The passenger seat is a very controversial position.
Some people think that the co-pilot is the wife's special seat, because the husband who left the car here has recently been able to chat warmly and warmly, and can also help the husband pay attention to the road conditions and always remind the husband to pay attention to safety.
Some people also believe that the co-pilot is the most dangerous position for others, in case of danger, the driver's first reaction is to protect himself, and the co-pilot will be exposed to the most dangerous place. Therefore, for safety reasons, the closest people should not sit in the co-pilot.
So, what kind of person is the co-pilot suitable for?
The wife still felt that the co-pilot should be her special seat, and as for the eldest sister who sat there and laughed with her brother, she did not understand things.
What the hell is going on? I have to start with this big sister who came to visit:
According to the wife: the eldest sister brought the child to the house as a guest, and the husband proposed that the two families take the child out to play together, just so that the child was happy.
Now the problem comes, her family has two children, the eldest is more than four years old, the younger is more than two years old, and the aunt also has a child, slightly older than her child, only about five years old.
Three adults and three children are crammed into a car, and everyone except the driver is willing to sit alone in the passenger seat, rather than huddled with three children in the back.
The person sitting in the back not only feels uncomfortable physically, but is also responsible for looking after the three children.
She said: The eldest sister always sits on the co-pilot first, never feels that it is inappropriate to sit there, and does not want to think about whether the co-pilot is where she should sit.
Helplessly said that the eldest sister and her husband had talked and laughed in the front, and I and the children had talked and laughed in the back, which was very good, and each did not bother.
That being said, but clear-eyed people can see, where is this "very good"? She clearly wanted to express her dissatisfaction with her eldest sister in this way.
Netizens said: You are too stingy, take a car as far as it is? It's not a good person to get along with at first glance.
Some netizens also said: What is this? Can you sit in front with your child in your arms?
Author reply: The eldest sister can also watch the children in the back!
Only this one sentence, the purpose is leaked, your two children, the small one still has to hold in the arms, how can you let the eldest sister help you watch it? In case of some accident, there is a mouth that cannot be said clearly.
Some netizens also said: You have a lot of things, if you bother her, don't take a car with her.
The author replied: There is only one car, can I not go? If you don't go, the contradiction will deepen, right?
From this sentence, it can be seen that there is a contradiction between them, but it is only for the sake of face, and it has been hidden, so no matter what the eldest sister does, she can't see it.
Under normal circumstances, the eldest sister's children are the largest, and they can sit in the back and take care of themselves, and they don't need her to take care of them, and her so-called care of children is actually just taking care of her own family.
The reason why she wanted her eldest sister to sit in the back was simply two reasons:
One reason is that she feels that the co-pilot is the position of her wife, and only the people closest to the driver can sit there, and the aunt's family sits there and talks and laughs with her husband, which makes her feel uncomfortable.
Another reason is that she usually has to take care of the children, since the eldest sister is coming, there are also her children, the eldest sister should take the initiative to sit in the back with the children, so that she can enjoy the feeling of not having to take the children.
However, she forgot that the child was hers, not her sister's, and in case something went wrong on the road, others could not afford to pay for it.
As netizens said: she is too stingy! The best way to face such a person is to stay away, not to be together without being together, to have less contact, and to let her be beautiful alone.
Dear netizens, where do you think this big sister should sit?