Who's in charge of my home?
It is said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult, in fact, the relationship between sister-in-law and brother-in-law is not simple, anyway, as long as the relationship between women is very delicate,
In a family, if there is no contradiction, there can only be one hostess in the house, otherwise the life of chickens and dogs is just around the corner.
Recently, I saw such a video,
The blogger called his sister-in-law, and without saying a word, she sent her daughter directly to her own house, because her daughter was going to junior high school.
Let the blogger take care of her daughter,
The blogger felt that this was the case, and he didn't say a word, which was too disrespectful to himself, and then quarreled with his husband.
After the in-laws found out about this, they called directly to scold the blogger,
For so many years, although the down payment of the house was paid by the in-laws, the blogger said that the mortgage was repaid jointly by the husband and wife.
In addition to the mortgage, his salary is all subsidized for the family.
is so dedicated to the family, but I didn't expect that in this matter, my husband and my in-laws came over to accuse me.
The blogger is really heartbroken,
So whose problem is it in this matter? Netizens are also discussing,
Here's what everyone has to say:
Is this your own home? Go to someone's house and don't say anything?
I've been in this situation before, and I'm going to do it.
In their eyes, they are family.
This sister is so ignorant, it's really bad!
In junior high school, do you want to live for at least three years? Who can bear this?
This is to look down on his daughter-in-law, but if he has her in his heart, he will not be like this.
Since people don't take you seriously, don't be polite to them.
No one will take care of it when you go back to your parents' house, but this is not your mother's house, which one will make trouble?
The eldest sister may still think that her brother's house is her home.
I also have a younger brother, but I know the difference.
Excessively! At the very least, it won't be the way it is.
This is what is here to find trouble, and for this kind of person, it cannot be connived.
Everyone is a family, how can you have so much energy to take care of your children?
Looking at the views of netizens, there are mainly two points, one is that the in-laws are really disrespectful, aside from the relationship between relatives, even if you go to the neighbor's house, you have to say it to others in advance.
What's the matter with sending people over like this?
The second is a half-grown child, is that a bowl of rice? Is it so easy to take care of an adolescent child?
Your own parents may not be able to handle it, you let your brother and daughter-in-law take care of it, in case something happens,
Whose is this?
However, there are also some netizens who have different voices, thinking that the woman is making too much of a fuss, and between the family, shouldn't they help each other? Since my sister sent her child over, there must be something inconvenient at home, otherwise no one would send her child to someone else's house.
At this time, what is more needed is support and tolerance among family members, rather than dislike.
Just a child, as long as you want to take care of it, it's not a difficult thing, this woman has too many things.
This woman is too unkind, and the family just wants to help each other.
In fact, no matter what aspect of this matter is said, it returns to the most practical problem, that is, family members must have a necessary "sense of boundary" between relatives.
No matter how good or bad the relationship is, before doing anything, think about one more step and say one more step,
Instead of cutting first and then playing, create contradictions at home!
What do you think about this?