Wen 丨 West Wing has feelings
Time is not long, may you be in my words, see you not too late!
In fact, from the moment of birth, love is hidden in every corner of this world, hidden in all aspects of life.
And some people in this world have not discovered it because they have not used their hearts to feel and observe.
In fact, love and no love can never be deliberately disguised, as long as you feel love with your heart, you can always find traces of love somewhere around you.
So, don't think it's really hard to feel love and discover love, if it exists, then it must be in your life, in your life.
And if you want to see it, then you may wish to polish your heart, feel it with your heart, feel it in every detail of life, and you will be able to find love and care about you.
When chatting with readers, people often ask Ximei: "Do you say that he loves me or not?" ”
In fact, others cannot "diagnose" love, because love and non-love, only those who are in it have the most feelings.
So, put away all your wild thoughts and stop speculating about the person around you who is guarding you.
If you are always suspicious, look for answers in all aspects of your life. You know, how much a person cares about you can be observed.
Observe if he cares about you
A person who really cares about you will care about you, will care about you, will put his mind and energy on you, this instinct out of love, he can't control it.
If you want to know if the person standing next to you really cares about you, then you are watching in your life whether he cares about you.
When you come home tired after a day of work, does he give you appropriate condolences; when you are sad and sad and crying, will he come to your side desperately and share with you;
When you encounter difficulties, does he appear in time to give you the help you can; when you are usually sloppy and careless, whether he helps you pay attention to and take care of you;
When your opinion disagrees with him, does he take care of your emotions and compromise with you; when you have occasional arguments, will he back down and take care of your emotions...
If he is, then it is obvious that he is indeed a person who cares about you, loves you, and you are a person you are worth entrusting for life.
Love is like this, it is not a specific point in time, or a specific existence in something. Love is integrated into life, and people who really care about you will care about you in every way.
Observe whether there are any traces of you in his WeChat circle of friends
A person who really cares about you, he will consider your emotions, care about your mood, will understand your gains and losses and insecurities, and will also act accordingly to take care of your emotions.
Therefore, when you have doubts, you may wish to go to his WeChat circle of friends to check the traces to see if he has made the relationship between you public and whether he cares about your mood of gain and loss.
If he generously shares the bits and pieces between you in the circle of friends, and makes you generous to the public, then it is obvious that the person standing next to you is the person who is really in your hands.
Only people who care about you will leave your relationship with other members of the opposite sex for you, and only those who care about you will take care of your emotions and guard your insecurities.
Not only that, but the person who really cares about you, his circle of friends is often related to your emotions, he will celebrate for you, and he will also be lost because of you.
Someone who doesn't care so much about you, or doesn't care about you at all, you can hardly find your figure in his circle of friends, and you can't influence his words and deeds.
Observe if he has affected emotions because of your things
A person who really cares about you will be affected by your emotions because of your every move.
If you are sick, then he will become anxious; if you quarrel, then he will become sad because of the quarrel between you;
If you are angry, then he will become helpless; if you are overjoyed by something, then he will continue to add icing on the cake for you...
In short, when you care about whether you care or not, love and indifference will appear together.
A person who truly cares about you will be miserable because of your pain, will be sad because of your sadness, and all your actions will touch his heart.
Conversely, a person who doesn't care about you doesn't care about your emotions, your actions, your actions, or even your safety.
Even when there is a huge quarrel, he can sleep soundly and even happily play with others, drink and have fun.
So, obviously, whether you care or not is really obvious, as long as you observe carefully in life, you will be able to find out whether the person standing next to you really cares about you.
Love is actually reflected in the details of life, care is the same, he is not so difficult to find, but less than a pair of eyes to discover.
Therefore, in love, everyone should polish their eyes, observe the details of life with their hearts, and find out from the details whether that person really cares about you.