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In this society, the forest is big, and there are birds.
Wise people see society through, but they can't say it; foolish people, with black eyes, like to talk.
When people reach a certain age, they will enter society and have to join certain circles. For example, when you enter the workplace, you have a circle of work; often go to a hotel, there is a circle of eating and drinking.
Logically, with the development of life, the circle of friends will become larger and larger, and people who are accustomed to seeing and not being accustomed to it will squeeze in, and they can't kick it out casually. After all, life is not easy, no one knows, one day will need the help of friends. Friends of chicken singing dog thieves, at some point, can also be used.
Therefore, it is recommended that you have a good idea of all kinds of chaos in the circle. Generally speaking, the following kinds of people are "fake rich people" and must not be known.
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First, those who have received ill-gotten gains dare not spend their money.
Man, as long as the money comes from the right path, it can be spent openly and honestly, and if it comes from a crooked and evil road, it can only be secretly spent, or even hidden, and dare not spend it.
If you have money and dare not spend it, you can't spend it, it is a poor person holding gold, which is shameful.
In "The Surprise of the Second Moment Shooting", there is such a story: a man named Jia Lianjian was born in the Song Dynasty and lived in Deqing Province, Lingnan.
For a while, a friend Shang mou borrowed to live in Jia's house. Jia Lianguan immediately set his sights on Shang's gold and silver treasures, so he tried to find a way to get married--let his son marry Shang's daughter.
It is reasonable to say that the two families are combined into one, and the wealth is everyone's, but Jia Lian's visit is not satisfied. He made a fake paperwork and had it delivered to the merchant. The document said that local officials should receive VIPs and borrow gold rice bowls and silver carvings from merchants.
After Jia Lian visited and cheated the merchant's money, he did not know how to spend it. At the same time, the people on the street are spreading that the Jia family has embezzled the money of the merchants, and the relationship between relatives and families has also been disregarded.
Trying hard to get money, but never spending it, such a person, and the poor, what is the difference. The most hateful thing is that even the reputation is lost, and the gain is not worth the loss.
There is a good saying: "Skynet is restored, and it is not leaked." ”
If you meet a friend who has ill-gotten gains, you must be careful and keep your distance. When he invites you to dinner, you must see the situation clearly and do not mix with the "same stream".
Some insatiable people have countless money, but they can only be placed in the safe, and even try to hide in the walls and cellars, which looks really funny.
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Second, show off their people everywhere and pretend.
In psychology, there is a word called "vanity."
When a person is poor, his heart will be twisted, and he also expects to become rich. In order to satisfy vanity, he will do some "punching in the face" thing to make the people around him pay attention to himself. It is often a good joy, blind comparison, very concerned about the comments of outsiders, and a tendency to have a glass heart.
A friend of mine, who has been working in Guangdong for several years, has not been famous. At the New Year, in order to "return to the hometown" scenery, I borrowed the car in the factory and drove home.
When the friend arrived at the mouth of the village, he honked his horn vigorously and told the villagers that this car was worth hundreds of thousands of dollars. However, he plans to change a car in two years, because the car is a little old and the seats are uncomfortable.
On the second day of the Chinese New Year, my friend's car broke down in the middle of the road. Some people ask, what is the reason?
The friend blushed and said, there is no oil.
Waiting for an acquaintance to send gasoline, the friend could not find the button to open the fuel tank lid, which was extremely embarrassing.
There are always some people who not only have to borrow money to buy a car, but also borrow money to refuel. Or buy a car, park in the community, squeeze the bus to work, because the money for refueling is really uneven. It's funny that such people will say, "I'm squeezing the bus to experience life." ”
As the saying goes, "There is no silver in this place." ”
Most of the people who sing high-profile are hiding their inner loss.
In the WeChat circle of friends, I can still see such a phenomenon: idle, send a few pictures, prove that I went to a high-end place. In fact, he was a waiter in a high-end place, or a person who went to rub rice.
No matter what form of showing off one's wealth, the fundamental reason is to add a "fig leaf" to one's own life.
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Third, people who hate the rich and society are very poor in their hearts.
Knowingly, someone asked: "What will people who hate society do?" ”
The well-meaning netizen "Ionia's Thin Man" replied: Mostly because of the lack of responsibility and moral bottom line.
The main manifestations are: first, he hates everything in society and feels that all people cannot live with him; second, society owes him a lot of money and is eager to get it all back; third, he thinks that his contribution is great, and he is not equal to the current life.
Man, with the time to hate society and hate the rich, it is better to go to the construction site to do things, at least there is a day's salary, and there is happiness in sweat.
As a person at the bottom, it is useless to hate anyone; it is only useful to fight for one's own anger.
In society, there are unfair phenomena; God will not take care of all people. The dark side exists objectively, but society is good enough, we have come from the era of lack of food and clothing to the era when everyone has food and work.
Smart people, take hatred as a force, let themselves grit their teeth to make money, over time, they get rich, hatred will naturally disappear.
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Buffett said: "Money is a by-product, what really matters is the essence of work, money cannot buy happiness, and people's values are the most stable currency." ”
True wealth is a person's value to society, understanding of life, inner stability and enrichment.
In the circle of friends, the real rich man is always muffled and rich, and he can't wait for others to know that he has a lot of money and has a way to make money; he always lives a diligent and thrifty life, finds a way to cut out money, and makes plans for the future.
For example, Zhao Kuangyin, the emperor of the Northern Song Dynasty, suddenly wanted to eat lamb liver in the middle of the night, but did not say it.
After a few days, people around him asked him what the emperor wanted to eat, although the arrangement was good. He said that if it was arranged casually, many sheep would be killed and people would be blindly busy.
Under the guidance of Zhao Kuangyin, when the officials were sent to the hospital, the meals and meals they ate and drank were omitted; some officials went to their posts and insisted on walking, not horse-drawn carriages and palanquins.
Money, really can't be fake, fake real can't be true. It's just that people don't say it.
May you and I treat our friends with our true faces and live a down-to-earth life.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.