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Today is April 24, National Space Day. In the past year, China's aerospace industry has created one achievement after another that has attracted worldwide attention. "Zhu Rong" probed the fire, leaving a trace belonging to China in the distant Mars; "XiHe" achieved a breakthrough in China's solar exploration day by day; "Tianhe" traveled to the stars and expanded the homeland to the vast starry sky... China's aerospace pursuit of the dream of space is becoming more and more steady.
Not long ago, the Shenzhou 13 manned mission was successfully completed, and astronauts Zhai Zhigang, Wang Yaping and Ye Guangfu arrived safely in Beijing on the afternoon of April 16, 2022.
I don't know if you remember? At the expedition ceremony, a little girl was full of tears and waved goodbye to Wang Yaping, which moved countless people.
It was Wang Yaping's daughter, who was about to turn 6.
Before leaving, Wang Yaping once assigned a task to his daughter: "During the time when your mother travels to space, you must take good care of yourself, take good care of your grandmother and grandfather with your father, and study well." ”
The well-behaved daughter nodded vigorously and said that she would also assign a task to her mother. The daughter said, "I want the stars in the sky, so pick a star for me and come back!" ”
After half a year, returning to earth safely, Wang Yaping shouted to his daughter: "The mother who picked the stars has returned." ”
The first time Wang Yaping returned from "picking stars", he fulfilled his promise before the business trip and gave the "stars" to his daughter.
The warm interaction between mother and daughter touched countless netizens in front of the screen:
Such a good mother is the best example for her daughter.
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According to NASA, only 15 of the 225 "spacewalks" so far this year have been performed by women.
Wang Yaping is the 16th woman to perform a "spacewalk."
She is also the first Chinese female astronaut to walk in space.
On the way to chase her dreams and fly, she challenged herself again and again, challenging the limits, and only then did she have today's achievements.
Before leaving, she promised her 5-year-old daughter that she would bring her a star.
In fact, we all know that this is impossible.
But when she took the little star out of her arms and gave it to her daughter.
Not only to love dreams, chase the spirit of dreams, pass on to the daughter. Moreover, it is also practicing the importance that an ordinary mother attaches to her daughter's commitment with practical actions.
I promised you, so I will do it.
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According to a survey report by the China Youth Research Center, among the 12 behaviors that primary and secondary school students are most dissatisfied with their parents, "talking does not count" ranks first, accounting for 43.6%.
There is such a plot in the TV series "Young Pi", Lin Miaomiao and her father agreed that when the exam progressed, she would take her to the amusement park, and as a result, the exam improved, and the father did not have time to break the appointment. Lin Miaomiao said such a sentence angrily: "You adults just don't count your words, so I won't take the exam again!" ”
It is conceivable that the "default" of parents is very serious in the eyes of children!
Education expert Li Qunfeng believes that parents' failure to fulfill their promises will make children mistakenly think that promises are casual and do not need to be responsible, so that they will have a bad impact on children who do not keep their promises.
Sometimes we think that the child is still young and forgets about it in a few days, but in fact, he remembers it. Every time you "break the contract" is to wear down the trust of your child. So, when a child says, "Mom and Dad, your words don't count," then you should pay attention! Sometimes the work is urgent, and the emergency situation is not possible, which is indeed understandable. However, if you want your children to be honest, parents themselves must first be faithful in their words.
The "default" of parents is to teach children to lie, and regarding commitments to children, we can do this:
First of all, do not make promises easily, and once you make a promise, you must strive to do it.
Before making a promise to the child, you should carefully consider whether you can do it, and whether the promised things are suitable for the child. Don't just write a blank check to your child, like "you took the first place, your mother bought you everything", unless you are sure that you can do it, otherwise don't promise casually. Once a promise is made, try to do it, otherwise it will betray the trust of the child.
Second, temporary changes cannot fulfill the commitment, and we must take the initiative to take responsibility.
If a special situation occurs temporarily and it is impossible to fulfill the commitment, parents should apologize to the child in time and explain the situation, reassure the child, ask for the child's forgiveness, and then work together to find a way to solve the problem.
What is the best education?
In fact, the best education is the words and deeds of parents to set an example for their children.
Just like Wang Yaping is educating her daughter with her own practical actions, so that she can see her words and believe, so as to guide her daughter to become an honest and trustworthy person; let her see her own efforts and contributions, so as to encourage her daughter to become a useful person for the country in the future.
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Some of the materials in this article are synthesized from Xinhua Net, Cao Can Cup, Parents Camp, etc.
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