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Before I wrote an article, it probably said that when the mother does not follow the child's ass every day to nag this and nag, do not want a bunch of dispensable broken rules just to make themselves cool to control.
Kids are annoying.
At the same time, I compared my father's way of education: giving full respect for recognition and freedom of exploration.
It's not about ignoring the child, not about managing the child in that very coercive way of nagging and chicken babies.
After all, discipline requires majesty and prioritization.
If it is too trivial, it will not have the majesty of the matter.
Because you say 800 times a day that you can't do this can't that can't that can't do that, this can't be that, the child is tired.
When a child thinks of you, it is the kind of jailer supervisor face that forces a lot of things, and it is too late to escape, which greatly affects the parent-child relationship.
And these can't be this can't be, in fact, even if the child finds out that even if it is done, it is not a big deal, at most it is exchanged for a few words of nagging, and there is no majesty to speak of.
I am a firm marriage baby pie, because my dad has a special weight in my life, I hope that my baby also has a good dad who can accompany him growing up, especially girls, it is really important to have a good dad.
As a result, this thing was written, the article exploded, and some old ladies collectively broke the defense.
They were very angry and said that I had achieved what I had now, and that my mother had forced me to recite poems.
The problem is, I studied sports and my dad was my coach.
But those poems were memorized in vain.
Did my dad ignore me?
Practicing sports is very hard, many people run a vomit 800, at least one day a week, I have to run four 800 timing runs, each time impact full force. The other training days were not easy, because I was halfway out of the house, only a few months before the college entrance examination, and every day was the training volume of other sports students x2.
As far as the average sports student training volume is concerned, there are a few people who can hold up, and you go and ask my dad if I have ever installed a stunt when I practice sports.
In addition to letting me recognize words early and cultivate a sense of language, the other parts of my mother's persecution have no use in casting the Chicken Baby Dafa on me.
Other more useful is intellectual development, maybe the logic problem in the civil servant's line test, I have been doing since I was a child. But I don't hate this section of intellectual development, it's very interesting, and I will do this when I never recognize words in the future.
Language is analogous to other children's early wisdom, and it does not rely on memorizing poems, but on memory and repetition. The stories she told, I want to be able to tell them from beginning to end, and describe the logical relationships myself and even make up other open-ended endings before I can listen to the next story.
These are all great educational methods, much more targeted than those who blindly compare themselves to reading thousands of picture books a year.
[Listened] and [will speak], one is input, one is output. Language expression is more than output ability, whether it is verbal output or future text output.
All the things my mom did in education that made me hate didn't do me much for my growth, and even dragged me back.
So now I'm going to rough up the sperm, leaving the useful places behind, and getting rid of the useless work she has done to hurt others and hurt herself, is there anything wrong with that?
She was a mother for the first time, she had no experience, no contrast, and felt the stones to cross the river.
The first time I was a mother, I took other children, I had experience, comparison, and my own thinking. Why is it so black and white?
Those women who broke through the defense, it is estimated that the level of education is not even comparable to my mother's toes, and their so-called education is to nag and nag every day.
I really think it's incredible that they have the face to run over to empathize with my mom and firmly uphold the importance of those useless efforts.
I complained that my mom was just complaining about something she thought was politically correct and forcing us to carry it out.
I also bragged that if my mother had an Internet back then, she was at least an educational Internet celebrity with millions of fans.
It's just that this education internet celebrity may drop powder when the child is adolescence.
Because I completely picked up the pick and didn't learn.
So this thing is not a black and white thing in itself.
Excessive attention to children and inability to adjust their own educational policies according to their development needs is itself a kind of carving a sword.
When the child is young, there is no consciousness or ability to resist, it is likely that the child is obedient and sensible.
But the child always has a time to grow up, and when he grows up, he will want to explore more things, explore more lifestyles, and once his brain is fully developed, at least what is comfortable and what is uncomfortable can be perceived.
The uncomfortable part is communicated, but it is not alleviated, and normal people must either endure or resist.
When children find that their living space has been compressed to the point that not resisting will drive themselves crazy, the focus must be on resistance and human rights, rather than continuing to learn.
If my mother maintained her high-end education level as always, and could adjust her education policy in time, maybe I would not be bored with school.
We take the Teacher's Certificate in Pedagogy and Psychology.
She is at the top of the list in pedagogy and I don't think I can pass in psychology. Or that she went to bed in class and only learned the psychology of a child before graduating from elementary school.
And my dad got a dick in pedagogy and psychology. The first time he took a sports student, he didn't take any detours.
You see if it's okay, I will also talk to you about my views on my parents, summarize some of the very annoying parts of my parents, and then take it to the province.
Isn't it a disease to let go of the path of parents who easily recruit people to like, and to repeat the same mistakes and hurt others and hurt themselves?
Those old women who have broken the defense do not understand what self-examination is, nor do they consider whether their own education policies and education methods are good or not.
They think that the ends and means must be unified, as long as my purpose is good, no matter how garbage my means are, you have to accept my feelings.
If you mix well, that is my education well, if you mix well, that is, you don't argue and don't understand my hard heart, if you have to rely on my words, I will not educate enough, and I will force you to be a little tighter and you will be even more bullish.
So they blamed my achievements on my mother's persecution of me.
But in fact, my success came from my mother's development of my early intellect and sense of speech, as well as the vision and personality development that my father brought me.
The useless work that my mother forced me to do was really useless. Even if I am forced to eat vegetables, I am a sports student, and the skeletal muscles grow well, which is also fed more by milk, beef, fish, shrimp and eggs.
And I'm a carnivore myself, and eating these things doesn't need to be urged.
And there are so many kinds of vegetables, why do I have to eat what kind of bullshit pumpkin flowers. Why is eating pumpkin flowers politically correct? Why do I hate what I do and do it for me?
To put it bluntly, I can understand what these painful women are arguing with me.
Because I don't approve of this part of my mom, I make them afraid of what their children will say about them in the future when they go online.
They may be more persecuted than my mother, and at the same time they do not have my mother's educational ability.
So they will gain a child with mediocre learning ability and mediocre intelligence, but extreme rebellion, and even have seen this sign.
So it seems that after they have persuaded me, their children will not abandon them in the future, and they want to stand on this moral high ground.
So they brain patched up my dad actually didn't do anything, sharply attacked my dad lazy, I really laughed off the big teeth.
We read that article together.
The small partner of the public account, which reading comprehension is not good enough to see that my father does not work?
And they projected the part of their husband's non-work into my house, insisting that my father was a man who did not work with a slippery tongue, and that this hateful man had the respect and dependence of his daughter from the heart.
So this portrait is very clear:
The education level of the two children is not good, the husband is a hand-throwing treasurer, he has worked hard to die chicken baby, the child may have signs of resistance.
Well, now there is a person who writes an article that is still sharp, and completely denies the positive effect of the chicken baby in death on the development of the child's personality.
Deny the maternal love of the greatest sincerity they think they can come up with.
Even this article is written by a person who is still sharp, and his father picked the fruits of victory.
This is the result they are most afraid to see.
So they were going to come and argue with me, as if after the quarrel won me, their children would not dislike them.
It's really pathetic.
My friends who have not yet given birth to babies in my fans must not live like that.
It's so pathetic, it's so pathetic.