Parents and children to fight is a game of wisdom, children throw countless problems to their parents, parents have to face challenges, children are always innocent when they are young, full of infinite curiosity about anything, and will also ask parents a variety of questions, such as why the sky is so high, why sugar is sweet, wait until the child grows up to the age of reading, it will make parents face a problem, the child asks: why read? Children seem to be full of questions about why they want to learn, children with fun nature are suddenly bound by learning, it is inevitable to feel bound, at this time the parents' answer is an important and crucial part of the child's life education road.
1, the nature of children
Children's nature is to love to play, but because of the need to start school, the comfort brought by learning and their nature is contradictory to a certain extent, and now the children's learning age is getting earlier and earlier, and children have to start to accept learning when they are very young, so the playful nature makes them unclear, so they don't know why they want to learn.
2, is the child's trust in the parents of the performance
Children are willing to communicate with their parents, willing to tell their parents what they think, is a manifestation of trust in parents, but also a good embodiment of parent-child feelings, children are willing to ask their parents for answers, but also out of unconditional trust in their parents, want to get answers from their parents.
3. Academic pressure
Children's academic pressure is very large, no less than the pressure of work for adults, when children face multiple disciplines, their own learning has the heart and insufficient strength, it will form a large psychological pressure, resulting in psychological burden, coupled with the purpose of learning is not clear in a short period of time, resulting in doubts, but also for the performance of academic confusion.
1. Follow the rules
Parents for the child's education need to follow the good temptation, guide the child is very important, when the child wen parents why to learn, parents can let the child think first, combined with the examples in life, combined with the child's familiar daily phenomena, let the child form their own understanding, if the child's understanding is wrong or one-sided, parents will then correct and correct guidance, when the child begins to think about why they want to learn, it will really turn into the internal source of power.
2, not utilitarian and not impatient
For the child's education, patience is very important, many parents for the child's curiosity and questions will feel childish and ridiculous, so sloppy perfunctory, or take an impatient attitude, some parents even if they answer the child, but also with utilitarian overtones, such as answering "in order to become rich in the future" "for the sake of being superior", these answers will give the child wrong guidance.
Parents should give enough patience in the face of children's questions, listen carefully and carefully to the child's inner thoughts, and also take the opportunity to get closer to the child, understand the child's point of view, and give gentle answers, do not mix utilitarian colors, mislead the child to form wrong values. Moreover, there is a way to understand the psychological pressure of channeling children to alleviate children's anxiety and reduce children's psychological burden.
Conclusion: Why study? Learning makes people understand gains and losses, makes people not willing to degenerate, makes people full of wisdom, with these qualities, in order to compete with the dirty and muddy life, and with these qualities, through learning can be obtained, and children understand the importance of learning, need parents to fully promote.
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I am Nemo mother nursery, in the process of educating children, encounter any problems can come to me, I hope that my little advice can help you solve the confusion and troubles in the process of taking the baby, so that our children can grow better!
【Transferred from: Sohu Original — Linlin Parenting Diary 】