When a man dislikes his wife from the bottom of his heart, he will have 3 attitudes

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Love or no love, is really a thing that cannot be disguised, can be disguised for a while and absolutely can not be disguised for a longer time, a person's knee-jerk reaction will always betray themselves.

So, I always meet women who ask me questions like this: Is he really not in his heart, and he doesn't take me to heart at all? I said: In fact, the answer in your heart is clearer than anyone.

If there is no answer, there will be no such question.

However, most people in life are like this, and although they have seen through the final answer to this question, they will continue to hold various illusions out of a fluke or other psychology.

Yes, no one can wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep in his feelings.

I want to remind you that when a man dislikes his wife from the bottom of his heart, he will have these 3 attitudes, and he can't pretend at all.

01. No matter what the wife does, he is a contemptuous attitude;

Using the word contempt may be a bit of a heart-wrenching, but it is true that when a man dislikes his wife, it is easy to be contemptuous.

At this time, the wife, in their eyes, can be said to have no advantages at all, how to look at how not to look at how to look at it is not pleasing to the eye, the person who he has worked so hard to catch, in the end, from the white moonlight to rotten rice grains. This is the most heart-wrenching change in marriage. But this change really exists in the lives of many people.

Some time ago, a woman told me that she and her husband have been married for eight years, in these eight years, she gradually returned to the family because of the birth of children, after no financial resources, living a basic palm up life, at first her husband still loved her, every month on time to hand over the money to her hand, and basically did not leave any money in her hands.

Gradually, her old bus money is getting less and less, do not tell her the truth at all, how much of her income, she can not ask, she asked, her husband's attitude is: tell you do you understand? In fact, what she wants to say is that she is good at studying accounting, how can she not understand this little money? But every time she talked about this topic, she didn't like it, her husband just didn't tell the truth anyway, and with the decline of economic power, her position in the family became more and more humble.

She began to be looked down upon by all kinds.

At the beginning, her husband said that he liked her naïve romance, no scheming, and was a strange girl, but later these words turned into another statement: stupid like a pig does not say, every day just think of some no, no pursuit, this life is like this.

No matter what she did, her husband was not optimistic. She said she wanted to go out and look for a job, and her husband squinted at her with his nostrils and smiled contemptuously: Who wants you to go out to work like this? I have to say that these words really hit her hard.

Therefore, she did not know what she should do for a while, she felt the contempt she was being treated, but she did not know how to break the game.

I told her: a lot of things, if you just want to, you will always be trapped in the assumption, often take the first step is very important, you will find that as long as you dare to take the first step, the next many roads, naturally willow dark flowers. So let's get started. Allowing yourself to have the ability to stop relying on him, even if it is a job that is not highly paid, can give you a lot of confidence and courage to continue to move forward. In this life, the people who can really rely on themselves, others dare not hold too high ideas, only to leave a certain retreat for themselves, so as not to really become helpless at some moments.

02. Never consider the wife's feelings when talking and doing things;

One of the manifestations of love is to care, because there is another party in the heart, so it will be willing to overcome some of people's instincts, properly carry out empathetic thinking, and think from the other side's position.

On the contrary, if a person does not care about you, he will certainly not think from your point of view, but will subconsciously take the quality of his emotions as the starting point.

A man, if he starts to dislike you, is sure that he will not care about your feelings in the slightest when he speaks or acts.

Although they also know that it is wrong for them to do this, it will definitely hurt you - but hurting you will not have any impact on himself, so he does not mind.

So, if a man, as your husband, has done everything that makes you sad or even desperate, you should stop making any excuses for him. He doesn't have so much to do, he doesn't put you in his eyes, the reason why he doesn't leave is just to consider some factors of reality at present, he is just thinking about his own interests, if you don't know how to plan for yourself in advance, the last loser will definitely be you.

03. Even the family or relatives with their wives are not willing to have any perfunctory;

As the old saying goes, the four words of love house and wu are true in any intimate relationship. Because I love you, I will also love the person you care for, which is a completely natural reaction.

On this level, if a man dislikes you, he will definitely be marked with different emotions even with your family.

Don't think there's anything different about you.

Once upon a time, a woman who encountered this situation after getting married came to me and said that her husband was very bad for her parents now, and I asked you what the relationship was like? She said it was terrible. She didn't understand, because in her opinion, her parents did not treat him badly, and he had also called his parents for seven or eight years, how could he suddenly have such a big opinion now? Her father fell ill in the middle of the night and wanted his husband to drive to deliver it, but her husband did not agree, saying that he wanted to sleep.

I told her, "You're the link between him and your parents, and if you don't have a good relationship, it's normal for him to be bad to your parents because he's the one who has nothing to do with you." "Therefore, on this point, we must think about it, our parents love and hurt, do not expect others to really regard your parents as their parents, and lovers are no exception."

If you are always angry about this, it is only yourself who is embarrassed. You can't open this kind of normal human feelings, and you will mistakenly make an overestimate of human nature.

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