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1. Stupidity that is not good for health cannot be committed
Health is the most basic condition for everyone to pursue their dreams and start all actions. Without a healthy body, you can't do anything you want with a lot of strength.
Having more than enough and not enough is the most frightening, so maintaining good health is the responsibility of each of us. Since it is a responsibility, you can't be sloppy, this is responsible for yourself, but also responsible for life.
As the saying goes, people in the rivers and lakes can't help themselves, in order to expand interpersonal relations, open up connections, so more and more liquor bureaus, some people have to toss several times a day, it doesn't matter whether the stomach is uncomfortable, in short, as long as it can still last, it will definitely drink a dark night.
Friendships through drinking are often difficult to maintain for a long time, and ultimately come with dignity and physical discomfort.
So, don't do anything that's not good for your health.
2. Let the children nibble on the old stupid can not be committed
Every child is the palm of the parent's baby, whether they are babies waiting to be fed, or adults who have grown up, in the eyes of their parents, they will always be children.
I can't bear to let them suffer, suffer, be wronged, just want to use their best strength, while they still have the ability, to provide them with the best of everything.
Some parents, who do not grasp the scale of their children's love, are overly doting, and have developed the habit of opening their mouths and clothes from an early age. So when they grow up, they not only don't know the pain of their aging parents, but also think that their parents should be responsible for their own lives.
In life, we can see some people, thirty or forty years old, they have no job, they are nestled at home all day, they stay up late every night to play games, they sleep until they can't afford to go to the sun, they are muddy all day, they eat and drink together, and they rely on their parents' meager living expenses to live.
This is the typical "nibbling old people". As a parent, we must cultivate our children from an early age to have a correct three-dimensional cognition. Otherwise, if you harm the child, you will also suffer yourself, and you can only swallow bitterly into your stomach.
1. Do not interfere in the education of children
Data shows that "68% of children were raised by grandparents." ”
Therefore, "generation-skipping" has become the most common and natural phenomenon, and grandparents will always be a little doting on their grandchildren. In the education of children, they always feel that they are people who have come over and have certain experience, so they should "take the initiative" to intervene in the education of the third generation.
Xiao Wang's two sons, because they are usually busy with work and have no time to take care of their children, they sent the children to their parents to take care of them, and the children went to kindergarten and middle class, and they should have learned to eat long ago, but every afternoon after school, the children cried out that they were hungry and wanted to eat.
This is because when he eats in kindergarten, unlike other children, he has long learned to eat independently, so he can't feed it to his mouth for half a day with a spoon, resulting in being very hungry every day.
After returning home, the grandparents made a meal and began to feed, at this time, just when Xiao Wang came, he saw the child with his mouth open, waiting for the grandmother to feed the rice spoonful by spoon, and suddenly became angry.
He told the child that now that he has grown up, he must learn to eat on his own, and he can't always wait for the adults to feed, and the child cried loudly when he heard the criticism of his father, and the grandmother on the side was distressed, and began to accuse Xiao Wang, and then hugged the eldest grandson for comfort.
In this way, Xiao Wang's education of children will not play any role at all, and will also make children think that their fathers are wrong.
Therefore, the elderly are best not to interfere in the children's right to education of the third generation, and now in society, their concepts have not kept up with the development of the times, you can help take care of the grandchildren, but some things are best not to interfere.
2. Do not interfere in other people's idle affairs
You must have encountered this kind of person in your daily life, who loves to point fingers at other people's lives, and they always like to meddle in other people's lives and point fingers at other people's lives. They always feel like they're right and you should do what he says.
Lao Zhang in the community, is such a person, he is the janitor of the community, the occupants inside, he generally knows, usually he meets who in the yard, there will always be a cross-examination, met the 30-year-old Xiao Liu, he said: "Xiao Liu, why are you not married, when I am as old as you, the children have already gone to school, and young people can't just care about playing." ”
When he met Old Li, he said: "Old Li, your son graduated from college, he didn't see work, why don't you look for a job, you can go to entrepreneurship to try it." ”
In short, he always has his own set of theories, and he likes to meddle in other people's affairs, and it doesn't matter whether others are willing to listen or not, whether they will be disgusted or not.
Get along with people, or keep a certain distance, if you have to intervene in everything, manage too much, it will affect each other's feelings.
1. Do not borrow money for investment and wealth management
We always say that "wealth management is risky, investment needs to be cautious." ”
It is because investment and financial management is an invisible and untouchable thing, and you cannot predict what risks will be in the future, so when doing this, you must maintain a rational and cautious attitude.
If a friend tells you that he has recently been investing and wants to borrow some money from you, and tells you that the profits in it are very large, you must not be confused. If he earns, he gets rich.
However, if he loses money, the risk will be borne by you. Friends borrow money from you to invest, you must carefully consider. It is recommended that you try not to lend money to others for investment, because the investment is extremely risky and sometimes loses money.
No matter how high the interest rate is, the money involved in investment and financial management, do not borrow, do not be tempted by high interest.
2. Money beyond capacity is not borrowed
Although money is a touchstone to test whether the friendship between two people is good, if someone borrows money from you, the amount is not within the scope of their own losses, do not easily borrow.
As the saying goes, how much power there is, how much bowl of rice to eat.
People, the most important thing is to recognize themselves, we have to understand how much ability we have, things that are not within the scope of ability, if you hold on to do it, sometimes it will be a failure.
For friends, it is enough to do what you can, and to grasp the "scale" of money.