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Every Sunday and the first two days of holidays, the neighbor Aunt Li is not very happy.
Once chatted with Aunt Li, she said that since both sons are married, now the most feared is Sundays and holidays, at this time, the two sons will bring their daughter-in-law and children here, saying to accompany me. I said, "What a good thing, how filial piety the children are, every Sunday and holiday to see your family so lively, that is really envious, I will be old in the future, my children can be like your son, often come back to accompany me on the line." ”
Aunt Li smiled bitterly and shook her head, "I am happy that the children come home." But I really can't eat ah, two sons a total of seven or eight people, two daughters-in-law came to sit on the sofa to play mobile phones, not even a green onion help washed, two sons play mobile phone nagging, I have a bad waist, bad legs of the 70-year-old wife to see the children, but also to make a big family of rice, dishes on more than a dozen.
After eating, the children patted their butts and left, leaving the cup and plate of the home. I still had to clean up the table and clean up, the kids were at home for a day, and I was too busy to slow down for a week. For many years, I did not dare to complain in front of my daughters-in-law. ”
After listening to Aunt Li's words, my heart was full of mixed feelings. The seemingly lively and harmonious family of outsiders turned out to be Aunt Li alone carrying the weight. But I think that the reason why Aunt Li is so affected is that her education is a problem, and she should not put all the responsibility on her daughter-in-law.
The practice of Aunt Li's sons also reflects the more prevalent accompaniment type of nibbling among young people now. The wind of accompanying pension is prevalent, the elderly have to say that they have pains, but young people are particularly sought after.
Companionship nibbles on the elderly, under the guise of accompanying the elderly, but lets the elderly suffer
Now many young people, when it comes to holidays, drag their families back to their parents' homes, saying that they are accompanying the elderly. But once you arrive at your parents' house, you can't help but let your elderly parents drag their inflexible bodies and cook for them to take care of their children. But they were calmly playing mobile phones, playing games, watching their parents tired and not touching the ground, but they did not take the initiative to come forward to help, and before leaving, they also took some food from their parents' homes.
He said that he was accompanying his parents, but he did not talk to his parents a few times, said some intimate words, and did not let his parents rest well and eat their own meals. Just find an excuse to eat and drink, and enjoy the care of your parents. In the eyes of outsiders, they went to accompany their parents, fulfilled their filial piety, and lost a good reputation. Therefore, many young people are now more enthusiastic about this kind of companionship.
But for the elderly is torture. Many old people should enjoy their old age in peace, and there is a family that drags their bodies and serves their sons. However, having such children also shows that there is a problem in the education of the elderly, so that the children do not know how to understand the hardships of their parents and do not know how to be grateful.
For children, filial piety is not just for a good reputation, but to reduce the burden on parents and make parents feel comfortable and happy. At the same time, let them have a dependence and a thought in their later years.
[Topic Discussion: Do you have such a companion around you? 】
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