I have a sister, relying on her own efforts, bought a suite of her own in Chengdu, also has her own car, long and beautiful, is a very good girl, the only regret is that there has been no object. Before the age of 30, her mother often gave her blind dates, but she was always not satisfied, and often advised me that finding a partner must not be simple and simple, but suitable.
Last year, my sister suddenly contacted me to say that she was talking to someone, and I asked my sister if he was excellent, and she said that although she was not the best, she was the most satisfied. I said okay, as long as you're satisfied. In June this year, my sister said to me, they have received the license, I said so fast, consider it? The elder sister said that people are very good, I said you think people can do it.
Last month, my sister suddenly contacted me and said that she wanted to get a divorce because of some things, and I said that no matter what, I would support you, and I would carry it on my mother's side. Last week, she was embarrassed but happy to ask me if I could come back for the wedding? I asked her if she wasn't going to get a divorce?
The elder sister said that she was pregnant last week, and everything was cleared up was a misunderstanding, and the most important thing now is to give birth to this child. I asked then will you be happy? She said I'm in my 30s, and if I don't have any children now, I won't have a chance in the future, and when I know I have a baby, I just want to give birth to him. I said congratulations, sister.
Yes, finding someone to make the other person suitable for themselves, but love is to compromise with the other person, and wanting to be with another person forever is not suitable, but compromise.
Why can't a good-looking girl marry better? Generally speaking, good-looking girls, there has been no shortage of suitors around, so most of their past love experiences are quietly waiting to be moved by others, and then start a relationship, and in the process of being moved, often the boy's state in front of the girl is perfect, and the girl sees most of it is only based on external, temperament and other things...
Whether the three most important views of the real partner fit this matter does not seem to be well confirmed. The so-called three views, in fact, there is no good or bad, it is probably that I like the occasional little madness, and you will be silly to follow.
After changing boyfriends one after another and experiencing one touch after another, in fact, many good-looking girls are not very likely to think about what they want. They just waited for someone to arrive and then leave...
In fact, whether you have the right to choose, whether it is active icebreaking or passive acceptance. You should understand what you really want at the beginning, rather than just enjoying being moved. Because in the end, what remains of marriage is not touching, not one person's unilateral efforts, but whether you fit, whether you can agree on most things, and give each other the strongest arm bend!
My friend got married this year. We have known each other for all these years and witnessed all kinds of men around her, some of whom are boyfriends, and some of whom have always been spare tires. She has done a lot of emotionally immoral things, and I don't advocate immoral things, and today I summarized a few reasons why she has always been happy in her feelings.
First, she never wondered what the other person thought, and the other person's true thoughts were not important to her. Her individual boyfriends were forced to be helpless, they all came to my side to inquire about what she thought, the boyfriend guessed to insomnia, and she went to bed early.
Second, let go quickly and not tangle. After the breakup, every time she can quickly throw herself into a new relationship, so that it is her ex who is sad; when the tian dog is limited, running to the status of the legitimate girlfriend tian, the tian does not give up immediately, so that none of the male gods she has tian have not turned back to find her, but overdue.
Third, don't spend money on men alone. Two people working together also wrote the mortgage of two people's names, which can be. It is okay to exchange gifts for the holidays. See this man doesn't have the money to invite him to dinner, no. Let the men come to their own homes and live in vain, no. Spend money together, not because of heartache others to spend money on each other. Lives vary, and her practice doesn't work for everyone. The above is not the truth.
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