【Author:Ziye】
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"Several degrees of wind and rain, several degrees of spring and autumn, wind and frost, snow and rain, fierce currents, through all the hardships and infatuation, the young man's ambition is not worried, the golden shield is forged with blood, and the danger is displayed."
People who can follow these few lyrics must remember the famous actor Hu Yajie.
In 1987, Hu Yajie, who was still in his junior year, starred in "Plainclothes Policeman", and then became popular all over the country and became a male god in the memory of a generation.
Hu Yajie's image is sunny and positive, handsome and stylish, and he is an unforgettable actor in the hearts of many people.
01 Hu Yajie starred in the first film and television drama and became popular
Hu Yajie was born in Heilongjiang to a military family, his parents are literary and art lovers, and under their influence, Hu Yajie has been exposed to movies since he was a child.
When he was in elementary school, Hu Yajie liked to perform on stage, and often went out to perform on behalf of the school, like a small actor.
In middle school, he moved to Zhengzhou with his parents' work transfer, joined the school's drama club, and continued to be exposed to acting.
The idea of "becoming an actor in the future" has been deeply rooted in Hu Yajie's heart and has never changed.
In 1984, the handsome Hu Yajie was admitted to the Nortel Acting Department with excellent results and became a classmate of Wang Zhiwen.
In his junior year, Hu Yajie went to the communication room to get a letter, and happened to meet the director Lin Ru. Lin Ru admired Hu Yajie's image very much, and the two left contact information for each other.
Later, Hu Yajie became the male protagonist of "Plainclothes Police".
When "Plainclothes Police" was broadcast, it was not an exaggeration to describe it as a crowded alley. As soon as it was time to broadcast, everyone rushed home, just to not delay watching Hu Yajie.
Following the popularity of the TV series is also its theme song "Young Ambition Is Not Worried", which almost everyone can sing.
As of 2012, Hu Yajie was also awarded the title of "Thirty Years of Classic Image Actor" for his image in "Plainclothes Police".
After Hu Yajie became popular, he was assigned to the Chinese People's Liberation Army Air Force Political Department Drama Troupe and began to hone his acting skills on the drama stage.
Three years later, he took over the role of "Bloody Morning" directed by Li Shaohong again, and won the "Golden Globe Award at the Three Continents International Film Festival of Nantes in France" with this film.
Later, he took over film and television dramas such as "New Year", "Daobeiren", "Dancing Sky" and so on, and became the hottest male star in the 90s.
The deepest impression of the editor is Hu Yajie's "Wisteria Garden", I forget which year I watched it, and I forgot the specific storyline, I think the male protagonist there is "really handsome"!
02 And his wife love "Old Lady Soil"
In 1992, Hu Yajie took over the role of "Old Lady Soil" directed by Wang Jixing, which tells the growth story of the protagonist's governance of the country.
This film and television drama also has a theme song called "Father and Fellow Countryman".
"I was born in a small mountain village, where there are my fathers and fellow countrymen, with stories in their beards and a country voice buried in their laughter."
Because of this TV series, Hu Yajie met 24-year-old actress Tang Jing.
Tang Jing is the second female number of this play, graduated from the Beijing Academy of Opera, with a gentle temperament, and carries the charm of an opera artist with her hands and feet, which is very attractive to Hu Yajie.
Not long after, Hu Yajie openly pursued Tang Jing in the crew.
In order to pursue Tang Jing, Hu Yajie was very careful and was willing to meet almost all of Tang Jing's requirements.
At that time, the place where they were filming was a small county town, very backward. And Hu Yajie heard that Tang Jing likes to eat yellow peaches, so he walked around the county every day after filming, just to buy some yellow peaches for Tang Jing.
Because of a few yellow peaches, Tang Jing gradually moved his heart for Hu Yajie, but the girls' families were thin-skinned, and Hu Yajie took the initiative to attack, taking advantage of the time when the two went out to eat, and forcefully held Tang Jing's hand. Tang Jing did not shake off, and the two of them quietly joined together.
After the filming of "Old Lady Soil", the two returned to Beijing just in time for Tang Jing's father to be hospitalized, and Hu Yajie ran forward and ran to help, so that the old people in the family also liked it.
At that time, Hu Yajie had already been popular all over the country, no one knew it, such a famous actor actually served the elderly in the hospital wholeheartedly, who could not be moved?
With the unanimous blessings of family and friends, the two received their marriage licenses in August 1992.
The two did not have their own house when they got married, and they were crammed together in Hu Yajie's single dormitory. The dormitory is only 12 square meters, and with a bed and a desk, you can no longer move.
When they first got married, the two were still very fresh, and any shortcomings would be infinitely inclusive. But with the passage of time, the contradictions between the two have gradually been exposed.
Hu Yajie came from a military family, and his family was very strict with his movements and health conditions, and Hu Yajie also developed good habits.
Every time I came home from work, if I saw debris on the bed and dust on the table, Hu Yajie complained: "The home is so dirty, why don't you clean it up?" ”
Tang Jing was very surprised, thinking that the home had been cleaned up, why were you still not satisfied?
Hu Yajie asked Tang Jing to quickly clean up again, but Tang Jing did not listen to the command, and the two quarreled.
In order to "correct" Tang Jing's habit of not loving cleaning, the two did not quarrel.
But husband and wife live a life, which one is not stumbling over?
The two of you just dislike me, I hate you all the way forward, and I have walked for decades at once.
03 Hate each other and move forward
At their worst, the couple even filed for divorce three times for "cleaning up."
Hu Yajie, who comes from a military family, has been very rigid and a bit macho since he was a child; and Tang Jing is also the top pillar of the family and has a very strong temper; the two are almost incompatible.
Hu Yajie thought: "You are a woman, and if you don't clean up your home, you are not right!" ”
Tang Jing thought: "Even if you have a cleaning habit, if you don't clean, you always dislike me." ”
Once, Hu Yajie complained that Tang Jing did not clean up well, and Tang Jing became angry at once, saying: "You always command me, why don't you do it yourself?" Don't always impose your thoughts on me, I can't do it! ”
When Hu Yajie saw Tang Jing angry, he also said angrily: "You can't do just this little thing, can you still do it?" ”
Tang Jing replied, "Yes, I just can't do it!" You can't do it in a lifetime! ”
Hu Yajie snorted and said, "If you can't do it, get a divorce!" ”
Tang Jing also said smoothly, "Leave, leave!" ”
Angry and angry, the two did not really go to divorce, but the cold war for many days, do not care about each other.
A few days later, the two reconciled, and they discussed: "Is it not necessary to have a child and not quarrel?" ”
As a result, the two put the birth of a child on the agenda and had a big fat son in January 1997.
The birth of a son seems to have brought a new dawn to the family.
This year, Hu Yajie was lucky enough to get a two-bedroom house.
After the birth of the child, Tang Jing concentrated on taking the child at home, and Hu Yajie went around filming to maintain the normal expenses of the family.
Unexpectedly, the arrival of the child not only did not ease the relationship between husband and wife, but intensified the contradiction between the two.
The arrival of the children adds joy to the family and adds endless troubles.
Tang Jing took care of the children alone, and could not take care of the hygiene of the family at all, Hu Yajie returned from filming in other places, looked at the messy home, and was furious again.
The two filed for divorce for the second time because of "health problems".
This time the movement is bigger than the last time, the two are writing a divorce agreement, but when it comes to child custody, the two are worried.
Both want custody and fight for each other. A few days later, the evil fire slowly went down, and the divorce was over.
In this way, the two people are always noisy, but they can disappear the contradiction into invisibility.
04 The elderly resolve contradictions
Although the two often quarreled, they never shirked in their treatment of the elderly and the education of children.
Hu Yajie's mother has a protruding waist disc, life is very inconvenient, But Hu Yajie is in the crew every day, and Tang Jing serves the elderly, and follows him to the hospital before and after busy.
Hu Yajie's father had a heart attack, and he fell ill in the winter, and it was also Tang Jing who took the old man to the house and served him wholeheartedly, like his own daughter.
When Tang Jing's parents were sick, Hu Yajie also waited in front of the window like his own son, serving with all his heart.
Both parents are very satisfied with both of them, and they will praise each other every time they see their relatives.
In 2007, the two quarreled over hygiene issues and filed for divorce for the third time.
This time, the two of them distributed the things in the house, and even the custody of the children was distributed.
After the old people on both sides heard about it, the two sides persuaded them to tolerate each other, think more about each other's benefits, and don't always stare at the shortcomings.
Under the mediation of the elderly, the two also realized each other's problems and began to try benign communication.
Gradually, Hu Yajie found that his wife was actually very diligent, and she was very the old man and her son.
Tang Jing also tried to understand her husband's growing environment and work, and learned to take a step back.
Today, their sons are all in their twenties, not only are they good at both learning and learning, but they are also very grateful to their parents.
Hu Yajie hopes that his son can grow into a responsible and useful person to society.
Hu Yajie and his wife Tang Jing have divorced three times, and it is still difficult to give up, in the marriage course, the two have also learned to tolerate and understand each other, and only then have a complete family.
In fact, marriage is really difficult to understand.
When we are in love, we always think that we will tolerate everything about each other because of love, and when we really step into marriage, we find that it is easy to fall in love and it is too difficult to live together.
Two people with completely different upbringing backgrounds and living habits, insisting on living under one roof, can still be maintained at first because of the little love of the newlywed, and over time they will find that some habits are really unbearable.
Therefore, stepping into marriage requires caution, and once you step into it, you must be "patient, tolerant, and persistent" in order to go on for a long time.
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