Today I saw several literary friends writing the circle of friends ten years ago, and it turned out that April 19 was the 10th anniversary of the launch of the circle of friends.
My heart was moving, and I couldn't help but open my phone to see when I had a circle of friends.
Once look at the earliest circle of friends is very troublesome, probably turned to dizzy did not turn to, now click on the circle of friends to open me, open their own circle of friends, the top of the left page will appear a gray toolbar, which says "2022". Click on it and you'll be able to find your circle of friends history by year and month.
Found, my circle of friends for seven years, that is to say, most people opened the circle of friends, I have.
I remember that the first circle of friends did not know what to send, just the wood fragrance flowers at home bloomed, so I took a picture of the wood fragrant flowers, writing: April in the human world is exhausted, and the wood fragrance in the courtyard begins to bloom.
Then, after a few months, I didn't send a circle of friends, nor did I read WeChat.
At that time, I was writing a blog in Sohu, and the excitement every day was that the article was recommended to the homepage focus chart, how much to read and how many comments...
What is the role of WeChat Circle of Friends? Not very well understood.
In 2015, an acquaintance of the editor sent an email inviting me to "Today's Headlines" and mobilizing me to open a WeChat public account, the editor said that the times are developing, and future reader traffic will go to mobile phone WeChat, like blog Weibo will gradually decline.
So I went to today's headlines, and the first article was read ten times more than the blog, which was exciting. Later, he opened a WeChat public account and began to write articles in WeChat.
Then, I began to forward my own articles in the circle of friends, and also learned to record my life, shoot flowers, and record them in WeChat immediately when I was inspired.
After sharing the article, the circle of friends began to take off.
Like The WeChat public account, the first fans are forwarded from the WeChat circle of friends, the more people who forward, the more people who see it think the article is well written, they will pay attention.
At that time, there were many marketing means to make the WeChat public account bigger and stronger, I also understood, but never did it, I only posted the article in my circle of friends, and even rarely sent it privately to whom, thinking that it was a kind of worry.
Many people have been added to the circle of friends, and the number has become increasingly long, and the interaction between micro-friends has become the most convenient diary.
At first, the circle of friends cared about liking comments, and some people wrote articles saying that the people who never liked you in the circle of friends must be people who didn't like you, and should be deleted and so on.
I also wrote an article called "Like or Not Like, I'm Only There Not Sad or Happy", but in fact, later I realized that likes are really just a form, don't care.
Someone has never really liked you and never interacted with you, but he has seen and appreciated the content in your circle of friends.
For example, after the publication of "Taste of HumanIty", a WeChat friend asked the staff to buy three hundred books, because of the large number, I think it should be discounted like a bookstore, but people say that you must not, your work is worth 100% of the value.
I wanted to see his circle of friends, there was only a horizontal line, and I didn't know if it had never been sent or blocked. After buying the book, this friend was silent in the circle of friends again, never interacted, did not like, and people did not send a circle of friends, so I did not even have the opportunity to like it.
Another time I received a screenshot of a WeChat chat, but a person who often liked me in the circle of friends and often praised me in private messages said... Anyway, it is not a good word, it is estimated that this person must think that the person who chatted with her is her confidant, but did not expect that people changed hands and sold her - that is nothing to say, such a person must be deleted.
So we really don't care about liking or not liking. Don't chat with people with the letter, know that there is now a term called WeChat screenshot.
The man who invented the circle of friends must have been a witty person. You see, through likes and posts, you find that your two friends have known each other for a long time, or have just met.
For example, if an employee sends an overtime chart in the circle of friends, the boss of a common friend looks at it and thinks that this is a good employee and then likes it, but the employee's wife can't see that the boss likes her husband. The wife left a message scolding the boss for being a vampire, regardless of the worker's life and death... But the boss and his wife are not mutual friends, so the boss can't see that someone is scolding him, and the relationship is harmonious.
Of course, if one day the wife and the boss add friends to each other, it will be bad! Because the boss will immediately see this woman scold him - so, we try not to say bad things about others in the comment area, just like we go to see other people's works, think it's good, like it, think it's bad, and turn around and leave. Don't make the wrong brain, be a good teacher, have to talk on people's turf to appear how much erudition and versatility, really, such people are very annoying, except to be blacked out forever and shut up there is no actual benefit.
My circle of friends is about three parts:
One is to share your own articles; the second is to take pictures of the flowers and plants in the courtyard and the tea you usually drink; the third is a video or a photo of the trip.
Ben is a person who goes his own way, basically what he wants to send, of course, there are principles, such as some political overtones do not send, do not know the true and false do not send, do not do business. It's just a matter of documenting some inspiration or seeing goodness.
Until today, seven years later, many people have stopped sending a circle of friends, I am still singing a monologue, still shooting flowers and tea, in a sense, the circle of friends is actually sent to myself.
People who like to write articles or take pictures probably have to find a safe home for their hard work, but they are often disappointed.
A few years ago, I found that the Sohu blog was closed, and a few days ago I heard Wenyou say that the Sina blog was also closed, the ever-changing Internet, will the WeChat circle of friends also be closed one day?
Idle, I will also flip through the circle of friends, recall the mood of sending these circles of friends at that time, look at those comments, and then click on the beginning like looking back, some friends are either absent or have been set for three days to see.
Some say seven years is a boundary, 7 years, 84 months, 2555 days.
When I was a child, I thought that life was slow, and after middle age, I felt that 7 years was just a blink of an eye, and when I looked back, the years were as small as a grain of sand, and we and many people were scattered in time.
Sometimes we feel that 7 years is long enough to change a person's fate and life, and we unconsciously come to the current situation of life.
The circle of friends recorded everything, and in 7 years, a lot of things have changed.
The things I want to forget the most become memories, and the most profound moments are lost in the years.
You metamorphose in the struggle, and you also become an adult in the wandering.
The only constant is that my heart remains the same.
Seven years of circle of friends, those who have helped me and encouraged me are never forgotten, and her or their compassion and kindness will always remain in the heart. People who are nostalgic for the past must not be affectionate, but they miss the innocent enthusiasm they once had, or the beautiful yearning for the future in their hearts.