In the marriage market, girls are very sought-after, especially excellent women, which is generally the consensus of everyone.
But the female colleagues of their own institutions, there are several divorced, they can work, all aspects of the conditions are also good, there are a few with children, are girls, the age is not too big, 39 years old, 40 years old, the divorce time is also quite long, about five or six years, but now still single, do not know what happened? Is it because girls have high requirements and can't find the right one?
When people reach this age of divorce, it is really not easy to find a suitable partner. Although there is no experience of these female colleagues, it is conceivable that middle-aged remarriage has the so-called love and innocence, and some are only interests. Therefore, I advise you to live or will pass, at least there is a basis for feelings, all for the sake of children, for the common goal. Unless you think that after a divorce a person can be better off than they are now, instead of expecting that they will have a better life after marriage.
In fact, not to mention public institutions, several divorced women in state-owned enterprises and ordinary migrant workers and about forty or so individuals. It's hard to remarry, and the requirements aren't very high. So marriage or divorce is a big deal, divorce is still prudent, really don't look for the right one, unless you really can't go on.
Remember, divorce must not be for better remarriage, but because after the divorce a person can also live better than now, colleague C left, at the beginning I also felt that her fate was bitter, but after a year or two, more moist, parents help with the baby, earn their own money, not hard, she herself also said, in addition to the New Year occasionally feel lonely, most of the time very comfortable, she is not pretending, is the truth!
Colleague D divorced and took his son single for ten years, there was no strong desire to remarry at that time, and the child's parents lived very comfortably, until ten years later, he met his current husband, three months of flash marriage, two former children, a little girl, six years, our family of five is very harmonious. The happiness of remarriage is unattainable.