conditions for the social extension of this matter.
Similar to the national hotspot events, they are generally extremely complex, and they cannot be clearly explained in three words or two words, or tens of seconds of video. The content of short videos is also difficult for people to form independent and in-depth thinking.
The communication form of graphic mode + video can carry more content and present things more comprehensively.
Coupled with the "dandelion" communication effect, it accelerates the speed of information dissemination, extends the breadth of dissemination, is more suitable for the direct exchange and collision of views, and makes it more convenient for people to see multiple perspectives, and the content of the discussion is more layered and in-depth.
In addition, behind the entertainment gossip incidents often reflect many social issues, which is also inseparable from professional interpretation and discussion, and requires the analysis and guidance of professionals in various fields.
In the storm of Wang Lihong's marriage change, many legal, financial, psychological bloggers, etc. have interpreted the incident from their own professional perspectives, and these views have converged and collided on the Weibo platform, which has promoted the social discussion of the Wang Lihong incident.
The website of the Central Commission for Discipline Inspection, China Women's Daily, Global Times and other media also spoke and participated in the discussion. The website of the Central Commission for Discipline Inspection commented that LiYi first wanted Li De and discussed the issue of artists' artistic ethics.
China Women's Daily's comments on the "desperate" situation of full-time housewives have sparked a discussion about women's social division of labor and how women can balance their families and careers, and reminded women to guard against harm in the name of "love" and the risk of leaving the workplace. Sublimate the sociological significance of this case.
These rational discussions of reality not only expand the breadth and depth of this incident, but also avoid this matter from going astray in the field of public opinion and completely becoming a topic of entertainment gossip.
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At present, Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei have temporarily reached a "truce" agreement, but the discussion on gender marriage and family issues on Weibo has not stopped.
These entertainment gossip events have further aroused people's attention and thinking about some social phenomena and social topics, which is a valuable place.
In fact, several "big events" that have occurred in the entertainment industry this year, whether it is Wu Yifan, Zheng Shuang, Hua Chenyu, Zhang Zhehan, or so on, have made people feel this.
Behind the "national onlookers" on Weibo, there is actually no lack of valuable discussions on some social issues.
In the Zheng Shuang incident, everyone discussed more about the ethics and morality of surrogacy; the Brilliance Chenyu incident, people talked more about marriage, career, responsibility and child rearing; the Wu Yifan incident, which discussed how women protect themselves in sexual assault, how to interact benignly between star fans, and the norms of star art and morality.
Including Wang Lihong's marriage storm, in fact, there are many subdivided problems, such as marriage cold violence, marital divorce property division, full-time housewives, etc. Every topic is actually a pain point in reality, so many people are deeply touched.
▲China Women's Daily comments on the Wang Lihong incident (Screenshot of Weibo)
From this point of view, entertainment is only the flavoring of related events, and while netizens are seriously "eating melons", the social issues behind entertainment gossip have triggered discussions from all sides, and the voices of the professional field have also been heard.
Social media platforms are actually a reflection of society. Weibo's square attribute helps to focus and amplify hot topics, acting as an amplifier, which in turn can form in-depth discussion and direction guidance. This is conducive to the search for facts, so that right and wrong are more and more clear, and it is also conducive to improving people's public literacy and public awareness.
When the voice of reason becomes louder and louder, and more and more people are affected, many social and public problems are more likely to find a solution, and the spiritual outlook, civilization and behavior norms of society and the public can develop well. This is a situation that everyone wants to see in a modern civilized society.
In the final analysis, what is behind the clamor of the Wang Lihong incident, the answer is clear.