The happy story of the girl in '93

Case: I am a 93-year-old girl, settled in a new first-tier city, met my husband last year, and got married this year.

In terms of personal conditions, the work appearance and personality emotional intelligence are good, just the family background is general, the parents have a pension without burden, there is not much help, and there is a younger brother in school below.

Looking for the object, the family base is better than me, the only child, the height of the education work is good, the key is good character, good tutoring, the new first-tier cities have a house and a car, I really feel that I am lucky, I can find a good person to marry when I am 30 years old, I am very grateful.

At first, I didn't have any hope for the dating software, but I didn't expect that my husband was picking up leaks for me on it.

At that time, he was in the empty window period, so he went on the blind date APP to find a partner, and I just met him.

He is a long-term, responsible boy who has talked with his ex for a long time, has been procrastinating, and has been divided and merged many times in the middle.

After breaking up for a while, he finally came out and started dating again.

Husband's ex is a woman, talked for several years, will torture the husband, and finally mentioned that the breakup is also what she mentioned, the husband feels helpless, the age is dragged, which shows that many of the women's exs are good men.

The husband is more diligent, he is responsible for cooking and cooking at home, and with his predecessor, he also cooks.

He said that he wanted to find a good wife and mother type, who could cook for him, but every time he made a choice, he cooked for the object, haha.

I actually came out on a blind date quite early, at that time, the family, colleagues and friends around me introduced more, there was a formal talk, but the man talked about marriage when he was very chicken thief, the dog blood in this does not want to say more, I can't accept, broke up.

After I broke up, I adjusted for a few months, and in the eleventh holiday of that year, I began to enter the stage of crazy blind date, spread the information that I wanted to find a partner as much as possible to all the people around me, and also used online dating software, public welfare and non-public welfare red brides, offline various blind date activities, various company friendship activities, etc., and tried to know more people.

But this continued until the beginning of last year, when I still didn't find a partner, but I met a lot of good and interesting boys and girls, and tried a lot of new things, skiing, go-karting, script killing and so on.

There will still be some self-doubt in my heart, after all, I have been able to find a satisfactory partner within three months of my previous blind date, and I feel that my requirements are fine, and I may not have arrived.

Then it went on until after May Day last year, suddenly my peach blossom luck got better, there were three candidates at that time, introduced by my parents, introduced by friends, and my own social software to know, are quite satisfied, they also have the meaning of further development, and finally I chose the current husband, he looks the tallest, the best personality, I like it.

I mainly stayed in the blind date market for a long time, and then I was still more rational, I was also a science student since I was a child, and I was more able to plan important things in my life, and at important life nodes, I did not drop the chain.

In short, we can't give up, blind date to later, will be physically and mentally exhausted, all kinds of doubts, but you have to adjust the state to continue to start, good business, seriously find the right person for you.

Summarizing my example can give you a reference point: First, come out early and go on a blind date, before entering a long-term relationship, you should consider clearly, you are planning to marry him, if not, it is better not to talk about it, the youth of girls is very precious.

Second, more than a review, through blind date, you can review their own external MV and internal MV problems, if it is an external MV, it is very simple, weight loss + get good skin + open double eyelids + will wear, basically can be on 5.5 points, over this line, many boys you feel good, are willing to meet the second face to know more about you.

The inner MV is the problem of getting along with boys, some traditional boys who can still have substances, they will want to find a girl who is comfortable to get along with, does not pull crotch in all aspects, and looks like a girl.

This has to be practiced through love, long-term relationships, and more blind dates of the opposite sex.

I think this is particularly important, you see some girls hardware is not the most prominent, but can marry well, they win at this point, especially will deal with gender relations, know how to get along with boys.

The third point: when you are single, keep yourself in a fluid, open state, most of the blind date channels in your city, you can try, just protect yourself.

There is no channel in this world that can solve our problem perfectly, and no introducer is absolutely reliable, we hold the mentality of opening a blind box to try, maybe there is someone you want there.

Fourth point: It is true that girls will be less popular when they are older than when they were younger, but that's it, you have to work harder, because every day you are now younger than every day after that.

Fifth point: when you meet the person you want to associate with, I ask that you can get married in about a year, if it is not suitable for marriage, I will not delay the time,

Girls' youth is too short, I came out so early to go on a blind date, but also very hard, but also dragged until this year to get married, you should cherish your youth more.

The above five points are what I think are more important and I want to share with you, hoping to bring you positive energy.

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