It's hard to be a mother-in-law!
As a daughter-in-law, when it comes to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is really a bitter tear, but as a mother-in-law, when it comes to the issue of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is even more aggrieved.
Everyone thinks they are the most innocent,
Recently, I saw a blogger share that mother-in-law is also difficult to do, daughter-in-law just entered the door, which mother-in-law is not good to daughter-in-law,
But after living for a while, I found that I was nothing,
Still doesn't warm the daughter-in-law's heart,
Rather than just messing up like this, you can live how you want to live, and if you can't get used to seeing and listening, you can directly pick it out.
In fact, mothers-in-law still can't see it, you don't have the foundation of the previous 20 years, you just want to be like other people's mothers,
Is this realistic? If you want to "compete for favor" with other people's mothers, this idea should not be there.
This mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship, how to let the blogger analyze it, it feels more difficult to deal with,
Is this really the case in life? Netizens are also discussing, let's see what everyone says:
I think clearly, it's not my own child anyway, she accepts me no matter what.
Individuals just need to do their own thing, and no one should ask anyone.
Let go of yourself, let go of each other, and make life easier.
As long as we can respect each other, we don't think about anything else.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a social relationship, don't engage in the same way as relatives.
The mother-in-law pays mainly for her son, and don't always think that she is paying for her daughter-in-law.
In fact, it is to help her own son, and it has nothing to do with her daughter-in-law.
It's not a group, so why do you have to pretend to be a family?
Don't try to be intimate with anyone, and maintaining a relationship can reduce conflicts.
It seems that some netizens have seen the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law very thoroughly, these two identities seem to be a family, but in fact, to be clear is the only way to reduce conflicts.
So from the very beginning, don't think about who will pay for whom, who will sacrifice for whom,
But some netizens feel that the problem of the daughter-in-law is even greater, and the mother-in-law, as an elder, must want the juniors to live well the most, so she gives everything she has regardless of any return.
But can a daughter-in-law be grateful? No! Not only will it not, but I also think that this is all an "illusion", how can you make sense of this?
That's it, my mother's decades of hard work, in the end, it's still not warm.
is such a straightforward relationship, and daughters-in-law are not easy to get along with.
If you don't take care of your family, will you still treat your mother-in-law as your mother?
There are also some netizens, as long as she is a good mother-in-law, she is her own mother, but her daughter-in-law has done it all, what about her mother-in-law? From the beginning, the daughter-in-law was an outsider to others, how could it be a family?
Isn't it that the mother-in-law can't cover her daughter-in-law, and the mother-in-law's heart is so hot? Just as hard!
I'm a daughter-in-law, treat others well, are they really treating me?
In fact, the matter of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can only be said to be unable to change others, so you have to change yourself, just do your own duty, and ask too much for others to cause contradictions.
Not to mention mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is any kind of relationship that requires too many and there will be conflicts.
Based on the information around them and on the Internet, as long as the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live together, there will always be unhappiness, so it is best to live separately, and meet in the same city at most once a week, and you can be polite.
The most straightforward is that sentence: far fragrant and close to smelly.
What do you think about this?