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Many people in marriage will have some do not know how to deal with, especially women in the face of their husbands, not so enthusiastic, sometimes will blindly to please each other, so that there will be a bad effect. So, how do you deal with a husband who doesn't value you?
Deal with a husband who doesn't value you
1, if you have fallen in love, at this time the husband does not pay enough attention to you, then you have to change your image, whether from the appearance or other, it is best to let him look at you with surprise. As long as you are still attractive to him, then it is salvageable.
2, in the face of emotions, each of us is vulnerable, no matter how rational you are people will be carried away by emotions.
When many people have problems in marriage, the first thing they think about is "why he cheated", "why he wants to divorce me", blindly trapped in their own emotions, rather than looking for the root cause of their marriage problems.
However, this way of thinking is extremely wrong, and only by understanding the real reason for your husband's infidelity can you have a greater certainty of saving the marriage.
Second, how to deal with an inconsiderate husband
1. Reduce emotional investment in your husband.
In the face of a fragmented marriage, some women will be more enthusiastic about their husbands, hoping to touch each other through love; Some women fight their husbands to the end, trying their best to count each other down.
In fact, these two methods are not the best way to save your husband, no matter which way you choose to deal with the marriage crisis, it reveals your sense of need for your husband. The more emotional investment you have in your husband, the more your husband does not care about you, but it lowers his own value and makes his husband more disrespectful to you.
Therefore, to save your husband, you must first restrain your behavior, transfer your energy to self-improvement, reduce your emotional investment in your husband, and arouse his attention and attention to you.
Take care of the family affairs as usual, and act as a good wife as if nothing happened, and he will slowly notice your efforts and feel guilty about you.
2, position their own role image: virtuous, gentle
In fact, the responsibilities and ways of getting along with two people who enter marriage, whether men or women, have to change.
For example, if a girl becomes someone's wife, then you can't treat your marriage with the casual and mischievous attitude you had when you were in love.
We often say that a certain man is really blessed, who married who is virtuous and gentle, it can be seen that in a long married life, the woman of the mother's night fork will only push the man to other women.
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