Recently, a video of "little boy reading his mother's notes guilty to crying" became popular.
In the video, the child's slightly crying words touched a lot of parents.
It turned out that a little boy had no intention of turning to his mother's English notes, and was surprised that his mother also had to learn, so he carefully looked through it, and when he encountered the words he had learned, he also read them to confirm with his mother.
The little boy looked at it and suddenly stopped, his eyes were red, he pouted the corners of his mouth, and began to sob...
Mom asked softly, "Why are you crying?" ”
The child plunged into his mother's arms and choked up, "I'm sorry, Mom, I didn't study well..."
The little boy's mother is a doctor at the Sichuan Provincial People's Hospital of the Sichuan Academy of Medical Sciences and a master's student at Southwest Medical University who graduated in 2020.
The notes my son read were exactly the same English notes she had when she was in graduate school.
Seeing the boy crying and saying that sentence to his mother, many netizens couldn't help but leave a message:
We believe that the little boy will definitely study seriously under the guidance of his mother.
Because the best education is always better than words. And parents are not only the child's first teachers, but also the best teachers of the child.
Zhong Nanshan, an idol of the whole Chinese and an academician of the Chinese Academy of Engineering, "has the professionalism of an academician, the bravery of a warrior, and the responsibility of a national soldier", and these qualities of his are inseparable from his father Zhong Shifan.
Zhong Nanshan was born into a family of medicine, and his father, Zhong Shifan, was a famous pediatric medical expert in China.
As a pediatrician, Zhong Shifan treats patients with dedication and responsibility, and his love of medicine has also been carried out throughout his life:
Even at the age of 70, even if the eye problems and vision loss, in order to share his decades of valuable clinical experience to future generations, he still insisted on four years, covered one eye, and completed the 400,000-word "Differential Diagnosis of Pediatric Diseases" little by little.
The character of his father, Zhong Shifan, laid the cornerstone for the "retrograde" road of Academician Zhong Nanshan in the future.
The character, spirit and pattern of parents are the most valuable assets in the long years of children, which deeply affect children.
If you want your child to grow up well, first of all, you must let yourself live in a ridiculous way.
Because what kind of person you want your child to be, you must first become what kind of person you want to be.
Also an idol of the people of the whole country, Academician Chen Wei and his son Ma Enhao told us: "You only care about excellence, and children will follow." ”
Who is Academician Chen Wei?
Tsinghua Xueba who "abandons his pen and throws his arms", Dr Chen's archetypal character in "Wolf Warrior 2", the "Terminator" who makes the virus smell terrible...
Ma Enhao, the son of Academician Chen Wei, was the little boy who kissed the TV set during the SARS epidemic.
When I was a middle school student, when Chen Wei rushed to Africa to study the virus, she took the initiative to apply for volunteering in West Africa, becoming the only Chinese middle school student volunteer to help Africa at the height of the Ebola epidemic.
From an ignorant teenager to an energetic youth, he followed closely on the road of pursuing his mother's steps.
When he grew up, he finally chose microbiology as his lifelong goal like his mother.
Chen Wei, who has been struggling in the front line of virus research, actually does not have much time to accompany her children, but she let her children see their seriousness about work, the responsibility for doing things, and the difficulties in the face of problems, and these valuable qualities are real "teaching".
In fact, not only these "heroic parents", "ordinary parents" bring children the exemplary power, but also can deeply affect children.
Because her daughter is "in a bad state" to prepare for the exam, in order to let her daughter prepare for the exam with her heart, Bai Yongqi, the head nurse of the pediatric department of the Affiliated Hospital of Southwest Medical University, even if he is usually busy at work, still uses the time to study and set an example for his daughter.
Finally, the kung fu paid off, and the mother and daughter were both admitted, from "mother and daughter" to "classmates".
In the variety show "Teenagers Say", a little girl named Deng Jingya stood on the stage and introduced:
"My grandmother is very peculiar, almost 80 years old but still learning, especially like to do Olympiad problems."
It turned out that Jingya's grandmother was a very fond of learning, from primary school to junior high school, her math problems were tutored by her grandmother, and often accompanied her to tutoring classes to study, and sometimes discussed topics with teachers.
For the granddaughter's "spit", the grandmother explained: "This era is developing too fast, only learning can keep pace with the times, and everyone should live to learn from old age." ”
Many parents complain that writing homework with their babies has become a "high-risk job", but they are a bit "different".
In Zhenjiang, Jiangsu Province, a young mother Li Jianghua accompanied the baby to write homework, and she actually took the teacher qualification certificate by the way.
In order to demonstrate to her daughter, Li Jianghua attaches great importance to her own writing, as long as it is written by herself, as long as it is for her daughter to see, she will not be casual.
Li Jianghua found a pen calligraphy poster, returned to the student era, stroke by stroke, serious practice, for a long time, a stylish and exemplary steel plate body was presented in front of her daughter. The daughter said that her mother's font was even more beautiful than the teacher's.
Xiao Meng, a first-grade girl, has been learning the piano for more than two years, and it is not her mother who is sparring, but her father. Dad is an IT engineer who studied electronic keyboard for two years in elementary school and bravely took on the work of sparring.
Mom's circle of friends has posted videos of dad playing the piano, and has received countless likes. "The father and daughter learned to play the piano, and the painting style was still very special. The daughter now has a level of five or six, and the father plays the level five track, no problem. ”
Why do many children appear "mediocre" in the eyes of their parents?
It's because the family is stuck in a vicious circle.
Parents often have high hopes for their children, give up their life goals early, and give their children the best resources and hopes.
However, in exchange for this, it is only the laziness and even resistance of the child:
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I'm already old, and there's no point in struggling, but you have to study hard to be successful!
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You yourself don't play with your phone and watch TV after work, why do I still have to study when I come home from school after a day? You always ask me to take the first place, and you yourself are not the best at work!
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In a sense, the child is the teacher of the parents, and he comes into this world to urge the parents to improve their own life map.
Only by growing up with children can children understand the meaning of hard work.
Parents' actions are far more convincing than prophecy, our words and deeds are what children learn throughout their lives, and our roles lay the foundation for their children's future.
Raising children is a warm practice.
But it is also this path of practice that allows us to achieve each other with our children and meet our best selves.
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