Recently, a boy in Shenzhen, Guangdong Province, wanted to go to the hospital with his parents for blood tests, only because he suspected blood relations.
Boys are students and still have a lot of homework every day. In addition, I usually write homework and rub it, so I spend several times more time writing homework than other students.
Parents accompany their children and are also anxious. When tutoring the boy to write homework, he couldn't help but scold a few times. The boy was also helpless, and did not dare to rebuke his parents loudly, and could only accept the harshness of his parents.
"Is his son related by blood?" The boy suddenly began to question his mother.
The mother was confused and blurted out: "You and your father must be related by blood!" ”
Boy: "I want a blood test!" ”
The mother said, "No test, 100 percent yes."
The boy asked, "What if I picked it up?" ”
It turns out that the child's mother and son watch short videos together, and often see videos of using blood tests to find their biological parents.
On the same day, he had a sudden whim, doubted his blood relationship, and wanted to go to the hospital for blood tests. Because his parents were too strict with him, he didn't look like his biological parents at all.
When the child's mother learned about it, she smiled bitterly and was angry. The child's father took over the stubble and enlightened his son: "You look at your face and your mother's face, and you know if you picked it up."
As he spoke, the family laughed.
Afterword: Although the above is a joke, the child is also a childlike, but can we parents really only laugh it off? Shouldn't we reflect on it? Cultivating children's self-consciousness is really important, and now children are most afraid of writing homework, is it really too much homework? Is the assignment too hard? I don't think so! I think it is more about the child's self-consciousness and poor self-control.
Cultivating children's abilities in this regard requires parents to cultivate them from an early age. Let's take a case!
My niece, now in the third year of junior high school, now her homework, my sister rarely asked, back home she will be very conscious to write homework, in fact, my sister told me that since the fifth grade, she rarely checked her niece's homework, and rarely went to accompany her niece to write homework.
Why?
It is to cultivate children's self-consciousness and self-control. From the first grade, the sister accompanied the child to write homework, accompanied the child to endorse, read with the child, played with the endorsement, and studied together, and the sister was the first Chinese. Very patient with children, rarely because the child's exams are not good, homework is written slowly, etc., to scold or beat the child. Always patiently look for the cause and do the child's thought work. After a few years, the child does not need to accompany him every day, and will consciously write homework. When I got to junior high school, I had a lot of peace of mind, and my grades were excellent, and I envied this way of education. Although I am a teacher, this method of education is really practical. I also always warn my students that parents can try it. Even my own children will learn from it.
Children's education has a long way to go, we tend to be troubled because of the chai rice oil and salt in life or the work is not smooth, we should not impose this kind of trouble and pressure on our children, but patiently educate, they are our future, our investment, our investment experience and time is small, the future of children's problems, do not blame the child, ask yourself how much investment.
Thank you for your attention and support, I am Li Er said three, adhere to the original.