Love is mutually beneficial, and so is marriage.
It is said that an unforgettable love can make people remember for a lifetime, even if they can't be together, this experience will make people remember for a lifetime, even if the object of marriage later is just the shadow of the ex.
In fact, I don't agree with this statement, time is the cure for everything, there is no time to grind uneven things.
The breakup may be uncomfortable at first, unable to accept the reality, and difficult to get out of that shadow.
If you pass the test of time, you will slowly find that there is no big deal, the lost love is just not suitable, and the person who gives up does not belong to himself.
However, in reality, many people can't open, can't understand, or don't want to understand, obviously broke up with the ex, but in their hearts they can't forget, break the connection, and finally cause the current misunderstanding, ruin the existing happiness.
Recently, some netizens broke the news that a woman went to see her ex-boyfriend at the beginning of the wedding, and came back 15 minutes later to find that her husband canceled the wedding, suddenly she was dumbfounded, and the man asked to withdraw from the marriage and refund all the bride price.
In other words, no one can accept it, and their bride still calls the ex before the wedding starts, so why get married if she doesn't put it down? This hurts 3 people.
Judging from the bride's actions, the groom did not take the groom to heart at all, and may have been forced to marry under pressure.
According to insiders, the bride and the ex talked for five years, and the final breakup was that the ex-boyfriend's family did not agree, and the bride was short and rural, so she did not agree and was forced to break up.
Heaven will not fail anyone to miss the sunrise. And the sunset.
The ex-boyfriend learned that the woman was getting married and came to the wedding site in advance, hoping to see the woman for the last time.
The groom sees that the relationship between the two is not ordinary, and then asks the bride, who is this person?
The woman could not hide it, so she told the groom: This is the ex-boyfriend I told you before, we talked for 5 years, we have not contacted him since the breakup, nor did I send him an invitation, this time I came to hope to see the last meeting, I hope the groom can give her a moment, she goes out to meet alone and comes back.
This makes the groom feel inexplicable, married to himself, not the ex-boyfriend, this time the two go out on a date, how embarrassing, the wedding is about to start.
But the woman still insisted on going out with her ex-boyfriend to meet, and the groom said angrily, you don't want to come back when you go out.
The woman had spoken angrily about the groom, and the ex went out.
After about 15 minutes, when the woman returned to the wedding scene, she was dumbfounded, there was no one at the wedding scene, only the waiter was cleaning up.
The woman asked what was going on, and the waiter told her that the groom had canceled the wedding, that it was no longer done, and that the money was gone.
The woman quickly called the groom, and the answer was that the wedding was canceled, and all the bride price would be refunded.
When the woman heard this, she cried loudly and regretted it.
I think the groom did the right thing, and no one can accept such a thing.
Since you feel married to someone else, what can't you put down your ex?
And also to go out with the ex at the wedding, what does this make the groom's face?
Even if it's been a decade of talking? Have broken up, indicating that it is not appropriate, since the decision to get married, should be single-minded to the incumbent, this is the loyalty to the marriage.
Eating in the bowl and looking at the pot, this mountain looks at the mountain high, such a life has not been long.
The beloved mountains and seas, mountains and seas can be leveled.