In this world, no matter how pink and jade the skin bag is, the soul is full of fun, no one can avoid the word "money".
I read an article to the effect that it is suggested that women should find a man who takes the initiative to "talk about money" with themselves, because only men who dare to "talk about money" are honest enough to be honest and sincere enough, and more suitable for living a life.
Although it is not 100% true, it has some truth. I also especially dislike men who love and marry without mentioning money, but when women talk about money, they accuse and complain about women's material tackiness, and even give her the name of "gold worshipper".
Regarding money and gender, studies have shown that 70% of divorces are due to the breakdown of relationships caused by money conflicts. The average number of fights between couples over money is 3 times a month.
It can be seen that when young men and women fall in love, they are ashamed to talk about money because they are disdainful or face-saving, which is a self-righteous fake high. As a woman, finding a man who initiates "talking about money" may not be really good, but it will definitely make you recognize whether it is a good fit between the two of you more quickly.
Men are different from men, and the way they "talk about money" with women is also different, which will largely expose his insincerity to women. Remind women: In love, if a man "talks about money" with you like this, you better get out of the way as soon as possible.
Let you help him do things, promise to earn money and then give you money in name
I have a friend who got along with the boss of my own company. In the past, her boyfriend was just her boss, paid a monthly salary, did not delay or owe, and could get seven or eight thousand after taxes. Since the boss became a boyfriend, she has never received a penny of salary, the boss boyfriend took the initiative to "talk about money" with her, saying that his own company, there is no need to calculate so clearly, she is the boss lady of this company sooner or later, and the money earned later is hers.
Friends are busy with the company, not only do not take a salary, but also use their own savings to help with the company's affairs. Friends reminded her not to be deceived, but she felt that people promised to give it to her after earning money, and it was too hurtful for her to be so snobbish.
As a result, more than half a year later, the boss did not know when a wife came out, made a big fuss in the company, and said that the friend was a small third who only had money in his eyes, and would only seduce the husband. Friends who saw this frame at a young age immediately resigned and left, and blacked out the boss, ready to die and not interact with each other, and most of the salary for most of the year was completely lost.
In fact, the relationship between men and women, especially in the workplace involving feelings, the most sensible thing to do is to separate work and feelings, talk about money clearly, and implement it in time. The promise of deliberately circumventing money is like a mirage floating in the air, and it disappears without a trace after a gust of wind at any time.
Remind women that if you meet a man who is unwilling to "talk to you about money" or only promises you future money, then you'd better stay away from him. Usually such men are mostly selfish and narrow-minded.
Often cry with you poor, trying to take advantage of you
Friend Xiaoyun is a single mother, working alone in Shenzhen for more than ten years, and finally bought an apartment house, provided for her own house, and raised children. After being introduced by friends, I met a middle school teacher, met for the first time, had a good impression of each other, and had some feelings of seeing each other and hating late, and quickly established a relationship.
This teacher is a frank person, and soon took the initiative to talk to Xiaoyun about money, he said that he was just a private school teacher, the income was not high, not only to support the parents of the family, but also to save money to get married, so the hand may be tighter.
Xiaoyun feels that he is a real person, and what he said is not unreasonable, after two people dating, she always thinks about him, everything rushes to pay, and men are also happy to enjoy their success, and they are at ease.
Later, the teacher cried to Xiaoyun again, saying that his monthly salary was only enough to pay the rent, and it was better to move to Xiaoyun's house, and promised that the two of them would jointly save money for a better future for their children. In this way, the two people naturally lived together.
But it didn't take long for Xiaoyun to find himself deceived. Since living together, men have never bought any daily necessities, let alone helped with utilities, mortgages, or anything. Xiaoyun felt that he was raising this man, and sometimes it was inevitable to complain a few times, and the man began to cry and coax her again, saying that the salary of the private school was too low, and when he had the opportunity to apply for a public school, he had money, and he must buy a big house to take her son to live with.
By chance, Xiaoyun knew that this teacher's salary was not low, and he had saved hundreds of thousands of dollars over the years, and he cried in front of her, just to find a step without spending money. Xiaoyun asked the man to move out of his home, and from then on, the teacher was not heard.
Men's attitude toward money can best reflect the upbringing, if a man is obviously rich, but desperately cry poor, or even find ways to take advantage of women, needless to say, he must be a selfish person. Such a man will not be a good person.
Remind women, this kind of stingy with you, even looking for you to spend money on the man, he not only does not love you, but also very bad for people, with such a man, even if you give everything for him, he will not feel anything, will only be very at ease.
Introduce you to the project and say that you can make a lot of money
There is also a kind of man, always like to put a large amount of money in front of women, boast that they have resources and connections, and from time to time to women a variety of sweet words, at every turn you introduce money-making projects to women. For this kind of man, when a woman encounters it, she must also be vigilant, and if she is not careful, she will be routined.
One of my netizens, Ah Hong, met a tall man through WeChat, and the man booed and greeted her every day through the Internet, and she couldn't help but have a good feeling for him. The two men quickly identified a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship online.
Not long after, he said that he invested in a financial project, he had inside information, made a lot of money, and constantly encouraged Ah Hong to participate together, and promised that if he lost money, he would earn all the money to her.
Ah Hong couldn't help but lobby him repeatedly, throwing tens of thousands into it, and at the beginning, he could indeed earn some. The man planned the so-called grand blueprint and asked Ah Hong to invest more, and as a result, she invested more than 600,000 yuan in her savings over the years. I didn't think that after the money was invested, I began to lose money, until the account was less than twenty thousand, Ah Hong was anxious, asked the man, the man was broken, and he couldn't say why he came. Asked urgently, the man simply blackened Ah Hong, and disappeared. Later, I learned that the financial project was basically a Ponzi scheme. Ah Hong wanted to cry without tears, and there was no way to regret it.
Remind women that a man who is serious about feelings will not "talk to you about money" like this. A man who is eager to teach you to earn money is likely to have ulterior motives, and women must be careful.
summary:
As a woman, you don't have to marry a man who is rich, but you have to be careful with those who let you do things only saying that money does not give money, always crying poor and trying to take advantage of you and saying that you want to make money.
If you meet such a man, you should not have any hesitation, you must stop the loss in time and quickly stay away.
Finally, remind women: don't love someone wrongly because of loneliness, this short life, you must find a man who will hurt you, be generous to you, and be willing to spend money for you.