It is said that "a spoiled woman has the best life", and sure enough, a daughter-in-law in Henan held her father-in-law's thigh in public and asked for money and wanted to buy an electric car. The father-in-law had no choice but to obediently pay money, which amused many netizens.
The daughter-in-law asked to buy an electric car, and the father-in-law smiled and paid for it
It is reported that at that time, the woman wanted to buy an electric car and proposed to let her father-in-law help with 1,000 yuan. But after half a day of exchange, the father-in-law took out 500 yuan, saying that this is enough to buy an electric car. But the daughter-in-law did not admit that it was not enough, the father-in-law was just ready to leave, she directly squatted down and hugged the father-in-law's leg to spoil. In public, the father-in-law looked helpless, coupled with other family members instigating on the side, the father-in-law had to pay another 500 yuan to the daughter-in-law.
After this scene spread on the Internet, it amused many netizens. Some netizens said that if a woman is spoiled, anything can be solved.
Some netizens think that such a family atmosphere is enviable, and it can be seen that the in-laws and daughters-in-law have a good relationship, and the daughter-in-law dares to lie in public. If every family could do this, there would not be so many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts.
Afterwards, the father-in-law said that the daughter-in-law has been married to his own family for 5 years, and the old couple has always raised her as a girlfriend, and the relationship is very good. In the past 5 years, the in-laws have never stirred their mouths, which everyone in the village knows.
As for the daughter-in-law's measure of asking for money, the father-in-law said: Of course, you have to pay money. I have a son of myself, and the money I earn is all theirs, I don't give it now, and I have to give it in the future!
From the picture, it can be seen that the daughter-in-law is wearing a set of cartoon pajamas, and the side looks like a child, indicating that this girl is innocent and has no intentions, no wonder the family likes her. The good treatment of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also good for the relationship between husband and wife, at least the husband does not have to be caught between the parents and the wife.
The quality of the mother-in-law-daughter relationship depends on both parties. Although the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a big difference in age and living habits, since they have become a family, they should be considerate and tolerant of each other. And the mother-in-law and the wife love a man at the same time, there is no reason to make a fuss, in the end, it is all for the good of this family. In case of disagreement, the most critical thing is that the two sides should communicate in time, find out the problem and then solve it, and must not hold it in the heart, it is easy to convert into resentment after a long time, and it is not easy to resolve the contradiction.
Which characteristics of the mother-in-law are popular
To sum up, a mother-in-law with 4 characteristics will feel very happy as a daughter-in-law. First, after marriage, the daughter-in-law is treated as a daughter, and such a mother-in-law has a high emotional intelligence. Marrying into her own family is one of the members of the family, and she is good to her daughter-in-law, she will also be good to herself and her son. Some mothers-in-law always feel that the daughter-in-law is not her own child, so they try their best to make things difficult, resulting in the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife and even divorce, and finally regret it is too late.
In fact, before marriage, which girl is not the pearl in the palm of her parents? As a mother-in-law, I certainly don't want my son to be inferior to my mother-in-law's house. Therefore, from another perspective, think about how you treat your son, you should do to your daughter-in-law. He is good to his daughter-in-law, and his family will naturally be good to his son.
The second category is the mother-in-law who does not make excessive demands on the daughter-in-law. Some mothers-in-law came up to provoke, saying that the daughter-in-law's education, work or appearance were not worthy of their sons, but since their sons had identified her, it showed that she had something superior. As an elder, all you have to do is respect your son's choices.
At the same time, the mother-in-law should also respect the work and lifestyle of the daughter-in-law. In the past, it was advocated that the male and female protagonists were within the male and female protagonists, and women could teach their children at home, but the times were different, and women also had to have their own careers in order to achieve economic freedom and exchange a dignity. In terms of lifestyle, the mother-in-law has a lot of experience at home and can be appropriately passed on to the daughter-in-law. Of course, now the family has introduced a lot of high-tech things, and there are more advanced ways of parenting, in these things, the mother-in-law is afraid that it is not as good as the daughter-in-law, everyone should learn from each other and improve the quality of life together.
The third type is the mother-in-law who knows how to divide the inches and does not interfere with the emotional life of her son. It is really good to be the mother of the child, but the child is also independent, and there will be his small family after marriage, and all he has to do as an elder is to support and help. It is said that after a young person gets married, the ideal state is that two people withdraw from their original families and work together on their new families. If the elders continue to interfere with the marital status of the younger generations, it will directly affect the life planning of the husband and wife.
The most typical performance is that many mothers-in-law are anxious to hold their grandchildren and urge new people to have children quickly. But what they don't know is that now having a child, the pressure on couples is very great, especially families with mortgages and car loans. Therefore, many young couples now plan to save money first, and then prepare to conceive and have children after having a certain amount of savings. Of course, if they encounter similar problems, young people should inform their elders of their thoughts in time, and they will not be urged again after they understand.
The last one is the concept of hierarchy without feudalism. Now marriage pays attention to the door to the door, not completely refers to the economic situation, but more to see the three views and conduct of the two people. If you encounter a serious concept of hierarchy, the son happens to marry a daughter-in-law whose family is not ideal, and the mother-in-law will definitely look down on the daughter-in-law after marriage.
It is said that two people get married, and it is not only the husband and daughter-in-law who marry and marry, but also each other's families. Therefore, when selecting a partner, we must observe more, and then talk about marriage after fully understanding.