The 46-year-old Yi Nengjing can't remember the first time she came to the hospital, and she was denied by the third doctor: "There is only a possibility of 0.01 pregnancy, you give up." ”
Yi Nengjing, who was holding the test form, cried and said to Qin Hao, "You can find another one, I can't give you a baby, you are still so young." Qin Hao comforted Yi Nengjing: "It's a big deal for us to live, we don't want children." ”
Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing both like children very much, and what they want is the happiness of ordinary people and fireworks couples, with families and children.
At the beginning of the marriage, Yi Nengjing secretly made a wish: "I must give my man a child, and having a child for a man is called love, because I am so happy to have my son, and I want to bring this happiness to my husband." ”
After several ovulation inductions, but without results, just when Yi Nengjing was about to give up, she got a natural conception, which she believed was a miracle.
While raising your body well, I believe that there must be a baby in heaven who sees you, and he will say to God, "I like this mother, can I go and live in her belly?"
Waiting for the child to be pregnant, I knew that I had to contribute everything in my body to this new life, for the first 3 months, Yi Nengjing had been suffering from morning sickness, and Qin Hao also said: "It's too pretentious." ”
When Yi Nengjing vomited in front of Qin Hao one day, Qin Hao was completely stunned, and he realized that the reaction of life was so strong, life drove life, and blood veins touched blood veins.
Having experienced the process of life cultivation and is assuming the title of father, Qin Hao has a new infusion of life emotions, and also understands the feelings of seeing his daughter suffering as a father. In "Dear Child", Xiao Lu, played by Qin Hao, is on such a road of growth called "father".
Fang Yinuo, played by Ren Suxi, holds his stomach in front of the mirror to detail the changes in his body, without a line, there is a slight discomfort of the body and grievances after the reaction to pregnancy, and more is the expectation and joy of the arrival of a new life.
The biggest and only expectation is child health.
Xiao Lu ate a bowl of noodles at a roadside stall, brought a bowl of noodles without peppers to his wife Fang Yinuo, and returned home to pinch his wife's legs and rub his shoulders to imagine the life between the three mouths.
As everyone knows, the noodles of life are not only peppers, but also many unknown seasonings, sour, sweet, bitter, spicy and salty, and full of stale tastes, making people want to cry without tears, and it is difficult to swallow.
When the real life documentary began filming, it was to help the wife who had given birth to a child to deal with the filth on her body, to take the lead in the work, to balance herself against the pressure of middle-aged people, when Fang Yinuo gave birth, Xiao Lu fled, when Shan Menghai vowed to become a chicken and a dog, Xiao Lu escaped, when the ear sideburns became mutual accusations, Xiao Lu escaped, and the two divorced.
Who can retreat from a failed marriage, and there is no real sense of winning or losing, no matter what kind of relationship, as long as the enthusiasm is put into it, it will definitely hurt.
At the time of the divorce, the mother-in-law, who did not love her daughter-in-law very much, said a word: "I am not here to persuade you to change your mind, Blaming myself for not educating my children." Yinuo, you have to think clearly, a woman with a child will be very hard. "It's one mother's empathy for another.
Marriage is difficult, and it is difficult to have children.
Unfortunately, her daughter Hehe suffers from leukemia.
He he shaved his hair, did not cry, He He endured the pain to do the examination, did not cry, He He knew that there were children who slept forever, did not cry, He He knew that he would be separated from his parents, did not cry, but a sentence "You must not forget He He, I will become a star in the sky flashing" but let many people cry.
This time, Xiao Lu did not escape, nor did his parents.
"Dear Child" is based on a true story, and the prototype of Fang Yinuo is called
Yan Ying
, Renhuai, Guizhou, and husband Qin Deqiang
In 1993, he gave birth to the eldest son, Qin Xinfa, which is the prototype of Hehe, and the younger son was born two years later.
But Yan Ying
When encountering people who are not ladylike, Qin Deqiang has a violent temper and is in
In 2002, the two divorced, the eldest son and Yan Ying, and the second son and Qin Deqiang
。
When the eldest son was 7 years old, he suddenly felt knee pain, but he could not detect anything unusual, thinking it was growth pain, until he had 3 bone marrow punctures, and finally he was diagnosed with leukemia.
This is nothing less than a thunderbolt on a sunny day for Yan Ying, for the mother Ze gang, Yan Ying alone with her son here to seek medical treatment, hungry, the hospital a night 5 yuan chair reluctant to rent, put the son in the hospital, Yan Ying spent 10 yuan to buy a cool mat to sleep on the street.
Yan Ying, who originally had no savings, has spent 80,000 yuan, has not yet done bone marrow transplantation, and the money for light surgery is 200,000, Yan Ying returned home to sell the house and sold the car, the money that can be borrowed is borrowed, or far from enough, the key is to have bone marrow that can be matched.
At this time, Yan Ying gave Yan Ying a glimmer of hope that the 11-year-old brother was successfully matched, but he was beaten by the doctor: no, the donor must be 18 years old.
The eldest son can't wait for 7 years, the doctor gave Yan Ying a suggestion, and the ex-husband had another child, with umbilical cord blood to save the child, but only 25% success rate.
Even at 0.01, Yan Ying will let go, she endured humiliation and begged her ex-husband, and gave birth to a boy a year later, but fate made a joke again: the matching was not successful.
Xinfa took his brother's hand: "I can't repay my mother, you take good care of my mother on my behalf, and honor my mother's second half of life." "He was sensible, thoughtful, and at a lovely age, left the world that should have been lovely.
My mother wrote with tears: "Come to the world with a "mission", my brother is so wronged, so there is the movie "Left and Right", there is the TV series "Dear Child", and there are the voices of thousands of parents. Parents are benevolent and righteous, and they have done everything that should be done, and the rest is left to fate.
In "Dear Child", Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo both have families, and when Xiao Lu decides to have another child with his ex-wife to save Hehe, it is tantamount to breaking the two families.
Fortunately, someone and Hehe's bone marrow were successfully adapted, and we can still hear the sound of 8-year-old Hehe writing homework.
Qin Hao said "Dear Child"
This "child" refers not only to Hehe, but also to every adult who has been naïve, ignorant, paranoid, and selfish in the face of the waves of life. The process of healing hehe is also the process of being cured by hehe, and everyone grows because of it.
Every adult is also a dear child, and they have to learn how to become parents
Children are the watershed of life, making people both happy and afraid, happy that life has continued, and what is afraid is that life has been worried about since then.
Fang Yinuo said, "Xie Tianhua, I love you, this time it is true, the bitterness is all eaten, and it is left sweet." "As a parent, you must eat enough of the bitterness of being a parent before you dare to try your own sweetness."
Qian Zhong wrote, "There are only two kinds of people in the world. For example, when a bunch of grapes arrives, one kind of person chooses the best to eat first, and another kind of person saves the best for the last time.
As a rule, the first should be optimistic, for every time he eats one of the best of the leftover grapes, the second should be pessimistic, for every time he eats one of the worst of the leftover grapes. But the truth is counterproductive, because the second kind of people still have hope, and the first kind of people only have memories. ”
Dear adults and children, the bad grapes are almost eaten, and the rest should be good grapes, a steady stream of hope and a sweet taste, love is the sugar.
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