"Zhang Yixing, you are good, don't become the next Wu Yifan"

Got up sharply, and saw the "Qing Dynasty widow" on the Internet in 2023.

One by one, a foreign dictatorship, a mouthful of regents, I don't know, I thought that I returned to the feudal dynasty with one click, which was outrageous and made people laugh.

This farce originated from a powder circle dispute.

Some time ago, several of Zhang Yixing's big fans united to denounce the studio and demanded that the studio must change blood.

In their eyes, Zhang Yixing's studio is a family workshop, all controlled by Zhang Yixing's mother, and the financial personnel are also cousins and cousins. Due to this unprofessionalism of the team, Zhang Yixing's development stagnated and he was frequently scolded.

Fans even appealed to Zhang Yixing's studio, asking for "severing the relationship between mother and son". Some fans chanted: "Give me back my son!" ”

In a cybercontest, male stars are shouting for their mothers.

It's just that these don't seem to be very harmonious.

Male mother, it's hard to say a word

How outrageous can male celebrity moms really be? Just counting a few can surprise the audience's jaw.

Actor Zhu Yuchen's mother can be called the most male mother. The purpose of life is: "No matter where my son goes, I will give him a warm kitchen." ”

      Source: Variety show "That Kid in My Family"      

I got up at four o'clock every day to boil pear soup for my son, and I didn't move for more than ten years.

Zhu Yuchen enters the group to film, she will follow her son into the crew, get up in the morning to cook and wash dishes for her son, and have to wait for her son to finish work in the evening.

When Zhu Yuchen came to Beijing from Shanghai to Beijing, she first asked her son's dormitory if the classmates in the dormitory were snoring, worried that it would affect her son's sleep. Later, he moved to Beijing alone to accompany him to study, filling the refrigerator with food every day.

Talking about her love for her son on the show, she was ashamed: "I treat my son with my whole life." ”

      Source: Variety show "That Kid in My Family"      

He will even copy his son's Weibo one by one to review and record his son's life.

Talking about the criteria for choosing a mate in the future, she almost printed "find another mother for her son" on the bright side:

To serve her husband wholeheartedly, to be a good wife and mother, to be a lady-like girl...

      Source: Variety show "That Kid in My Family"    

Zhu Yuchen was first recognized by the public in the TV series "Struggle", although he is not a handsome guy, but he is good looking and has good acting skills.

However, he was single until he was almost forty years old, and it was not until he appeared on the show in 2018 that the public discovered the horror problem of his family.

Later, it was rumored that the goddess Tang Wei and Jiang Yan both had a brief relationship with him, but later broke up when they couldn't stand his mother.

Sure enough, he answered the sentence, "With such a mother, it is difficult not to be single." ”

Also because her mother has been single for many years is also the ancient puppet male god Hu Ge.

It is said that Hu Ge's mother has three criteria for choosing a girlfriend for her son: outsiders, good families, and beautiful people. It would be better if we could "find a female scientist, at least a female doctor".

Hu Ge himself has said many times that falling in love will consider all aspects, especially whether the mother is satisfied.

The previous relationships ended in vain, and many times netizens suspected that their own mother was dissatisfied.

However, the above two male mothers, at best, have forced their son's life a little tighter, and closing the door is a family affair of one acre and three points of land.

But some male mothers flood their mother's love to every corner, forcing the world to make way for her son.

Before Luo Zhixiang collapsed, the relationship with his mother was so good that it was scary.

The two not only frequently stick together to express their love for each other, but also often kiss mouth-to-mouth in various public occasions. (The picture is too spicy, her sister won't let it go, if you want to see it, go and search for it)

Later, Luo Zhixiang was exposed by his girlfriend Zhou Yangqing for scandals such as chaos in his private life, disrespect for women, and "multi-person sports", and the mother's first reaction was not that her son did something wrong, but that "emotional matters should not be made public", and even accused Zhou Yangqing of "directly ruining Luo Zhixiang".

Wu Yifan, who was previously in prison, is even more heavyweight.

Growing up in a single-parent family, he has always had a good relationship with his mother, who was his earliest agent after terminating his contract in South Korea, taking care of his son's living and working.

After forming a professional brokerage team, the mother still holds the highest voice and escorts her son's star path all the way.

Knowing that her son's private life was chaotic, she waved her hand and prepared to deal with the problem for her son, not only to settle the money, but also to try to take the girl to court on the charge of extortion, but she did not expect to send her son to the bureau.

These male mothers have been wiping their sons' buttocks all their lives.

However, paradoxically, when something happens to the sons, these mothers will always be the first to take out the top cylinder.

"It's all fucking fault, it has nothing to do with him!"

How many "moms" are there in male celebrities?

Although the male stars after the collapse will be criticized by the public, some fans will come out to "do justice" for them.

"It's a pity, it's all buried in the hands of my mother who can't carry it."

Cai Xukun, who was exposed some time ago to hook up and beat the tire, almost repeated Wu Yifan's old path.

Although people sleep by themselves, they privately install surveillance, arrange private detective tracking, and negotiate prices... It's all Cai Xukun's mother who is busy alone.

So the fan's whitewashing words are very loud: it's all done, and it has nothing to do with our idols.

When I used it, I kissed my mother-in-law, and when I made a mistake, it was Ms. Xu. There was no pretended monitoring, her brother did not find someone to follow, and everything was done by the evil Ms. Xu.

Although it is said that the biological mother and the idol are cut off, I have to say that this set of logic of fans is actually no different from the biological mother:

"My son can't be wrong! You are all bad people! ”

A male mother was martyred, and thousands of male mothers stood up. Their common name is "Ma Fan".

In addition to trying their best to whitewash their "sons" in incidents such as love collapse, at other times, male mothers are also keen to point fingers.

Styling, casting, positioning, development direction... Mom fans are never absent in the matter of guiding the work of artists, not only to remove obstacles around idou, but also to let the "son" grow up in the sun in the most regular track.

The most of them is tearing up the studio and tearing the team.

In the first two years, Yang Yang's fans thought that the brokerage team was too "waste" and did not give Yang Yang good makeup, so they went to the makeup artist Weibo to make yin and yang strange.

He even rented a car offline to defend his rights and asked for Yang Yang's independent studio.

Later, Yang Yang himself calmed the fans' emotions, but it was useless.

The fans below responded gently and forcefully like their mothers: You are good, leave it alone this time.

If memory serves, my mother didn't let me play with people with poor grades in the same tone.

However, tearing the studio is fine, at best it is an embarrassment between colleagues.

In case the work team is a family workshop, it will be troublesome, and one of the demands of Zhang Yixing's fans written by her sister at the beginning of the studio is to let Zhang Yixing break off the mother-son relationship.

This requirement, not to say that there is no one to come, at least it is also groundbreaking.

Xu Jing and Meng Xingxing of Xi'an Jiaotong University once wrote in their paper "Digital Parenting: "Motherhood Reinvention in the Practice of Mama Fan" Media":

"The identity protocol of "Ma Fan" relies on the connotation of motherhood in real space. In most cultures, the biggest feature of motherhood is self-sacrifice, and women's motherhood practice is reflected in constantly "worrying" about the family (Li Fangying, 2019). Gender differences and the gender division of labour in the social structure have led to the re-production of motherhood by the need for women to perform the role of motherhood, which in turn has led to the reproduction of motherhood. In the practice of star chasing, "idols" replace "family" and become the object to worry about, and "mom fans" seem to find and practice active and positive gender relations in the process of interacting with idols, but they still instinctively think that emotions such as "worry", "tolerance" and "protection" are most in line with their emotional demands for idols."

Worrying about and protecting desire is a keyword that is difficult for mom fans to remove.

So, my mother and my mother fans completed a inheritance of motherhood.

The mother did her best for her son's growth and cleaned up the mess at the cost of breaking the law; Mother fans then transferred this set of bad things to their own mothers, and the terms "parasite", "can't be carried", "old queen" and so on were buttoned back, anyway, they have their own "native family" to carry the cauldron.

On the one hand, it is the infinite favor of the mother-in-law in the family, and on the other hand, the bottomless tolerance of the outside mother's fans.

In the narrative that the man dies as a teenager, the giant babies are at ease and have never changed.

How is the giant baby man refined?

Why is Ma Bo Man particularly annoying?

These men, who grew up doting on their mothers, rely on their mothers to make decisions in everything, and have neither assertiveness nor responsibility.

      Source: TV series "It's All Good"      

After entering the marriage relationship, they can often naturally learn a transfer ability: "My mother is not easy, so you have to be good to my mother." ”

Whenever the issue of male mothers is discussed, some people will always say that it is the excessive control of the mother that creates the male baby.

But if you look closely, you will find that except for a few sons who are really injured in a closed space, the others are basically inverted cause and effect.

That is, it is not because the mother controls the son, but the weak sons do not want to bear the responsibility and automatically become invisible, so the mother needs to come out and clean up the mess at all times.

This can be reflected in the mate selection criteria of mom and boy.

Their criteria for finding a wife are very simple and similar: either find someone like his mother who can help him take care of his life and work problems; Or find a mother who likes, well-behaved, filial and sweet, and give birth to grandchildren to your mother when you enter the door.

In other words, either find yourself another mother, or find someone to serve your mother with.

In the marriage of two people, he and his mother are the community of interests.

Jay Chou married Kunling, saying that Kunling "listened to his mother"; Huang Xiaoming loves Baby because of his "temperament like a mother".

Wu Yifan, who is now stepping on the sewing machine, expressed his view of love in many variety shows that year: "I like girls who are as clean as angels." ”

Talking about further development, Wu Yifan, who was almost thirty years old at the time, still spoke: "Will listen to my mother." ”

Even in the early years, hooking up had to push my mother out to block the gun: "My mother is coming, really coming." ”

In short, no matter how the years change, the motherhood and wife will only be inherited between the two women, and the old bride will be exchanged for the bride. As for the male treasure, there will always be another mother to take care of herself.

Although it is a little uncomfortable to be controlled all the time, they also know in their hearts that only mothers in the world will tilt all their focus and resources on themselves.

Mom will give without expecting anything in return, Mom will be self-respecting, and in this parent-child relationship, they can enjoy too much.

Cai Xukun's mother was suspected to have been exposed after the accident: "I really love my son as a person, I have to do everything for him willingly without asking for anything in return, to put it mildly, it is to lick my son's feet, and I am also willing." ”

Men who grow up in this environment will only feel that they and their mother are a united front, and everyone else can be sacrificed at will.

It is not surprising that it was revealed that there was a one-night stand without a condom and a tire.

However, don't really think that they love their mother much, after all, after the accident, they will quickly transfer responsibility, not only can pretend that they don't know anything, but also hide behind fans and continue to be protected.

Only fans are still stupidly going out for their "son", feeling that idou is blinded.

If I want to say, domestic screenwriters don't always stare at first-line middle-class families to shoot bloody mother-in-law and daughter-in-law dramas, you look at the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the entertainment industry, there are conflicts, contradictions and reconciliations, and the elements are more complete.

Michelle Yeoh next door doesn't have to shoot any "Ma's Multiverse", and this good drama of internal entertainment is the real East Asian parent-child relationship guide.

      Source: The movie "Instantaneous Universe"     

After all, from the story of the mother to the bride, it is estimated that there will be the next victim.