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Why does the baby scream, cry, and make unreasonable trouble?
Babies learn it from birth, and to meet their own needs, they need to get the attention of adults. So when they try to get attention but fail, they feel helpless and frustrated. So the mode of crying and screaming was turned on to win further attention from adults.
HUASHAN
KIDS
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How to prevent your baby from gaining attention and satisfaction through unreasonable troublemaking?
Take precautions and tell your baby – "Baby, you don't need to scream to get my attention."
The purpose of the baby's yelling is to win the attention of adults. If the adult makes the baby feel solid from the beginning and knows that the parents are always paying attention to him, then the probability of him screaming and crying will be much reduced. The most important thing that makes the baby feel solid is the high-quality companionship of the parents.
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How should the baby's crying behavior be guided and solved?
Recognize your baby's needs – "Baby, I know you need me"
Every time your baby expresses his needs, as long as the needs are reasonable, they should be met in a timely manner. Many times the baby's crying behavior is caused by the neglect of adults.
We don't need our child to stop what we're doing as soon as we find him, but at least we should respond to him in time to let him know that his parents are paying attention to his needs.
Many times, the child just needs a positive feedback, so that the child will not cry because he feels ignored.
Teach your child to express it correctly – "Baby, I don't understand what you want when you yell"
If the child cries and makes a fuss, we can calmly and gently tell the baby, baby, when you scream, the mother does not know what you want, let the child know that crying is useless.
Wait for the child to calm down and then guide the child to express the real needs, you can combine the child's performance before crying, for the older child, encourage them to express their needs with language, for the small age of children, you can teach them to use gestures to express.
For the stubborn baby, do not be too hasty, first calm the mood and then teach him to express, do not teach him when crying hard, otherwise it will be counterproductive.
Stay the course – "Baby, you're not getting what you want by doing this"
Clear principles, every time the baby cries, the feedback given by adults should be consistent. When children try to get what they want by crying, even if they only succeed once in 10 times, they will feel that the trick is effective.
So the key for parents to discipline their children is to make them understand that the tricks he uses are useless, and you need to get what you want in the right way.
HUASHAN
KIDS