"Mom, I'll be obedient"
These two days were watched by a video and cried.
In the video, a 9-year-old girl, naked, stands in front of the house, crying over and over again and pleading, "I will obey... I'll be obedient...."
In exchange for the mother's cold "I care about you?" I'll take care of you! You give me out".
In order not to cause secondary harm to the child, I will not let go of the video, the child cried too badly, a sound is heartbreaking.
Although the mosaic was played, the scars on the child's body were still faintly visible, and he did not know what he had experienced
The 9-year-old already has shame, how desperate it is to be stripped naked and chased and beaten.
Netizens with the same experience said: This humiliation will be rooted in the heart for a lifetime, and there is no way to forgive.
Subsequently, the police reported that "because of the child's education problems, the mother was emotionally out of control and beat him."
Insiders revealed that the girl's father died, and only the mother and 2 daughters were dependent on each other and often beat the child.
There are rumors that mom's spirit is up and down, but it has not been confirmed. Every time the news of a child being beaten comes out, there is a high probability that "mental illness" will be heard, and everyone will be numb.
To be sure, children's beatings are commonplace, and the injuries on their bodies are the accumulation of new wounds and old wounds.
Eight- or nine-year-old children, who should be sunny and carefree, but girls spend day after day in fear and anxiety, which is really too painful!
Is parenthood given the right to beat and humiliate a life at will?
I think of the Chaohu dad beating a 1-year-old child a few days ago, and every frame of the video made people's blood pressure soar.
In just 2 minutes and 26 seconds of video, he slapped the 1-year-old baby 3 times, pinched the neck 2 times, and the longest time covered the child's mouth and nose for 17 seconds, which was simply murder!
Police report: After the husband and wife had a conflict and their emotions were out of control, the father beat the child.
It's "emotional out of control" again!
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A little girl in Sichuan was hospitalized by her mother with a hanger due to poor grades, and the child's thighs were still blurred with blood and flesh.
It's already 2022, and there are still so many children living under sticks.
This is not called emotional out of control, this is typical of venting emotions and taking a child out of breath.
How many adults can't manage their emotions, handle the relationships around them, and live their own lives badly, but as long as they have children, they have a legitimate punching bag, and they can use the name of "education" to scold children.
The thought of parents not having to take training exams is scary.
The whole network is hurting the child, netizens said: If the parents really have mental problems, it is not suitable to continue to be a guardian, if not, the parents who are violent to the child, is it also necessary to cancel the guardianship qualifications?
Everyone does not know that children who are injured all over the body would rather be beaten than choose their parents without hesitation.
"Although I was beaten, I still want my mother"
Remember that 7-year-old Xi'an boy who was abused by his mother for a long time every day?
After his parents divorced, he lived alone with his mother every day, and his mother was in a bad mood and would beat him. At first he would run, but when he found that he was caught and beaten more fiercely, he did not run, and when he was beaten again, he silently endured.
Silently gritted her teeth from the age of 5 to the age of 7, until her mother was caught for child abuse.
When he was taken to the hospital, a knife wound on his chest was shocking, 8cm long, and the doctor stitched more than 30 stitches.
Every day he said, "This is my mother cutting with a knife," and then explained, "My mother didn't mean it, she accidentally cut me."
Every day, there is no complete place on the body, and the forehead, neck, stomach, and calves are all scars, all of which are made by adults with knives and wires.
But he "lied" to the doctor several times, saying that the injuries on his body were accidentally caused by himself and had nothing to do with his mother.
This scarred child is still trying to maintain his mother.
When asked if he resented his mother, he whispered "not too much hate" every day. My mother was arrested by the police and temporarily taken in by the children's village every day, and the child said: Although my mother beat me, I still want to stay by her side.
Reporter: She hit you, are you willing?
Every day: Just fight, or I won't have a mother.
The child's two sentences brought tears to people's eyes.
He just can't express, won't resist, and won't remember the child
Even if you are beaten all over the body, you still have to use your scarred and small body to stand up and protect your mother.
How deep can a child's love for his parents be
These two days brushed a video, let me watch and laugh and cry.
Dad was giving his mother a massage, a few steps away from the 9-month-old baby saw, mistakenly thought that the mother was bullied, anxious to use the strength to suckle, rubbing three steps and two steps to climb to the mother, the mouth shouted "mommy mommy".
Throw your whole body on your mother's body, as if to say, "Mom, I've come to protect you, if you want to fight, come at me"!
He is just a child who can't walk the road and can't say anything, but instinctively protects his mother.
Netizens said that when they saw this, they understood why their son cried and blocked as soon as he saw himself doing massage. The child's love for his mother is simple, "No one can go near my mother!" ”
Remember this 6 year old boy? Look hard into the crack in front of the delivery room door. His mother had just given birth to her brother, the baby had been taken away, and all the relatives had gone to take care of her brother. Only he was here waiting for His mother.
He said, "Your baby is out, but my mom is still inside." In a word, let people break the defense.
For us, children may be just a part of life, but for children, we are all they are.
Remember the dad who was overloaded by the traffic police, had an emotional breakdown, and threw his child on the ground?
The 3-year-old child was violently thrown on the hard road by his father, injured, scared and aggrieved, but still trotted to catch up with his father, clutching the corner of his father's clothes, afraid that his father would not want him.
Anyone you hit him and scold him, he will stay away from you, and only the child will forgive you without hesitation.
I hope that every child will be treated with tenderness
The reason why a child is a child is that there will be many things that cannot be done well, and many simple knowledge cannot be understood.
7-year-old boy Zou Xiao, because the pinyin spelling is wrong, his mother raised her hand, "So basic or wrong?" His eyes closed in fright.
The child is asked: Do you think Mom and Dad understand you?
His tears flowed out at once, and he shook his head: Mom said I was two hundred and five.
The child's uncomfortable heart will not lie.
The rebuke from the parents, the slap, is a nail in the young mind. Even if it is pulled out later, it will leave scars.
A netizen who is often abused by domestic violence said to his parents:
More than 20 years ago, a child always secretly shed tears at night.
Your violence made me inferior, cowardly, timid and afraid of things, at that time I really did not want to live, and I had the heart to jump into the well.
Children who are scolded by their parents will not stop loving you, but will only give up loving themselves.
Once, because of the dysfunctional performance of the placement test, my grades plummeted.
I asked my dad how he couldn't resist not hitting me and scolding me.
My father said: I am an ordinary person myself, why should I require my children to be geniuses? Raising children I don't understand any big truth, I only know how to give children more love, it will not be bad.
I am very grateful to my father for having a clear understanding of himself and his children so early. With a simple concept of parenting, I was raised healthy and happy.
I can really prove that the love of parents is the source of happiness for a child's life.
I hope that every parent will let their children feel: even if you yourself are in the sea of people, ordinary like a small grass, but you have to remember that someone has always loved me so much, they can see at a glance that I am different from other grasses.
Hope that every child is treated with tenderness,
Hopefully we can all be in our children's bags
Load up a lot of happiness.
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