Wo Wo was sick.
Leukemia, bone marrow transplantation can only be saved.
Unfortunately, finding the right match is a long and difficult process, and of course, there are no shortcuts to take.
The cord blood of the brother/sister is a great matching hope.
According to the doctor, there is 50% hope.
"Dear Child" has a real prototype, and the divorced couple is indeed for the umbilical cord blood and gave birth to the third oldest.
The problem is that the couple divorced after the child was sick, did not remarry after the divorce, both parties are single, and the birth of the third child has not hindered anyone except that it is unfair to the third.
But "Dear Child" is different, Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu remarried separately.
The two of them gave birth to the second eldest, hurting too many people, compared to Hehe's fatal terminal illness, the second eldest who was born as a tool was the real tragedy.
Hehe was born in the love and expectation of all people, but what about the second?
Who will the second eldest be with after he is born?
Fang Yinuo and Xie Tianhua got married.
Here, the great reason is because Hehe needs a father, and it is also because Hehe wants a father.
Until so many years later, she did not think of letting Xiao Lu appear in front of Hehe as a father, so that Xiao Lu could accompany Hehe occasionally, and even the things that Xiao Lu sent in the past, she could directly throw them out.
For depriving Hehe of his father's love and depriving Xiao Lu of his love for his children, she did it unequivocally.
But Hehe was sick, the bone marrow matching type was difficult to find, Fang Yinuo and her mother "abandoned" the previous suspicion, and finally thought that Xiao Lu, the ex-husband (tool person), should be on the line.
Although the child does not call him Daddy, but he provides the kind!
He had to pay, and he had to give another seed, even if he had remarried.
Of course, what is remarriage, Dong Fan she does not know, she can not even take care of her husband Xie Tianhua, how can she worry about Dong Fan's wishes or not?
In order to save your daughter's life, it is not impossible to have another one with her ex-husband, but you must first return to singleness, right?
But Fang Yinuo is not willing to divorce Xie Tianhua, and Xiao Lu and Dong Fan are not divorced, which means that after having another one with her ex-husband, the child will either let Xie Tianhua be the wronged boss again, or let Dong Fan upgrade to become a mother?
Just thinking about being born quickly, did they think about the follow-up after the second eldest was born? Who should the child talk to in the future?
With Mom?
If Fang Yinuo divorced Xie Tianhua, he would be able to have another one.
Even if you work hard, your mother's family is also hard.
But she doesn't get a divorce!
Without divorce, how should the child born after the infidelity be placed?
No matter what the name of the child born of cheating, Xie Tianhua's green hat is appropriate, not to mention nothing else, Hehe is sick and needs to be taken care of, Fang Yinuo just gave birth to a second child, has to confinement, and also needs to be taken care of.
These responsibilities, in addition to falling on her parents, also fell on Xie Tianhua and even the Xie family.
After giving birth to Hehe, Fang Yinuo divorced from confinement to the age of one, how much she did, how difficult it was for her mother-in-law to do, and the chicken flying dog jumping that their mother and daughter took care of Hehe were vividly remembered.
Another one, with the strength of Fang Yinuo's mother's mother, and the strength of Xie Tianhua's sister Xie Dan, these two people are estimated to be able to do a few fights, right?
A Hehe, the Xie family is already difficult to accept, how do they accept that Fang Yinuo cheated on the second eldest, still locked on their own Xie Tianhua?
Even if Xie Tianhua protects his wife strongly, willingly doing a stubborn licking dog for Fang Yinuo and two children who are not his own, and swallowing the pain of being wearing a green hat, can he have no knots in his heart?
Even if he didn't.
Even if the Xie family reluctantly accepts the second brother again, can they have a good face for the second brother?
He He was born and raised in the fang family and the Xiao family full of expectations and love, what about the second eldest? His/her birth is not expected, but with the mission of "saving people".
Whether this person is saved or not, his/her follow-up will not be good.
In addition, Xiao Lu was forcefully deprived of the opportunity to see his children again by Fang Yinuo when he was divorced, this time?
Can he let go of the second eldest and ignore it again?
Hehe's illness eased the relationship between Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu, giving Xiao Lu the opportunity to show fatherly love in front of the child, after giving birth to the second eldest, according to Xiao Lu and his mother's tone, can they not go to see the child?
This time Fang Yinuo has no reason not to let you see it, does it?
Even if Xiao Lu doesn't go, can his mother still not go?
There is a scene in the play where Xiao Lu humbly makes a request to Xie Tianhua and Fang Yinuo to help take care of Hehe in the name of Gan Dad.
It can be seen that he wants to accompany Hehe, and if he has the second eldest, he will also be reluctant to let go easily, right?
However, let him see, how will the Xie family accept that the object of Fang Yinuo's cheating (ex-husband) dangles in front of them from time to time in the name of seeing the child?
Every time Xie Tianhua saw Xiao Lu, even if he accepted it at the beginning, for a long time, could he not respond?
Can the relationship with Fang Yinuo be smooth?
Fang Yinuo was going to give Xie Tianhua a child after all.
The relationship here will only become more complicated and complicated, and it will be difficult to explain to all the children in the future why their mothers and fathers (adoptive fathers) will also conceive another man's child and give birth to the second son after marriage.
At that time, the second most hurt is not born as a tool person, but after birth, whether he can save his sister or not, his/her existence is a reminder of a fact that cannot be ignored by the Xie family, the Fang family, and the Xiao family: he chiseled open the cracks between the Xie Fang family, the Xie Xiao family, and the Fang Xiao family.
Saving the grass is temporary, and the follow-up after saving people is permanent.
If the second eldest's cord blood match is successful and Hehe is saved, perhaps Fang Yinuo is grateful for this child and will be better for him/her for the time being.
But over time, the Xie family's prejudice against the child, the Xiao Lu family's non-compliance with the child, and the deepening diaphragm response in Xie Tianhua's heart will eventually be projected on the harmony of Fang Yinuo and Xie Tianhua's marriage.
Fang Yinuo's marriage is unhappy, will she find a reason for herself?
Not necessarily.
At least, in her marriage to Xiao Lu, she did not introspect herself, but instead held a "beautiful" divorce feast, and at the same time announced to outsiders: I divorced because Xiao Lu cheated, not because we had problems ourselves.
So, once her marriage with Xie Tianhua has cracks because of this, will she push the responsibility on the second brother who is not expected to be born and raised, and even resist and complain about the second brother?
With Fang Yinuo's personality, she completely did such an "eccentric" thing.
What if cord blood matching is not successful?
That's even more tragic.
Can't wait for the bone marrow matching, and the mission of the second elder can't be realized, which means that Hehe can only wait for death.
A child who is useless and dragging his feet, can the Fang family and Fang Yinuo have a good face for this child who caused a crack in Xie Tianhua's relationship with Fang Yinuo?
Throughout the whole drama, the most direct manifestation of Fang Yinuo and Fang Jia doing anything is to first themselves, and then others, I am not wrong, it is the fault of others.
The second elder can't save Hehe, fang Yinuo's mother will not complain?
She is good to take the big Hehe, the feelings are deep, now the second oldest, can not save the Hehe, but also became the daughter's marriage in the knot, this knot, and her former son-in-law has never been waiting to see can not be broken, she can calmly treat the second?
According to Fang Yinuo and her mother's style of doing things, whether the second elder can save Hehe or not, he/she is here with them, and he really can't please him.
What about the second and dad?
The first question that Fang Yinuo had to solve with his father was the question of how Hehe thought.
When the second eldest was born, Hehe was five or six years old and fully understood many things.
She watched her mother have a big belly and a baby, but in the blink of an eye, her brother/sister is the child of "Uncle Xiao" and has to live with the "Uncle Xiao" family, how to explain this?
Of course, it is still simple to explain the coming and going of the second elder to Hehe.
More difficult to deal with, in the back.
Xiao Lu and Dong Fan did not divorce, which means that Dong Fan is also in xie Tianhua's above situation.
Originally, she simply could not accept sending her husband to the ex-wife's bed.
Going around, Xiao Lu didn't even explain and discuss, he directly did things with Fang Yinuo, the child was born, she didn't accept it or not.
She has been "generous" enough to send her husband to bed with her ex-wife and have to help them raise children?
Women are originally delicate-minded, pondering, and thinking about sensual animals, she is not as licking a dog as Xie Tianhua, nor does she have the rationality and generosity of a man like Xie Tianhua.
The second elder eased the relationship between Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo, not to mention, what is more fatal is that Xiao Lu did not completely let go of Fang Yinuo, with the involvement of the second elder, Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo's contacts will only be more, Dong Fan can accept it?
The stepmother is difficult, good or bad, and it is easy to be blamed.
After the second eldest was born, if Fang Yinuo was fed by himself, the child would have to stay by her side for more than half a year or even a year, would Fang Yinuo not give up and come out from time to time to interfere?
If Fang Yinuo did not want to feed himself and made up his mind to give the child to Dong Fan from the beginning, would Dong Fan still have to bring such a newborn baby and become a mother in advance?
He has not yet given birth, first of all, to the husband and the child born to the cheating object as a nanny, Dong Fan can be happy?
Dong Fan is not willing, does the child have to hand over the unreliable high color screen?
Can Fang Yinuo rest assured that the old things will happen again? She was not at ease, so she had to run to xiao's house to point fingers, just like when her mother went to Xiao's house to occupy the magpie's nest.
Can Dong Fan feel comfortable in his heart?
The second elder chiseled open the crack in xie tianhua and Fang Yinuo's marriage, why not chisel the crack in dong fan's marriage with Xiao Lu?
Even if Fang Yinuo doesn't love Xie Tianhua so much, the two of them still have more than ten years of love, what is Dong Fan and Xiao Lu? Once she understood that Xiao Lu's other party's promise was not dead, the existence of the second eldest would only make Dong Fan become hysterical.
In order to save the daughter born to his ex-wife, the husband cheated and gave birth to a second child, the key is that he still loves his ex-wife, not himself, this normal woman can't bear it.
Fang Yinuo's womb is problematic, it may not be able to get pregnant at once, if it does not work once, then the second elder may be pregnant many times later.
Dong Fan was kidnapped by Morality, for the Virgin of Hehe once twice or three times, Dong Fan can still be a Virgin for a lifetime?
Well, even if none of the above is a problem, what about the growth and mental health of the second eldest?
Who will take care of his emotions?
This kind of thing can't be hidden at all, especially the time of his birth is so special, it was conceived by both parents after marriage, he knows the truth, what do you think?
Will you think: It turns out that my mother really doesn't want me, and I have no other use except to give my sister a life-saving straw, so my mother doesn't want me.
Father, mother, father, mother, grandmother, grandfather, grandparents... All do not want to see themselves, how can the second brother be healthy and grow up carefree?
Saying a thousand ways and ten thousand, in fact, it boils down to a question: who should the child's father be?
That's an interesting question isn't it?
The kind provided by Xiao Lu, why is there still such a question?
The key to this lies in how Fang Yinuo's mother chooses.
Choosing Xie Tianhua, that is, the situation of not wanting to divorce, that is, as mentioned above, the child has to face the dislike of the Xie family, has to face Xiao Lu's high color screen from time to time to recognize relatives, and also has to face Fang Yinuo's hysterical resentment.
In fact, there are two answers to choosing Xiao Road.
Or, Fang Yinuo divorced Xie Tianhua, Xiao Lu divorced Dong Fan, and Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu remarried for the sake of two children, but this option, draining all the above thunder, is still a reluctant solution.
But the problem is that Xiao Lu is still in love, but Fang Yinuo is not necessarily still in love.
Two people can be so far away from the chicken and dog jump, and now the probability of harmony and happiness for the child is about not high.
Or, as said earlier, directly raising the child to Dong Fan will also produce the problems mentioned above, and the second brother will have to face the same stepmother, the Dong family's displeasure and embarrassment.
As viewers, we watched as Fang Yinuo gave birth to Hehe, married life in a chicken feather, three adults with a baby to get a vaccine, but also make the chicken fly dog jump.
Now, Hehe is sick, and there is another cub, who cares?
Fang Yinuo did not divorce Xie Tianhua, and Xiao Lu did not divorce Dong Fan, but these two people had no burden of accepting the fact that "come to the truth" and regenerate one.
Almost at ease, how fierce are the hearts of these two people who demand that the other half accept their cheating and have other children? How fine is the abacus?
In the name of love, it hurt Xie Tianhua, Dong Fan, newborn children and even more people.
Is this great or selfish?
Saving Hehe is important, but for the sake of a hope that may not succeed, ruining the lives of new children and others, how did they do it?
If Fang Yinuo and Xiao Lu really have a bottom line, then, before they want to have another one, they will at least take the initiative to discuss with Xie Tianhua and Dong Fan separately, and then divorce, right?
But they didn't.
It is a fact that the children did not say whether they were born or not, but they went to the hotel to open a room without divorce.
Even if it is not done in the end, is this attempt to open a house in the name of having a child not a derailment?
Count.
Attempted murder is also a crime, and cheating is not cheating?