If you have a son at home, don't ignore his temper.
With these 9 emotion management methods, you will reap unexpected surprises.
Author | Oops Mom
A few days ago, I took my son to be vaccinated and saw such a scene.
A little boy who looked like a seven or eight years old, because of fear, refused to sit in the chair when it was his turn to get the injection, and cried violently on the spot.
The mother next to her was still patient at first, whispering advice.
But watching him keep screaming "I don't want a needle, I want to go home" in his throat, the tenderness on his mother's face faded a little.
In its place was a face full of anger.
In order to let her son be vaccinated smoothly, the mother called out to the grandmother not far away, and the two of them worked together to catch him.
Mom even yelled, shouting loudly:
"Hurry up and fight, and then you can go home."
For a moment, the originally noisy consultation room became more chaotic, everyone looked sideways, and the son also frowned and whispered:
"Mom, it's noisy, it's scary."
Seeing such a picture, I can't help but feel a pang in my heart, for the crying boy, but also for the simple and rough mother.
As a parent, I fully understood my mother's anger and embarrassment at that moment.
But when the child loses his temper, the parents are wrong, which will not solve the problem and push the child into a worse situation.
Write at the end:
Boys lose their temper, parents can not be brave, only outwitted.
Not wanting him to be trapped by emotions and hurt by the wrong way of expression, his parents should understand him, tolerate him, and teach him.
As the saying goes in "Lan Hai Says Growing Up":
"The growth of children is the biggest challenge for each of us adults.
It is not only our patience that is challenging, but also our vision. ”
For the sake of the child, every parent must become a student again, constantly learn and improve, and become a person who really understands the child.
Only in this way can the child step by step out of the emotional quagmire.