According to reports, the video of a 7-month-pregnant wife in Shaanxi who was forced by her husband to work to support her family has attracted the attention of netizens.
In the video, the pregnant woman pointed to her husband's grievances and scolded, and the mother-in-law deliberately "pretended to be deaf" on the side. After understanding, I learned that the original marriage room of the two people was paid for by the pregnant woman's mother's family, but the result was written with the names of the sister-in-law and her husband, that is to say, the couple had to pay the mortgage for the sister-in-law every month.
What breaks pregnant women is that if the husband does not want to make progress, he knows how to play games at home. The wife, considering that after the birth of the child, the family expenses will increase, and tells the husband not to ignore it. But the husband not only did not listen, but also let the pregnant women go out on their own to find work.
Pregnant women have an emotional breakdown
In the video, the pregnant woman pointed to her husband and said that she regretted that she did not listen to her parents and marry here, and her husband did not treat herself well after marriage. Now 7 months pregnant, he also let himself go out to find a job to support his family.
When the pregnant woman spoke, she was incoherent, but the husband was indifferent, still holding the mobile phone and tinkering, completely ignoring the emotionally broken pregnant woman.
In addition, the mother-in-law of a pregnant woman appears on the screen, sweeping the floor with a broom, apparently deliberately "pretending to be deaf".
The fuse of things
After understanding, I learned that the original emotional collapse of pregnant women was because the house where the two people lived after marriage was paid for by themselves, and the names of the sister-in-law and her husband were written, which meant that the mortgage paid hard every month was paid for the sister-in-law. In addition, after marrying himself, his husband resigned and spent his days hanging out at home, drinking or playing games all day. The wife feels that there are still a few months to go before the child is born, and the husband cannot continue like this, otherwise how will the family live in the future? Hearing his wife's words, the husband not only did not realize the weight of the burden on his shoulders, but asked his wife to go out to find a job to support the family.
Hearing such words, the pregnant woman could not bear it any longer, and vented in front of her husband and mother-in-law, and filmed the video and uploaded it to the Internet. Soon, this video attracted the attention of netizens.
Some netizens expressed sympathy for this pregnant woman who met someone unladylike, pregnant with a child and was forced to go out to work, I really don't know how the husband is, there is no sense of responsibility.
Some netizens sighed that it is reasonable for parents to prevent their children from marrying far away, and now that the woman is in a foreign country, even if she has been wronged in her in-laws' home, there is no place to cry. In these years, many girls go to the end of the world for love, but marrying far away is like a big gamble, and there are very few girls who really gamble and win.
Some netizens believe that pregnant women can choose whether to go out to work according to their health status. If there is no major pregnancy reaction, and it is a relatively easy job in the office, the pregnant woman is competent. It's better than being bored at home all day, and doctors have also said that pregnant women can do a moderate amount of exercise, which is good for both the mother and the fetus. During pregnancy, the most taboo thing is to lie at home and not move, not only will the emotions collapse, but the body will also become bulky. Of course, if the pregnant woman's pregnancy reaction is large and the work content is more difficult, it is recommended to raise the fetus at home.
Some netizens accused the pregnant women in the video of being too pretentious, and pregnancy is not impossible to work.
But in fact, everyone may misunderstand the real idea of the collapse of the pregnant woman, she feels aggrieved that her husband does not want to make progress, did not make efforts for the family, but in turn asked his wife to make sacrifices.
It can be seen that during pregnancy, husbands and mothers-in-law do not give much care, which is why pregnant women are so emotionally unstable.
Observation can show that people who live in a loving environment, especially pregnant women, are emotionally stable and seem to be very happy.
This kind of incident is definitely not a minority in society, and a pregnant woman in Hangzhou also encountered similar problems. The pregnant woman reported that after marrying her husband, she was pregnant with a child, but due to physical reasons, the fetus stopped. Afterwards, the contradictions between husband and wife escalated, and they almost divorced.
It was not until the woman became pregnant again and had a lot of fetal protection injections that she stabilized. Since then, the husband has been forcing pregnant women to take the civil service exam, and also accused pregnant women of not having a good job, which will drag themselves down, and even sometimes the husband will drop things and insult himself.
Hearing such a story, I think everyone is uncomfortable in their hearts. It was hard enough to conceive in October, and as a husband, she was not only inconsiderate, but also mentally tortured her wife. In order to avoid living with such a person, I hope that everyone must polish their eyes before marriage, wait until they know each other thoroughly, and then decide whether to organize a family with him.
There is a popular saying on the Internet that marriage is the second "reincarnation" of girls. There are two aspects referred to here, one is material and the other is spiritual.
If a girl marries a husband with better material conditions, the quality of life in the future can be improved, but if she marries a person who does not want to make progress, she may suffer some hardships and live a tight life. Of course, the choice of marriage partner must also pay attention to the three views of the match, so that the marriage relationship can achieve a balanced state.
The spiritual level refers to the fact that the husband takes care of the family, has a sense of responsibility, and organizes a family with such a person, and the woman is definitely happy. If it's said to marry a man who eats well and is lazy, women can easily have an emotional breakdown. It was okay not to have children, to see clearly and leave early, and both people were liberated. Afraid of being pregnant or having a child, women are reluctant to have children and seek perfection.
Through these cases, I hope to sound the alarm for women, whether they are single or married, they must have their own careers and incomes, and they must not rely too much on their other half, and always remember that they are an independent body. Only when the self is strong, the people around you will not look down on themselves. Even if you divorce, you will be able to support yourself or your children.