Can you still be friends after a breakup?

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There is a program in "Strange Story" dedicated to a topic: Can couples continue to be friends after they break up?

Ma Weiwei said during the debate: "What is a friend? It's people who can sit down together and talk about their hearts; people who can help each other when they need each other.

If after the breakup, two people can still communicate and help each other, but they can't have a 'relationship', is the reason for the breakup because of bad health? ”

Deeply.

Since it feels inappropriate and decides to break up, instead of falling in love, it is better to be happy and happy, disappear from each other's world, and start a new life without concern.

So, after a breakup, can you still be friends? It's not that you can't, but there's no need to "beg for yourself."

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After the breakup, often contact, the consequences are endless

Orange and Xiaotian are college classmates, and after graduation, they were recruited to work for a company in Guangzhou.

I have been in love for two years in college, and it is a very happy thing to be able to apply for a unit after graduation. The students all felt that these two people would soon be able to cultivate the right results.

Xiaotian is the only son in the family, and the family conditions are also very good. His parents planned to let him take the local civil service examination after xiaotian graduated, and the family also prepared a house and car for him for marriage early.

But in order to follow love, Xiaotian ignored the opposition of his parents, did not go home after graduation, and went directly to Guangzhou with Orange.

Not long after the work was properly arranged, Xiaotian's parents came to Guangzhou to ask about the guilt. Xiaotian greeted his parents with oranges, invited them to dinner, and accompanied them shopping, thinking that his parents would be touched by their love, but his parents still resolutely let Xiaotian return to his hometown.

At first, Xiaotian asked his parents to allow him to stay with his girlfriend. After two days, when he saw that his parents' attitude had no room for relaxation, Xiaotian made a cold war with them.

Who knew that one foot tall, one foot tall, the devil was one foot tall, Xiaotian's mother was forced to die, and finally Xiaotian compromised.

On the day of parting, Xiaotian and Orange wanted to hug and cry. Although there are all kinds of reluctance in the heart, they also have to bow to reality.

Since then, the two people have often relied on phone calls to relieve the pain of lovesickness. Xiaotian wants Orange to come to his city, and they work together, but Orange prefers the southern environment and feels that he has more prospects in Guangzhou.

The two people have maintained their relationship by phone for more than a year, and Orange feels that this is not a matter after all, and finally decided to break up. On the day of the breakup, the two people cried a lot and agreed to be good friends for life.

Orange first came out of her grief and threw herself into her work. Because of the excellent work performance, people are kind and beautiful, attracting the pursuit of many excellent boys.

Whenever she wants to start a new relationship, she can always receive WeChat from Xiaotian from time to time:

"You have a bad stomach, remember not to eat cold things" "Don't always stay up late, be careful that there will be dark circles" "Remember to eat breakfast every day, I send you a thermos cup remember to fill the hot water with"...

When alone, Orange receives such WeChat and always feels very warm. But when preparing to start a new relationship, every time she receives such a message, Orange feels a little sorry for Xiaotian.

Orange hated the feeling, but couldn't tell Xiaotian not to send her such a message again. After all, Xiaotian was particularly concerned about her, and the time they had been together was so wonderful.

Later, Orange met her crush and confessed some of her past with her ex-boyfriend. At first, the boyfriend expressed understanding, and later because of the ex-boyfriend's concern information, the two people had several unpleasant troubles.

Orange and Xiaotian seriously talked about this issue, and although Xiaotian was sad, he said that he would not often send her messages in the future, but asked Orange not to forget all the good things between them.

On the day of Orange's wedding, Xiaotian did not keep his promise, and when Orange worshiped the heavens and the earth, the phone kept ringing. After praying to heaven and earth, Orange took the mobile phone handed to her by her bridesmaids and saw that there were more than 20 missed calls.

Orange called over, it was Xiaotian because Orange was too sad to get married, and drank too much. Orange was persuading Xiao Tian not to drink any more, pay attention to the body, when her husband suddenly stood behind him, iron blue face.