Huo Zun mother: That Ying saw to call the sister, and the son took wedding photos, decided the fate of Huo Zun 1, life is high and low 2, the traditional good woman, do not say a bad sentence in front of the son 3, see the child as fate, put all hopes on Huo Zun 4, ask Huo Zun to buy a villa for himself, priority over buying a wedding house 5, and Huo Zun to take parent-child photos, the photography style is like wedding photos 6, Chen Lu did not enter the door, the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was summarized

In the latest broadcast of "Brother With Thorns and Thorns", Huo Zun just won hu Haiquan, Huang Zheng and other powerful singers with the first place in the group, and this excitement did not take long before it was announced by the program group that he would withdraw from the follow-up recording and become the first male star to leave this talent show.

Huo Zun in the program is humble and courteous to the seniors, when each group of brothers sings, he will always hum along with the melody, when the host announced that he had the most votes, he was shocked, quite a bit of hu Haiquan's meaning, so some shy and ignorant look, leaving a good impression on the brothers in the group.

As a result, not long after the show was on the shelves, Huo Zun's ex-girlfriend Chen Lu released the material again, and this time, she did not rush to retain or ask for an apology, but rushed to turn the page.

She not only released the chat records of her and Huo Zun, but also made up the group chat records of Huo Zun in that group in Shanghai, exposing Huo Zun's cold violence and cheating behavior during his interactions with him, and also exposing Huo Zun's complaints about "Brother Who Cut Through Thorns". For a moment, the fairy and shy image in front of Huo Zun's screen shattered completely.

At 4 p.m. on August 12, the Network Culture Working Committee of the Chinese Cultural Management Association spoke out on the matter.

On the evening of August 12, the official micro of "Brother Who Cut Through Thorns" and "Fist To Us" successively announced that Huo Zun would withdraw from the follow-up recording of the show.

The program is gone, there are many years of iron fans announced the depowdering, word by word, are disappointed and helpless for Huo Zun, disappointed in his self-esteem, in fact, there are few works, helpless that he is not self-disciplined enough, debuted for many years, even the body management of this item is not good, the most shocking thing is that when he talks about his love for the guzheng, he actually likes the "small guzheng essence". Fans are also unwilling to deceive themselves, and now taking off the powder and stopping the loss in time is the best choice.

In fact, a careful look at Chen Lu's two revelations can be found that in their relationship, there is also a key figure that appears frequently, that is, Huo Zun's mother, Zhong Xiaoping.

Zhong Xiaoping is gentle and delicate, and has a good voice. In the 1980s, Zhong Xiaoping produced many vinyl records, which were widely sought after by listeners. She was also the first person Chinese mainland to bring Teresa Teng's songs to the stage.

If you want to talk about seniority, even the current Tianhou Naying has to manage Zhong Xiaoping's sister. From the description of the media, it can also be seen that Na Ying does regard Zhong Xiaoping as an idol.

At that time, she was full of spirit and had a great future. However, Huo Zun almost lost her life at the age of one and a half, which became the first turning point in her life.

At that time, Zhong Xiaoping's career development momentum was far greater than that of the fire wind, but her son's accidental disappearance made her find that no matter what the use of her career was, it was not as important as her son's ability to stay by her side in peace, health and health.

So she made a decision that no one could understand, pushed off the opportunity to sing "Little Grass", quit the music scene at the peak of her career, and became a full-time wife, teaching her husband and children at home.

When she was preoccupied with the family, her marriage with Firewind quickly came to an end, according to Firewind later described in the show, the two were separated from each other at that time, and their feelings gradually weakened, so they chose to divorce as friends, leaving more freedom for each other.

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In order not to let Huo Zun fall into the pain of his parents' divorce early, Zhong Xiaoping chose to temporarily conceal the fact of divorce from Huofeng, and when her son thought of his father, he always told him: "Father is on a business trip in Beijing, and he is very busy at work." ”

When Huo Zun was more than ten years old, Zhong Xiaoping told her son about the divorce, and enlightened her son, although she and Fire Wind divorced, But Fire Wind has always loved him very much, whether materially or spiritually supporting him, must be grateful. This includes teaching Huo Zun to respect Firewind's current wife and not to be resistant. It was also under the enlightenment and advice of Zhong Xiaoping that the father-son relationship between Huo Zun and Huo Feng did not stiffen, but the closeness between father and son never went away, and even the current wife of Huo Feng got along very well.

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Zhong Xiaoping spent more than twenty years, devoting all her time and energy to the cultivation of Huo Zun. It can be said that after divorcing Huo Feng, Huo Zun became the whole of his life, as long as his son has a career, then her life is valuable.

After the divorce, she did not choose to go out to work, but lived with her son in a 19-square-meter house in Shanghai Xiaolongtang for 19 years, and her living expenses were dependent on Huofeng's monthly maintenance of 2,000 yuan.

The economic conditions are not good, Zhong Xiaoping told Huo Zun: "It is not easy for Dad to make money, you can't spend money indiscriminately." "And she herself was sick and refused to pay for surgery."

In this way, she cultivated Huo Zun little by little, in the small family of two people, the son's affairs always take precedence over her own affairs, Huo Zun thanked her mother more than once after her debut, and said bluntly: "In my eyes, she is a very noble woman with a very high human nature, so I am very fortunate to have such a mother." But from my mother's point of view, it was not easy for her to raise me, or to spend as much time as possible, to stay with her, I am all my mother. ”

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After staying up for so many years, he finally waited until Huo Zun became famous and his economic conditions improved. At this time, Zhong Xiaoping wanted her son to buy a suburban villa, because this was her dream house, squeezed into a small house for so many years, and life finally had hope again.

At this time, Huo Zun and Chen Lu also came to talk about marriage and marriage to buy a marriage house, in the face of the different needs of his girlfriend and mother, Huo Zun decisively chose to give his mother a dream, and the marriage room was shelved.

In 2019, Huo Zun bought an 800-square-meter house at the foot of the mountain on the outskirts of Shanghai, and the basement floor of the new house has a studio, gym and tea room, and the tea set is exquisite, so the exquisite life is also what the former big star Zhong Xiaoping is looking forward to.

But for the relationship between Huo Zun and Chen Lu, it is undoubtedly a setback, originally planned to buy a marriage house, marriage has hope, but after such a villa is bought, with Huo Zun's economic strength, if you want to buy another set of marriage houses, you have to wait for a long time.

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After fulfilling the dream of buying a villa, Zhong Xiaoping also fulfilled a "wedding dream", but the object of the photo together was not her ex-husband Huofeng, but her son Huo Zun.

This set of nominal parent-child photos, the shooting style is no different from the wedding photos of the general studio.

Huo Zun sat on the sofa in a white suit, and Zhong Xiaoping wore a gorgeous dress, curled her hair high, and propped her hands on Huo Zun's legs.

After Zhong Xiaoping dressed up carefully, she looked very young, and this photo at the dinner table was full of love for Huo Zun.

She watched her son cut green peppers, and his son fed her food, and the picture was very beautiful.

It can be seen that after Huo Zun became famous, he made every effort to spoil his mother into a princess and help her realize her dreams.

And from the two things of buying a house and taking a parent-child version of the wedding photo, it can be clearly seen that no woman can replace Zhong Xiaoping's position in Huo Zun's mind. And because the image of his mother in his heart was too perfect, Huo Zun would unconsciously always compare Chen Lu and Chen Lu's family with Zhong Xiaoping, and how to compare it.

Chen Lu in yesterday's exposé, the last few screenshots of chat records highlight this problem.

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When Chen Lu and Zhong Xiaoping had a conflict, Huo Zun was completely on his mother's side. For example, in the chat records released by Chen Lu, Zhong Xiaoping should have said something to make her feel uncomfortable, so she complained to Huo Zun: "This woman is too strong in speech and style, and it is not easy to get along." ”

Huo Zun was immediately unhappy when he heard this, not only did he feel that Chen Lu had misinterpreted his mother's meaning, but he also thought that Chen Lu and them were not on the same level, so even his mother's heartfelt words could not be understood, thinking that Chen Lu's understanding still stayed on the naïve shallow consciousness.

Married women know whether a small family is happy and stable, in fact, the role of mother-in-law is very important. Just like Guo Xiaodong, such a big macho man, and the delicate Cheng Lisha can be gracious and loving for so many years, Guo's mother is indispensable.

The same is to pull the eldest two children alone, Guo's mother's attitude is completely different from Zhong Xiaoping's, when her son's machismo is awkward, she will always speak for her daughter-in-law for the first time and tell her son to hurt her daughter-in-law well. On weekdays, I also treat my daughter-in-law as if she were my own daughter-in-law.

On Huo Zun's side, he and his mother were in agreement with each other, and no one spoke for Chen Lu, so such an obviously unbalanced mode of getting along, the problem was sooner or later.

Not only that, Huo Zun also looked down on Chen Lu's parents, feeling that they and himself were not on the same level, and there was nothing to talk about between them, which made Chen Lu feel very unhappy.

The marriage of two people is also the union of two families, and respect for each other's parents is a prerequisite. Who is not the treasure in the palm of a parent's hand?

However, Huo Zun separated the parents of the two sides, thinking that Chen Lu came to his home and listened to Zhong Xiaoping, that he could learn knowledge, and when he went to Chen Lu's house, he not only had nothing to say, but also found nothing. He even stressed to Chen Lu that it would be Chen Lu who would enter their house.

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Zhong Xiaoping's love and dedication to Huo Zun have achieved Huo Zun's musical talent. She poured her career and youth into Huo Zun alone, and now that Huo Zun's career has been seriously frustrated, she must be the saddest one.

But Huo Zun will come to this point today, and she, as a mother, may not be able to leave her responsibility. Huo Zun is a great filial piety, but he has not learned to respect women other than his mother, especially his girlfriend who has walked hand in hand with him for nine years.

If in the relationship between Huo Zun and Chen Lu, Zhong Xiaoping can have a little more positive guidance, such as telling her son to be single-minded, even if the love is gone, but also to break up with dignity, perhaps Huo Zun is still singing all the way in "Brother with Thorns and Thorns", and the title of Prince of Guofeng will not fall.

If she can think about the problem from Chen Lu's point of view a little more, do a good job of reconciliation between Huo Zun and Chen Lu, teach her son how to correctly carry out a relationship, or give priority to buying her son's marriage house when the conditions are slightly better, maybe Huo Zun and Chen Lu have long been married, and achieved a good story of love running.

It was also very important that she should let Huo Zun know that as a man, it was a very wrong thing to abandon the "wife of the chaff" if he was red. The pain she had experienced firsthand should not be borne by a second woman.

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