Author: Liu Na
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The mother who picked the stars is back.
On April 16, the Shenzhou 13 manned spacecraft returned to the capsule and successfully landed at the Dongfeng landing field.
The world is watching, and the whole network is boiling.
Our three aerospace heroes, Zhai Zhigang, Ye Guangfu and Wang Yaping, came out of the capsule safely and were in good health.
As the first female astronaut in China to carry out the capsule activities, Wang Yaping, who has a beautiful atmosphere, has the highest attention.
In fact, in addition to the identity of an astronaut, Wang Yaping is still a bully.
She is a graduate student at the School of Journalism at Peking University and a Ph.D. in Psychology at Peking University.
The love story of her and her husband Zhao Peng is particularly worth writing-
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Wang Yaping was born in 1980 to parents who are farmers in Yantai, Shandong Province, and she is an authentic rural girl.
In the 1997 college entrance examination, she was physically and physically outstanding, took the recruitment flight examination, and became a student of the Changchun Flight Academy of the Air Force.
After graduating from university, Wang Yaping received a bachelor's degree in military science with honors.
After graduation, she was assigned to the Wuhan Air Force Transport Aviation Unit and officially became a pilot.
After that, she met her husband Zhao Peng.
Wang Yaping is excellent, beautiful and atmospheric, and Zhao Peng is handsome, gentle and responsible.
In September 2003, like-minded people got married with a license.
Although they belong to the same unit, they are stationed hundreds of kilometers apart.
The troops are strictly disciplined, and there are many training tasks, 365 days a year, and the time they spend together does not exceed 30 days.
The love, greatness and tragedy of a soldier lies in the fact that the love of children must give way to the feelings of home and country.
Wang Yaping and Zhao Peng agreed:
Every day, no matter who completes the task first, they have to text the other one and report that they are safe — they can't call because one task is over and the other is still in progress.
Sometimes, when they are on a mission, they meet in the sky and greet each other with a secret sign to express their concern and thoughts about each other.
These habits, they have retained until now.
"I flew past you and couldn't say anything."
This is the love of the pilot.
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In the third year of marriage, Wang Yaping and Zhao Peng originally discussed wanting a child.
At this time, it coincided with the selection of astronauts.
Wang Yaping was successfully elected after many selections with excellent flying skills and super psychological qualities.
This means that they must temporarily abandon their plan to have children.
Between himself and his wife, the small me and the big me, Zhao Peng did not hesitate to choose the latter:
Support your wife in chasing her dreams and support the National Flying Sky Program.
Not only that, he also gave up the opportunity for personal promotion, and the female singer came to Beijing with him to become his wife's xiannai assistant.
Laundry, cooking, cleaning, chores outside the home... He's all-inclusive.
Zhao Peng's temper is particularly good, he never provokes Wang Yaping to be angry, and every time they meet, he makes his wife say goodbye with a smile.
He asked the flying king Yaping not to be distracted by any trivial matters on the ground.
As a pilot, he knows better than anyone that people who fly in the sky must be undistracted and single-minded.
He wants his beloved woman to soar in space without any obstacles, to become the brightest star.
In 2013, as the first female astronaut of the Shenzhou 10 spacecraft, Wang Yaping, Nie Haisheng and Zhang Xiaoguang formed a powerful alliance and took the Shenzhou 10 into space.
Mission also means pressure, and glory also means risk.
When the whole world is paying attention and the people of the whole country are cheering, Zhao Peng, as a family member of an astronaut, has a complicated heart:
He believed in the state and his wife.
But love to the depths is panic.
Fifteen days later, Shenzhou 10 successfully landed in Inner Mongolia.
Wang Yaping successfully stepped out of the space capsule.
It wasn't until that moment that Zhao Peng's hanging heart was put down.
"The world cares about whether you fly high or not, and the people who love you care about whether you are tired or not."
This is true, and I love it as much as I love.
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In 2016, Wang Yaping became a mother as she wished.
After a short break, she threw herself into intense training to prepare for the country's next flying plan.
At 0:23 on October 16, 2021, the mainland launched the Shenzhou XIII manned spacecraft.
The flight crew composed of Wang Yaping, Zhai Zhigang and Ye Guangfu smoothly entered space and completed the national mission.
During the six months of traveling to space, Wang Yaping incarnated as a "space teacher" to teach many times, showing the working and living scenes of the space station to the people of the whole country, and demonstrating a series of magical phenomena in the microgravity environment.
During the New Year's Day and Spring Festival, Wang Yaping, who was on a business trip in space, also sent blessings to border guards and the people of the whole country.
On April 16, 2022, the Shenzhou 13 manned spacecraft return module successfully landed at the Dongfeng landing field.
Zhao Peng took his daughter and went to pick up Wang Yaping with flowers in his hand.
The family of three was finally reunited.
At that moment, Wang Yaping, who had been on a business trip in space for half a year, looked at his daughter with tears in his eyes, and her daughter looked at her mother who had returned from picking "stars" from space, while Zhao Peng on the side looked at his wife affectionately.
The so-called guardianship is that when you chase your dreams, I help you guard your home.
When you get home, my eyes follow you.
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In an interview with Dong Qing, Wang Yaping guiltily said that she may be a qualified astronaut, but she is not a competent mother.
After the birth of the child, she spent very little time with the child, and it was her husband Zhao Peng and her parents who took care of it.
The world has a double law, and does not live up to the motherland and does not live up to the secretary.
As good as Wang Yaping, he could not do a good job in heaven and earth at the same time.
Fortunately, she still had Zhao Peng.
He stood behind her, gave her a bottom, cleaned her up, cleared the world's troubles for her, and let her soar into the space universe.
If you are a person who thinks about marriage, you will find that those excellent and happy women have a man who is as solid and stable as the earth:
Obscure, gentle and responsible.
Tu Youyou, China's first Nobel Laureate in Medicine and a pharmacist, has achieved extraordinary achievements and a brilliant career.
The artemisinin she found can be called a gift from traditional Chinese medicine to the people of the world.
But her success is inseparable from her husband Li Tingzhao.
Tu Youyou and Li Tingzhao are middle school classmates.
As intellectuals of that era, both men were very good.
Li Tingzhao is also a professor-level engineer.
But in order to support his wife's dream, he was willing to stand behind his wife and contract all the affairs of the family, so that her wife "turned a deaf ear to family affairs and only attacked artemisinin."
He not only served as Tu Youyou's assistant, but also as her assistant.
When he learned that the artemisinin extracted by Tu Youyou needed to be clinically performed in humans, Li Tingzhao knew that his wife was not in good health, so he did not hesitate to try the medicine for her.
"Why did you marry me?"
"I just want to be your guinea pig."
Without confession or romance, I stand silently by your side and lift you to the top of the world.
Such old love also belongs to our "vaccine hero" Chen Wei and her husband Ma Yiming.
Like Wang Yaping, the dignified and atmospheric Chen Wei is a small school bully:
After graduating from Zhejiang University, he was sent to Tsinghua Graduate School, entered the army to engage in scientific research, and the infectious virus died.
After she and Ma Yiming met on the train, Ma Yiming resigned from Qingdao and ran to Beijing to find her.
Probably since then, their role in marriage has been written:
He always focused on her and her dreams, and also contributed a hero to the country.
"Doing housework is a waste of Chen Wei's talents."
This is Ma Yiming's love words.
For this love sentence, he paid half a life price:
Chen Wei only manages scientific research, and everything in the family is Ma Yiming pipe.
He not only took care of Chen Wei, but also took care of Chen Wei's team.
The team has a problem, needs manpower, Ma Yiming does not say a word, just become a non-editor.
Over the years, Chen Wei worked overtime almost every day, no matter how late, Ma Yiming was waiting at the door for his wife to go home together.
Life is difficult, but as long as there is love, it is not difficult to say.
Scientific research is very bitter, but as long as there is someone to guard, no matter how bitter it is, it is also sweet.
Wang Yaping, Tu Youyou and Chen Wei are the best among women.
They have their own talents and talents, hard work and luck.
However, behind them, there stood a husband who did not drag his feet and was big enough.
This is the theme I'm going to write about today—
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There are many good men in this world.
But they all let the women retreat to the rear and go to the battlefield to earn glory.
There are very few men who, knowing that they are excellent, are willing to let their wives step on their shoulders and create greater achievements.
Thank you to such men, let us witness the style of excellent women, witness them create an era.
As an emotional writer, I have seen more husbands like this in my daily counseling:
After the wife and husband graduated in 985, after the two people got married and had a baby, everyone, including the husband, advised the wife: "The woman must retire to the family, and you must focus on the man's career." ”
Who can see that the talented girl actually has a dream.
● After being a full-time wife for many years, the wife wants to work, wants to start a business, and does things by herself, and the husband who has nothing to do but has a big temper keeps humiliating her: "What do you do not work, less toss me, wash and cook at home, milk and children, is your biggest mission!" ”
The macho man, who kept puicating the woman, only to break her wings and make her his puppet.
● The wife has an excellent job, a successful career, and cannot take on too many housework, and the man has all kinds of violence + cold violence: "You look at the women in other people's homes, and then look at you!" ”
In the psychological imbalance, the man even cheated and cheated: "The reason why I made a mistake is not because she is too strong!"
Instead of condemning men, the world talks about women: "What is the use of a woman's annual salary of a million?" Not even a man could be kept! ”
Humiliation, discrimination, domestication, so that a good woman, living as a sad female warrior, knows that falling into depression.
Few people stand up and tell these women who chase dreams, women who work, and excellent women:
"You're not wrong, you have the right to pursue a better self.
In this world, it is not based on men's standards to measure the lives of all women. ”
Today, I write this to tell more women —
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First, women are not weak, and by liberating them from their motherhood, they can soar.
Why are women discriminated against in their careers and careers?
In addition to secular prejudices, there is also an important reason, that is, family and fertility, which consume too much energy of women.
If male compatriots can abandon machismo, return to the family, take responsibility, and liberate their wives from heavy housework and parenting, then many originally excellent women can not only create personal value and wealth, but also become the pillars of the country.
Second, the balance between family and career is the deepest suffering of modern female women.
In this era, one of the reasons for the confrontation of gender relations is that women have gone to the workplace, while men have not yet returned to the family.
Many men earn 3,000 a month, but they naturally believe that wives with a monthly salary of 10,000 should wash and cook, raise a baby to accompany them, and serve their parents.
And he, just eating and drinking, fishing and playing cards, Ge You lying down, brushing mobile phones, playing games.
This "how women should be" prejudice is a cancer of patriarchal thinking and a collective dark wound of women.
Juggling family and career is the deepest suffering of women.
The marriage story of Wang Yaping, Tu Youyou and Chen Wei tells us:
Everyone's energy is limited, and the more they invest in their careers, they are bound to invest less in the family.
Investing more in the family is bound to make sacrifices in the career.
This is true for both men and women.
Therefore, no one should take the cage of family and career balance and put women in it.
Doing the same is already a difficult task.
Do both well, unless you're a fairy.
None of us are immortals, and there is no need to embarrass each other.
Third, it is better to meet love and meet sex than to meet appreciation.
I often have girls ask me, what kind of man is worth trusting?
My answer has always been, and always will be: people who appreciate you.
Coveting your appearance and figure, nostalgia for your virtuousness and gentleness, are all men starting from self-interest and making you please him.
Only those who appreciate you can see your value, support your dreams, and let you be yourself.
He won't cut your wings because he expects you to fly into the vast blue sky.
He will not be jealous of your achievements, because he desires you to create greater miracles.
He will not fear your might, for your glory is His glory.
He appreciates you from the bottom of his heart, so that he will see "us" more important than "me".
Meeting love, meeting sex, is not uncommon.
Rarely, meet appreciation.
Because I appreciate, I understand.
Because you understand, you are compassionate.
Look around.
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Click one in the watch, may you meet appreciation