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A man's mind is actually very complex and changeable, if a woman does not see through a man's mind, it is easy to lose a man's heart in the relationship, which also means that the relationship is over.
If you want to capture a man's heart, you must understand the emotional needs of men, and you must also know the other party's past, so as to tolerate him, accept him, support him, and respect him, so as to make your relationship better.
In short, there are 3 emotional holes for men, and women must know.
01, a man's past.
The first thing about men's emotional emptiness is actually the past.
Everyone has a story about the man, in fact, there is an unknown past, in the past he may have met a person he loved very much, but he was also the person who hurt him the most.
Because of this past relationship, it will change his concept of love, and it will make him very cold, so that it is difficult to accept a new relationship and fall in love with someone.
Or because of his original family, he suffered a lot and suffered a lot of injuries in the past, so he couldn't believe in marriage and didn't dare to enter marriage.
When you learn about a man's past, go into his inner world with your heart, warm him, move him, and become his salvation, then he will fall in love with you and will be even more inseparable from you.
Women don't get to the bottom of it because of a man's past, otherwise it will only make him reject you directly, block you, and have nothing to do with you.
If you always ask about his past, or don't respect his past, don't tolerate or understand, then this man will definitely not fall in love with you.
02. Men's emotional needs.
A man's emotional emptiness is what he needs.
If you want a man to fall in love with you, then you have to know what he really wants, what kind of person he really likes, and what his real needs are.
If you don't know what a man wants, and you don't know this man, then no matter how much you give, in fact, the man is indifferent and will not be moved, you are wishful thinking, and the relationship has no result.
If you want to enter a man's heart, then you must understand the man's unspeakable thoughts, and if you can do what he can do for you, then you will succeed.
Men actually need to be recognized, supported, trusted, and encouraged.
If you are always too aggressive, aggressive, and always want to control the freedom of men, then the more tired you will be, and you will not want to be with you.
When a man is depressed, you have to pay attention, but don't interfere too much, give enough space and privacy to the man, and be the object he can talk to, so that the man will remember you and begin to have you in his heart.
03. Men's self-esteem.
Every man has self-esteem, and a man doesn't want a woman to disrespect him, nor does he want a woman to be too strong, otherwise he won't be free and can't do what he likes, in fact, he will easily change his mind.
If a woman wants to get a man's heart, she must also know how to consider his feelings and self-esteem when doing things, don't always embarrass him, don't always belittle him, don't laugh at him, and don't let him not get off the stage.
Men are actually very face-saving, women should also take care of men's self-esteem in front of outsiders, when communicating, don't be too aggressive, don't always deny men's abilities, blindly deny, say that men are incompetent, say that men have no ability, then men's hearts are also very fragile.
Beautiful feelings need to be tolerated and understood by each other, respect and appreciate each other, work together, and maintain with love in order to make the relationship stable.
To love a man, you must understand the emptiness of a man, cherish him, care for him, and tolerate him, so as to reap full happiness.
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