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"Mom, I always use a pen to prick me at the back table", the child has been wronged, and the mother's practice is a textbook

"Mom, I always use a pen to prick me at the back table", the child has been wronged, and the mother's practice is a textbook

In fact, some time ago, I brushed a lot of incidents about campus bullying on the Internet, at that time I still thought that what era was it, how can there be campus bullying? Unexpectedly, this kind of thing actually happened to my daughter. I replied, and then in the past few days, I found that my daughter's mood has been very low, until noon today, my daughter told me that some classmates bullied her, is she hated?

When I heard about this, I felt very sad and shocked. I know that if I don't ask at this time, the child will think that I don't care about her, but if I talk too hard, it will cause a bad impact on the child and make the child afraid of me.

"Mom, I always use a pen to prick me at the back table", the child has been wronged, and the mother's practice is a textbook

After pondering for a while, I hugged my daughter tightly and told her, Baby, first of all thank you for telling your mother about these things, and my mother understands you and knows that my precious daughter is sad.

But, baby, your idea is wrong, Mom should look like this:

Baby, there's nothing wrong with being kind, but you can't indulge the mistakes of others. When others bully you, it's not you who is wrong, it's the person who bullied you. In the face of this situation, the baby should be brave enough to say no, to tell him that you will be unhappy if he does this. If he still doesn't change, you have to tell your mother or teacher and we'll help you deal with the situation.

"Mom, I always use a pen to prick me at the back table", the child has been wronged, and the mother's practice is a textbook

After falling asleep at night, I remembered a small story I had seen and felt inspired. l

One girl told her mother that someone at school said she was not good-looking and ugly.

The mother asked her daughter, what do you say?

The girl said, I told the girl that I came to school to go to school, not to be better looking than anyone.

This kind of thing may be staged in various places every day, but the parents' way of handling it is different. At this point we should tell the child:

Compared to having a good looking skin bag, good upbringing is the most important.

Appearance is something we can't change, but kindness is something we insist on throughout our lives.

Not only do we have to protect ourselves from denigrating others, but we also have to protect ourselves.

Beautiful appearance will eventually pass over time, and enriched knowledge will always be your thing.

Study hard and improve your abilities, the book has its own golden house, and knowledge is the greatest wealth.

"Mom, I always use a pen to prick me at the back table", the child has been wronged, and the mother's practice is a textbook

In fact, many children have told their parents about such problems, and many parents have not paid attention to them. This will have a great impact on the child, and parents should correctly deal with these problems of the child and reduce the harm of these things to the child.

Of course, parents should also teach their children to face these problems, after all, the help provided by parents is an external factor, and it is also necessary for children to have their own ability to completely get rid of these. I suggest that parents can accompany their children to read the comic version of the "Anti-Bullying Enlightenment Picture Book", which has many such small stories, which can help children prevent and correctly respond to school bullying incidents in advance.

"Mom, I always use a pen to prick me at the back table", the child has been wronged, and the mother's practice is a textbook

The set consists of eight themes and eight volumes. Combined with the reality of life, close to reality, teach children to understand school bullying.

"Mom, I always use a pen to prick me at the back table", the child has been wronged, and the mother's practice is a textbook

Today's school bullying is different from the previous one, and the "new type of bullying" is quietly coming.

"Mom, I always use a pen to prick me at the back table", the child has been wronged, and the mother's practice is a textbook

This set of books tells us that the forms of new types of bullying are: ridicule bullying, rumor-mongering bullying, exclusion bullying, ignoring bullying, nickname bullying and so on. No matter which form it takes, the harm caused to the child is very large. I hope that all parents can pay attention to helping their children avoid these harms, and also teach their children not to hurt others.

"Mom, I always use a pen to prick me at the back table", the child has been wronged, and the mother's practice is a textbook

A set of books to teach parents and children how to correctly face and effectively solve the problem of bullying in school, escort the healthy and happy growth of children, and support a blue sky for the healthy growth of children's physical and mental health!

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