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The wife is the thermometer of the family, as long as you have enough love, she will definitely rise to the temperature you need, do your warm sun in the winter, warm you until old.
—— Mizuki Nianhua
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Married people are deeply touched, the more incompetent men are more harsh on their wives, the more capable men are better to their wives.
Once watching a blind date show, a male guest made a marriage declaration on the stage and said: "It is not okay to suffer much grievance outside, only in front of the wife can you suffer any grievance." As soon as the words fell, there was a round of applause from the audience.
The boss of the original unit had a particularly bad attitude towards the employees, opened his mouth to train, everyone was very afraid of him, and privately discussed: "The boss is so fierce, you can't beat the boss lady when you go home?" ”
Unexpectedly, the insider said: "The boss has a particularly good temper at home, and has been married to the boss lady for more than ten years, and has not quarreled." ”
The more capable people are, the more they understand the preciousness of the harmony of their relatives and the hard-won happiness of their families.
A man's real ability is not to create a big career, but to know how to run a family business and know how to be good to his wife.
However, in real life, most men can swallow their breath outside and come home to get a little angry. When his wife said something wrong, he was furious.
In fact, people who are good to their wives are really capable. Couples get along harmoniously, the family will be happy, and the career will be like a spring breeze.
As said, after marriage, whether your husband really hurts you depends on how much he "understands you".
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To be good to your wife is to know how to respect her
Actress Huo Siyan is notoriously spoiled at home, and her husband Du Jiang respects her very much. When Huo Siyan was pregnant, he rubbed pregnancy oil on her regularly every day and did not want her to grow a wrinkle.
What's even warmer is that Huo Siyan works until late at night, and Du Jiang waits for her until late at night, and makes him a supper for him.
After having children, the feelings of the two people are still undiminished, and they do not hesitate to express their praise and love for each other.
A man can only take care of and treat women, and truly respect his wife psychologically, he will get the woman's sincerity.
Being genuinely good to your partner is not doing useless work. Home is the home of two people, and the woman has a blessed family. The gentleness of a woman directly affects the days. However, only when men respect women, women will become more and more gentle.
Mr. Lu Qi said: "If you fall in love with a woman, please praise her." ”
In real life, many men do not know how to respect their wives.
I saw a story like this on the Internet:
A couple often quarreled because of their emotional discord and went to the Civil Affairs Bureau for divorce. Coming out of the Civil Affairs Bureau, the woman suddenly fainted on the ground, and others thought that the man would lift the woman, but did not expect the man to throw his hand away.
However, even if it is divorced, it is still a husband and wife, how can you watch the fainting wife see death and not save? But the most cruel truth in marriage is that divorced, you are you, I am me, and I have nothing to do with it.
I once read such a sentence: "The superior people have the ability and no temper; the last people have the temper and the incompetence." ”
Men who have no ability are probably like this, making a blessing in front of their wives, but on the outside they have become a shrunken-headed turtle.
Men with ability not only behave properly outside, but also have great respect for their wives when they return home. Because they know very well that his wife is the one who has a heart with him, the best person in the world for him.
Just like in the Korean drama "The Men of the Bathhouse Owner's House", the bathhouse owner often said a sentence: "We all have to listen to women." ”
Men respect women, and the family will become more and more prosperous.
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To be good to your wife is to understand her efforts
Director Ang Lee said: "Husband and wife love, that is, there is love after grace, only by thanking each other's goodness, will they love each other more." ”
In fact, for respecting the wife's efforts, Ang Lee has the most right to speak.
In the early years of Ang Lee, because of his unsuccessful career, he was decadent at home for a while. At home, I cook and wash my clothes, and I go to the market with my wife to buy vegetables.
He had thought about changing careers, but Ang Lee's wife wouldn't let him. My wife said to him, no matter how small others look down on you, I will not be like that, I will always be your solid backing.
After that, in order to make Lee An comeback, his wife took on all the financial burdens of the family, and Lee Ann focused on studying and doing his own business.
Later, Ang Lee did not live up to his wife's efforts and really became famous, and he was full of gratitude to his wife: "My wife can smile at me, and I will feel very happy." ”
In a person's life, the greatest happiness is the affirmation and recognition of others, and if you can get the approval of the other half, your heart will naturally be much more stable.
Ang Lee recognizes his wife in this way, and is grateful for her wife's dedication to him, which I believe is also the most gratifying thing for Ang Lee's wife.
Marriage is not a one-man show, and it is not a woman who pays one-sidedly in exchange for happiness. It also needs the approval of men, and the efforts of men are the real marriage.
Everyone longs for an eternal love, but a good love begins with mutual recognition. You see my efforts and are grateful for it, which is the best reward for love.
It is difficult to meet a good person in the world, and if you meet, you must cherish it.
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To be good to your wife is to know how to tolerate her willfulness
There is a saying in "Settle the Heart Well": "Love is heartache without reason and tolerance without preconditions." ”
Many women are always very willful when they are in love. Again and again willful, but with the love of men, it seems that everything is not a problem. For those men who are not willing to tolerate, love will go into a desperate situation.
Is there something wrong with a girl's waywardness? It is right in the eyes of those who tolerate her, and it is annoying in the eyes of those who do not tolerate her.
As Lu Xun said: "If I love you, if you are willful, it is called personality; if I don't love you, even if you are gentle like a cat, I will think you lose your hair." ”
In fact, family trivia has every day, where is there a woman who is not willful? For men, to tolerate their wives more, life will be good.
The marriage between Chen Xiaochun and Ying Cai'er is that no matter how Ying Cai'er makes a fool of herself, Chen Xiaochun will always accompany her with a cute smiley face.
Only once, because Ying Cai'er was too willful, Chen Xiaochun really couldn't stand it, so he told his father-in-law about Ying Cai'er's complaint. As a result, his father-in-law praised Chen Xiaochun very much, calling him a qualified son-in-law.
In marriage, it is very common for a wife to be willful to her husband. There is a saying that a happy marriage is "you are making trouble, he is laughing".
Only when the marriage is full of joy and laughter, will the life be sound and colorful.
Therefore, if you meet your wife's willfulness, try to tolerate your wife more, and your life will be higher and higher.
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It is said that to see a family happy or unhappy, just look at the woman to know. If the woman is pleasant and rosy, the family must be very happy.
The happiness of the wife determines the happiness index of a family, and smart men know how to be good to their wives, because this is the ability and pattern of a man.
Knowing to be good to your wife is the greatest skill of a man's life.
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