Recently, some gossip netizens found that the star Zhang Liang's son was suspected of being in love every day, and posted a large number of intimate videos, which soon became a hot search, attracting the attention of a large number of melon friends!
As a parent, when the child enters puberty, the most worrying thing must be the early love, I believe that everyone as a parent has the same feeling! Parents are very sensitive to the child's early love, in the eyes of those of us parents, early love may delay the child's schooling, and may cause physical and mental distress to the child, suffering from harm that cannot be compensated!
However, it is undeniable that the tendency of adolescents to have a good feeling and admiration for the opposite sex is a normal psychological need, but public opinion from the family, school and society often makes it suffer criticism, thus causing great pressure to adolescents, and even a sense of self-blame.
Just as Zhang Liang, the father of tiantian, responded to the matter of love every day, it is a normal phenomenon to say that adolescent children at this age have a good feeling for the opposite sex, but there must still be a boundary range. As a parent, we must constantly urge our children to study seriously and maintain a healthy physique, but also the child's psychological understanding and psychological counseling cannot be ignored! What age is to do what should be done at what age!
Finally, Zhang Liang strongly condemned the online violence against two underage children: "Every step of the child's growth is a big thing, and these things will have a great impact on their future." We adults must protect every child, and the premise of educating children is to respect, understand and guide. ”
In an interview, Huang Lei was also asked about his children's early love.
There are many parents who think differently, Huang Lei believes that it is normal for his daughter to fall in love if she is 15 years old, and he does not think that this is called early love.
In Huang Lei's view, love is love, it is a natural mutual attraction between young people, is a very beautiful feeling, as a parent, do not have to suppress this feeling, otherwise when you meet a rebellious child, the result will be counterproductive.
Of course, Huang Lei's point of view is not to encourage children to fall in love, but hope that every parent can rationally look at this matter, rather than suppressing and reprimanding, it is better to popularize sex education knowledge for children as soon as possible, so that children understand the rules that need to be followed and the bottom line that needs to be adhered to in getting along with the opposite sex.
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