"In the matter of urging marriage, my mother is definitely not inferior to outsiders." A post-95 girl in Beijing complained in the circle of friends that she did not dare to go home during the winter vacation, and was alone in the dormitory. Eat two bags of instant noodles every now and then, deal with it, but still have fun. Someone asked her why she was in such an awkward situation. As a result, she flipped out of the circle of friends, lit up the WeChat screenshot, and everyone burst into tears.
It turned out that this girl's friends, some 36-year-olds were urged to marry, some 30-year-olds were urged to marry, but she never expected that she, a little girl who was only 25 years old, had never been in love, and was still urged to marry by her parents. The girl said that the foreign girl was urged to marry, which was a hurry to enter the household registration. You said that I am a local hukou, I am so young, or by my parents to marry, really depressed to death.
According to the logic of the girl's mother, 25 years old is the age to talk about marriage, and it is too late to get married. Men with better conditions have long found a suitable partner, the conditions are almost divorced, the daughter does not find a partner, the mother is worried! Just say that she does not practice fake tricks, and the mother makes friends for her daughter and checks the blind date for her daughter. Leaving those who feel that the conditions are still good to the daughter for the second time is really conscientious. Moreover, the mother is in front of the blind date, which is a hard time praising the daughter!
Listen to this Beijing mother, how to praise her daughter when she urges marriage?
My daughter is first-class-looking, highly educated in graduate school, beautiful, in good shape, with a big ass, and can give birth to a child at a glance. Most importantly, my family has good conditions, there is a local household registration, if you can marry my daughter, you can come to my house to live, I will coax you to have children. My daughter can eat and drink, except for the mouth is strong, not strong anywhere, you don't have to be afraid that someone will bully you, I can balance for you. Every time the mother praises her daughter, she does not forget to show the other party the beautiful photo after the daughter's P picture, and praises in her mouth, "It's really beautiful, right?" Slimmer! ”
When the daughter saw her mother's hateful appearance, she felt very humiliated, and she no longer wanted to experience the ordeal of being urged to marry, so she simply hid in the rental house and refused to go home. Moreover, the daughter also posted such an experience in the circle of friends, and the comments of friends lit up. "My family also has the same kind of mother, it is really difficult to be a good sister!"
But the daughter sometimes hurt her mother, every time the mother saw the blind date failed, she would be very sad, and once she cried from night to dawn, and she was depressed. However, the daughter also said that if you can't deal with it, find someone to marry, that is too unreliable, in case it doesn't last long, what can you do if you are divorced. Many when the daughter is worried, when it comes to the New Year's Festival, or when the whole family is reunited, they will be urged to marry in various ways, especially the nagging of the mother, and they really can't stand it.
So, why are most of the marriage urgers the woman's parents?
1 The older a girl is, the less selective she is
Girls who get married generally love to choose those of the same age, and are rarely willing to choose younger than their own age, right? Most parents also want their daughter to marry a mature and stable boy. Therefore, girls get married, generally in the choice of age, they require the other party to be older, at least the same age as themselves, or up and down the range of 3-15 years old. The older a woman is, the less selective she is, which is an important reason for marriage.
2 Girls want to have children, consider the optimal age for childbearing
Girls are not like boys, girls face fertility problems. If you plan to have children after marriage, the best time to have children is between 25 and 35 years old. Beyond this age, regenerating babies is prone to risk. Men are different, men can find a young girl to marry, as long as there is a suitable, do not worry about the problem of marriage.
3 girls married the wrong person, the way back is not good
Girls' marriages are not the same as boys' marriages, and boys are divorced and more sought-after. When a girl is wrongly married, she is entrusted with a non-person, and it is easy to ruin her life. Therefore, parents are always very worried, hoping to check for their daughters and not let the marriage ruin their daughters' lives. After all, girls are more emotional and easy to get caught up in emotions. Once you get married and have a baby, the emotional problem is not easy to deal with.
In short, at the end of the year, there are more girls facing marriage urging, I don't know what the situation is on your side? Have you been urged?
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