If a person does not know how to hide himself in the network and cannot hold back his mouth, it is simply 3 times stupid.
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Huo Zun's ex-girlfriend Chen Lu was suspected of extortion
After being taken compulsory measures by the police, he was released on guarantee pending further investigation.
It is said that Chen Lu was taken away in handcuffs.
Huo Zun reported the case in August, and Chen Lu was arraigned 4 months later, it seems that the police are still very cautious in handling this incident, referring to Chen Yulin's case, since Chen Lu has been arraigned, it is difficult to withdraw completely.
Our laws impose heavy penalties on extortion.
Chen Lu asked for 9 million, and the actual amount was 580,000, which belonged
"The amount is particularly large"
I'm afraid I'm facing a 10-year sentence.
However, looking at Huo Zun's appearance, he should be willing to sign a letter of understanding, so that Chen Lu's sentence will be reduced accordingly like Chen Yulin.
Whether it is sentenced to 3 years or 10 years, a sister, the money is not obtained, the name is ruined, and the criminal record is carried for a lifetime
, it is truly shocking and regrettable.
▲ After the video of this money demand was released, Chen Lu's wind comments were immediately reversed. What is going on, or wait for the police to announce it
On Huo Zun's side, the orphans and widows had a hard time surviving, and the future of such a career was over.
There is also the unfortunate Huo Zun's current girlfriend, a bachelor's degree in Zhejiang University, who went to Columbia University to study for a master's degree, and did an internship in investment banking and consulting.
Looking at her resume, she is a very good little girl, with her appearance and education, she can play, and now her name is associated with "private theater rammer".
Let's talk about Chen Lu's problem first.
Chen Lu has been associated with Huo Zun for 9 years, longer than the marriages of Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei. Based on the length of the relationship and other reasons, Chen Lu rightly asked for the breakup fee.
But
No matter how long the relationship is, it is not equal to marriage, and it is not legally guaranteed.
Even in foreign countries where gender relations are pluralistic, the social treatment of cohabitation seems to be the same as marriage, but in fact there are still differences, mainly reflected in the distribution of property.
When one of the married spouses dies, the other spouse can take over the deceased's property directly, while the cohabiting spouse cannot.
To put it politically incorrectly, girls have to wait until they are married, and then you are reasonably and legally dividing the property after marriage.
Without the guarantee of Xiaohongben, talking about money can only rely on sentiment.
After the accident, Huo Zun's mother, Zhong Xiaoping, kept muttering to herself: "Lulu was not like this before, why did Lulu do this to me." ”
Yu Yanjie believed that Chen Lu and Huo Zun must have loved at the beginning, the two people met in Wei, when Huo Zun had just debuted, if Chen Lu was Zhai Xinxin, there was no need to pull the line so long.
After the video of asking for money flowed out, Chen Lu shook her head and was scolded by everyone, but in fact, Yu Yanjie could understand her blackening.
A girl has been in a relationship with her boyfriend for 9 years and has not been able to wait for marriage, and after the breakup, she has grown older when everything is not going well, and the man immediately found a younger and better girl to show affection.
Then the sister found out again,
The man is waiting for himself to mention the breakup, the woman is delayed, can not say also. Obviously dragged the woman, but also to maintain the human setting.
Although Chen Lu himself decided to break up with Huo Zun, seeing this situation, it was inevitable that he would have a psychological imbalance.
It was empty, but it was buzzing, and it hated to climb over the wall at night...
Li Zongsheng wrote it too appropriately.
In the case of Chen Lu, it is not impossible to ask for money. But whether or not you can get it can only be based on Huo Zun's state of mind.
The law is neutral on breakup fees.
One party sues the other party for money, the court does not accept such a lawsuit, and the court does not support the return of the break-up fee that has been paid.
However, asking for compensation is a professional matter, and several incidents in recent years have shown that it is okay to ask for money, but you can't do it yourself, you have to entrust a lawyer to talk, otherwise a wrong sentence will become extortion, money can't be taken, and there is a criminal law waiting.
In addition to the wrong process of asking for money,
Another mistake of Chen Lu is that she does not realize that it is difficult to have a good result in love long-distance running.
Marriage requires impulsivity.
Most people have been dating for 2 years and it is time to put marriage on the agenda, if the husband still does not express his position after more than 2 years, the girl should make other plans. After all, in the matter of staying up for age, men and women can never be equal, because women have the best childbearing age stuck.
Many older girls who want to get married but can't find a partner have had a relationship experience of at least three to five years.
During this period, no matter how the girl explicitly implied, the boy was not in a hurry to draw a big cake.
The girl finally couldn't wait to take the initiative to break up. At that time, the girls were already 27 or 8.
Find another object, talk for a year and a half, it will be 30. In case it is not negotiated, it will be more and more difficult to follow.
In order to avoid this dilemma, Yu Yanjie said that girls can "tea" a little.
I say this not to teach you to raise fish and find spare tires, but to be generous and keep in touch with more men within the normal social range.
In particular, don't have a boyfriend in the circle of friends husband's husband's call, get other men directly dissuaded from contacting you.
What's more, everyone should fear the law in their hearts, the boyfriend is the boyfriend, unlike the husband, the two have an essential difference.
This kind of girl who calls her boyfriend husband in the circle of friends says something unpleasant, giving people a feeling of frivolity and low emotional intelligence, and she will frown when she sees it.
Let's talk about Huo Zun's problem.
Huo Zun's biggest problem is that he is shallow and deep, and he is not aware of the risks of the Internet age.
It is estimated that many people who have no mouth will feel cold when they see the screenshots he has been posted.
People should be especially careful when speaking in the Internet age.
All text messages, voices, emails that can become evidence, public occasions including wine tables and circles of friends, must have a red line in the mind that does not give people a handle, and this vigilance should go deep into the mind like a conditioned reflex.
Because of talking nonsense at the wine table, being filmed and put on the Internet, are there fewer examples of losing jobs?
As for the WeChat group, the group of more than 3 people cannot talk about privacy.
When asking big V questions, ask more technical questions, don't ask: do I want a divorce, what should I do if I cheat, or scold the leader for being stupid.
You know, when you meet a trumpet of Sister Yan, no matter what you write, there are insiders who immediately come to the door.
You openly ask questions to the big V of millions of fans, and write your own things so clearly, how can you not be discovered by acquaintances.
In addition, your Weibo speech, your Douban post, your Zhihu answer, including your message under the article of Yu Yanjie, are all easy to find.
The question is,
When people speak online, not face-to-face, there is always a mob mentality. It is easier to lose awareness of responsibility for your actions and make more radical moves than in real life.
Usually chatting with people, Huo Zun may not shout "Sea Dog Pill", "Theater Rammer", "Three Shots a Night".
But across the screen, it's easy to get out of it.
There are also complaints about the production of the show and other artists. We all talk about people behind our backs, but this kind of thing has always been: it is better to be known than to be seen.
Once put on the open side, the other party can't pretend to be harmonious, and everyone can only be forced to break off diplomatic relations.
The Internet is not a virtual world, and what you say online will affect reality.
Sister Yu Yan wrote about an incident before.
Zhu Qiong, Yale University's Chinese-American dean, was forced to leave her job after being picked up because of inappropriate language in a message on Yelp ( American Dianping) .
Zhu Qiong went all the way to a famous school to read a doctorate, worked in the university for more than ten years, Zhu Qiong satirized white people on the Internet who do not know how to distinguish Asian catering, the staff of the movie theater will not calculate the account, and the front desk of the gym is only worthy of going to McDonald's.
Her account on the review network is an abbreviation of her name, the avatar is a selfie, and she has only written 10 or so messages before she was pulled out.
Everyone's evaluation of this matter is --
Stupid, this is the reason why Zhu Qiong is not qualified for the university position.
If a person doesn't know how to hide himself in the network and can't hold back his mouth, it is simply 3 times stupid.
It is said that someone once reminded Huo Zun that there might be trouble in being too hi in the group. But Huo Zun insisted that the 12 people in the group were completely trustworthy.
As a result, either one of the 12 close friends betrayed Huo Zun, or a third party saw the chat records and spread them.
Whether huo Zun's private morality has a problem is another matter, in the Internet age, we must pay special attention to careful words.
Huo Zun and Chen Lu ate this melon with mixed feelings.
Men are too broken mouths, and shallow words are caught by people with hearts.
The woman is too greedy to force the man into a corner.
Neither person is risk conscious.
In this way, one stepped into the criminal law, and the other was trapped in the social death.
It's too late to regret it.
A tragedy, with no winner, ruined the future of three young people.
What a pity, what a pity.
It's not just a piece of entertainment gossip, it's worth checking ourselves out.
I hope that the hindsight of Sister Yan can bring you some thoughts, if you can correct yourself in the mistakes of others, maybe our lives will become easier.
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