Women with three characteristics on the body often lack loyalty, and men should choose carefully

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Fidelity is the bottom line of marriage.

Getting married is not so much about finding someone who loves each other as it is about finding someone who is loyal to each other.

Zhang Xiaoxian said: There is no one hundred percent loyalty in the world.

The person we spend the rest of our lives with may not be able to be loyal to us all the time, the so-called loyalty, but relative loyalty, in the final analysis, is a "loyalty" problem.

In general, the higher the fidelity between a man and a woman, the happier the marriage; conversely, the lower the loyalty, the more unhappy the marriage.

When men choose women, in addition to appearance, body shape, three views, etc., loyalty is also an important reference standard.

After all, no man wants to marry a woman who will betray him in the future, after all, "green" is the most taboo in a man's relationship.

So, how should men measure a woman's future fidelity to marriage before entering marriage?

Generally speaking, women with three characteristics on the body often lack loyalty, and men should choose carefully.

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First: There was never a trace of you being together on her WeChat.

In the Internet age, social platforms have almost become our "back garden" and even represent half of our living world.

If a woman truly loves a man, it is often difficult to suppress the impulse to show affection on social platforms such as WeChat.

You give him a gift, she wants to dry it; you give her a romance, she wants to dry it; she also wants to record a sentence that makes her heart move when you say it...

She wanted the world to know that she had a man who loved her.

But if she doesn't do this and deliberately "hides" you on social platforms, then there is so much cat grease.

She doesn't want you to be seen, there must be a reason why you don't want to be seen, of course, not because you "can't get your hands on it", but because she doesn't want to.

Xiao Gang made a girlfriend last year, he fell in love with people at first sight, and he was eager to marry home immediately, so he also paid his heart and lungs to be good to her.

Xiao Gang often posts his girlfriend in the circle of friends, but what makes him strange is that his girlfriend's circle of friends does not have a little shadow of him.

Every time Xiao Gang asked, his girlfriend prevaricated that she didn't like to send a circle of friends, and Xiao Gang didn't think much about it.

But half a year later, Xiao just found out that the original girlfriend "stepped on two boats", and after the East Window incident, the girlfriend immediately proposed to break up.

Xiao Gang was sad to find that her girlfriend did not like to send a circle of friends, she also had another WeChat signal, and the circle of friends recorded her bits and pieces with that boyfriend...

The so-called love, to a certain extent, is to participate in the life of the TA. WeChat, or other social platforms, has become an extension of our lives and is part of life.

If a woman does not let you appear in her life, it means that her heart is not on you at all, and the so-called loyalty cannot be talked about. Therefore, men should choose carefully.

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Second: There were women in her original family who cheated.

Some people say that everyone has a "native complex" for the original family. Indeed, no matter where we are or who we become, we will more or less leave the imprint of our original families.

In particular, the marital status of parents and the concept of marriage often affect the attitude and choice of the next generation towards marriage.

I once saw a statistic that shows that people who grew up in single-parent families have a significantly higher divorce rate in adulthood than people in two-parent families.

Parents are the first teachers of their children, and their attitude towards love and marriage will more or less affect their children's attitudes and ways of handling feelings.

In general, families who have had cases of female infidelity tend to be relatively less committed to love or marriage.

Ah Chao's girlfriend Ah Lan comes from a single-parent family, and her bones are extremely sensitive and have some inferiority.

In the relationship between the two, Ah Chao is always walking on thin ice, lest he make a mistake and annoy his girlfriend. But even so, the two eventually broke up because their girlfriend Ah Lan cheated on them.

In the face of Ah Chao's questioning and anger, the girlfriend did not have a little self-blame and shame, and even, she said with a straight face that the two were not married, splitting legs and cheating were just a free choice, what was wrong with her!

In fact, Ah Lan's mother also divorced her father because of marital infidelity.

As the old saying goes: "The upper beam is not right and the lower beam is crooked", the concept of love and marriage instilled in a woman by the original family is difficult to change in a lifetime.

So, if men should also choose carefully with this kind of woman.

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Third: women with low self-control.

Self-control determines the direction and even the height of our lives.

Those who can always control themselves at critical moments often end up in better control of life.

In relationships, self-control is more like a key key, keep it safe and it will be available to us; if we don't manage it well, we will lose too much.

In the emotional world, temptations are always there, often, and the key lies in how we control ourselves when we face temptation. Many times, the so-called right and wrong are between one thought.

Women with poor self-control, in terms of feelings, are easily coaxed by the rhetoric of other men, eat a free meal, take a few times of good intentions but difficult to hitchhike, send a few small gifts with ulterior motives... Her heart can follow the people.

And a woman with good self-control is more loyal to her feelings, no matter how much other men please and seduce, she is as firm as a rock and not moved.

So, for men, it's not necessarily a good thing to get a woman after too easily. Many times, she is easily chased by you, then, she may also be very easy to be chased by others.

It's not that she deliberately makes you pursue success because she loves you too much, but she has no self-control, and she will go with whoever is nicer to her.

Therefore, women with low self-control tend to have low loyalty to feelings or marriage, and men should choose carefully.

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Good feelings are always a two-way street.

A woman's loyalty to feelings or marriage is extremely important, but good feelings cannot be supported by a woman's loyalty, but require the mutual loyalty of both men and women to achieve.

What's more, many times, a woman's loyalty to feelings is largely affected by a man's loyalty to feelings.

If in a relationship, the man is unfaithful to the feeling, then the woman is disappointed, it is bound to gradually no longer be loyal to the heart of a person, and then empathize with others.

In short, while men are considering women's loyalty, why shouldn't women test men!

In the end, as long as both parties are willing to hold out a true heart, then this relationship may be able to go on for a long time.