I believe that many parents with children have this feeling, when the child is held in the hand, it seems that it has been very deeply asleep, but as soon as it is put on the bed or the ass is on the ground, it immediately cries, it feels like installing a "locator" as accurate, so why do the children sleep quietly in their arms, put it down and wake up, what should parents do?
The reasons why children wake up when they put it down are:
Many parents in the coaxing baby when watching the baby has slowly fallen asleep, no extra action, quiet down breathing stable expression natural, at this time will think that the child has fallen asleep, and then can't wait to put the child down, but did not expect the child's ass to be on the bed eyes immediately open or immediately cry up, at this time basically declared "sleep" failure, restart mode, just like this into a "tug-of-war", in fact, The fundamental reason why children are easy to wake up is that when children first fall asleep, they are still in the level of light sleep, so it is easy to put it down and wake up!
So what should parents do in response to this phenomenon?
To change the child's sleep and put down easy to wake up, first of all, parents should be more patient, do not look at the child's eyes closed or just fell asleep soon after the psychology of putting down, and then to hold a relatively long time to prevent the previous efforts from abandoning, let the child enter a deep sleep state, and finally can move gently to put down. Here's a good tip for parents to try when the time comes to determine if their child is in deep sleep:
Parents can gently flick the child's arm, if the baby's arm is soft, it means that the child has entered the "relaxed" mode, the baby has entered the deep sleep mode. If you find that the child's arm has resistance, it means that the child is not yet fully asleep, and at this time, parents need to hug and coax it again.
The above methods have been tried, parents should still pay attention to take lightly, after all, the sleep quality of infants and young children is relatively low, so even if the babies are completely asleep, they still have to gently put it down! In this way, after a period of training, children will greatly improve their sleep style, and parents will not have to "fight wits" with their babies.
Here xiaobian and everyone to share some tips on how to put the baby back on the bed:
1, in the process of coaxing the child, you can first slowly bend the baby's hands and feet and body close together, the principle is like a cat, which can increase the baby's sense of security.
2. Put the baby's hands and feet together, and the most comfortable position is to put it on the baby's chest.
3. When putting down the baby, you can first put the baby's back on the bed, and then slowly rest your head on the side of the baby pillow, and then let go of the hand that holds the upper body, and tap the baby's stomach and chest from above.
4, infants like to bend to sleep, at this time you can gently withdraw the hand holding the lower body, and then use a blanket or quilt to quickly cover the gap to fill the joint, so that the baby is not easy to detect.
5. In the process of coaxing and sleeping, you can gently pat the baby's body until the baby is familiar with the new way of sleeping.
Some mothers will ask questions often in the process of coaxing babies to see the baby suddenly shake their hands and feet, at this time the mothers do not have to worry, this is due to the baby's current age, after birth, the nervous system and tissue structure have not yet developed perfectly, the function is not mature at this time, the muscle fibers and the nervous system are more excitatory, may sometimes the indoor noise is slightly larger, or adults in the work when encountering something loud, the baby will suddenly shake a little, after the baby slowly grows, The nervous system and cellular tissue do not appear when they are fully developed. This is accidental, mothers pay attention to creating a quiet sleeping environment for their children, and at the same time can dim the light in the room, which is conducive to the growth and development of the baby.
The method of relief at this time can be to gently press the hand on the baby's chest, slowly stroke to relax the baby's nervous system, can ensure the baby's sleep. Well, the above is today with you to share with you about the child-holding easy to put down the "difficult" parenting problems, if your child is also like this, you may wish to learn it!
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